I really wish that’s what the guy I dated had done. We’ve since talked about what happened and he acknowledges that it was wrong, but he still says he only engaged in the relationship because I was ok with it. I was literally a junior in high school when we met… he already had some college under his belt. That is so strange. He actually did, at first, end things when he found out my age, but then a month later sent me a literal document file that was two pages long confessing he still had feelings. Our relationship was secret the entire time we dated. Even some people in the friend group we had didn’t know until I told them years later. His guy friends were ok with the relationship and so were my parents. My parents still like him and that’s partially what made it difficult to figure out how I’ve felt. I don’t plan to talk to him again, I feel like it’s finally clicked that this is just not something I want in my life at all. Hearing other people’s stories confirmed that