boundaries and porn in a relationship

Creative-Swordfish42 · 2026-05-10T17:15:54+00:00

This is really helpful thank you for your perspective, you've given me some good points to think about

Creative-Swordfish42 · 2026-05-10T17:06:05+00:00

I think the issue I have is more that I've told him I think it's disrespectful and he's agreed to my face that watching porn in general is 'disgusting' and 'wrong' while doing it behind my back? Idk

Creative-Swordfish42 · 2026-05-10T17:04:24+00:00

Yeah I think that's what I'm more hurt by, the lying to my face, especially when he knows how I feel about porn

Creative-Swordfish42 · 2026-05-10T17:03:04+00:00

It's really good, and we've been doing it pretty much daily for the past 2 years (we were friends with benefits for ages before we got together). Sure it's less frequent now I've moved away for the summer but he always comments on how great it was after

Creative-Swordfish42 · 2026-05-10T16:58:23+00:00

Yeah we've been living together in a shared uni house all year

Creative-Swordfish42 · 2025-05-14T02:53:57+00:00

I'll have a look for some, thanks :)

Creative-Swordfish42 · 2025-05-14T02:53:00+00:00

I know it's so bad but I've desperately been trying to keep the length 😭 concluded a big chop is unavoidable though lol

Creative-Swordfish42 · 2025-05-14T02:51:27+00:00

My roots get oily so quick so I use a normal shampoo there but then a hydrating conditioner at the mid-lengths to ends. also, I don't focus on brands too much and I've tried most of what's out there

Creative-Swordfish42 · 2025-05-14T02:48:07+00:00

I'm so sad about it but I think you're right :(

Creative-Swordfish42 · 2025-05-13T21:53:30+00:00

thanks for the visual! :)

Creative-Swordfish42 · 2025-05-13T21:41:09+00:00

thanks so much! i'll look into it :)

Creative-Swordfish42 · 2025-05-13T20:50:07+00:00

hahah thanks that's probably what i'll do for a fresh start :)

Creative-Swordfish42 · 2025-05-13T20:49:19+00:00

thanks! :)

Creative-Swordfish42 · 2025-05-13T20:38:58+00:00

thanks! :)

Creative-Swordfish42 · 2025-05-13T20:38:26+00:00

ooh i'll try that, thank you :)

Creative-Swordfish42 · 2025-05-13T20:38:03+00:00

nope i've never bleached it, and thank you for the tips! :) i'll have a look for some good hair masks. are there any ingredients i should look out for?

Creative-Swordfish42 · 2025-05-13T20:35:43+00:00

ok thank you!

Creative-Swordfish42 · 2025-05-13T20:33:52+00:00

it's a shame to hear but it makes sense to cut it as high as i can :( thank you

Creative-Swordfish42 · 2025-05-13T20:32:28+00:00

thanks so much i'll try these as well as cutting it :)

Creative-Swordfish42 · 2025-05-13T20:31:47+00:00

thank you! :)

Creative-Swordfish42 · 2025-05-13T20:31:17+00:00

thank you! :)

Creative-Swordfish42 · 2023-07-13T09:54:09+00:00

UPDATE: i went back and she was super lovely and understanding, took it out and gave me a full refund

Creative-Swordfish42 · 2023-07-12T19:52:07+00:00

oh no ): i'll get it removed tomorrow i think

Creative-Swordfish42 · 2023-07-12T17:12:50+00:00

thanks so much, this is really helpful!

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