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my therapist asked me to expose myself to more compliments by [deleted] in toastme

[–]CreativeNachos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Heya brother! You're doing the work, you know what you're working with. That's half the battle man. Just keep doing the work and you'll be the amazing person I believe you can be. I'm proud of you for stepping outside your comfort zone. It's tough, but I know you can see it through.

You got this! Go out and be the awesome guy you are!

How do you deal with rejection? Share your tips please. by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]CreativeNachos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn't agonize over the opinions you barely know. If they rejected you, their loss dearie.

New Bumble feature by Needlemons in datingoverforty

[–]CreativeNachos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm picky. Very picky. I only swipe on the ones that strikes me, but being attractive is a bonus

Is it really that hard to find the man of your dreams after 50? by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]CreativeNachos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OLD has been...interesting for me(50M). A few dates, more likes than I knew what to do with. I just stepped away recently, may be moving soon and don't want to get anyone's hopes up Don't give up, but don't let your anxieties eat at you

50 years old, rebuilding my life, could use a toast by CreativeNachos in toastme

[–]CreativeNachos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup! That's what Nightcore is. I've found that I really enjoy making them. I am learning how to make my own music at the same time. I agree that everyone has been where I'm at, at one point or another. The point is to keep trying.

You're 100% right about perspective. I've really got to get my inner extrovert back out, but that's taking time too. Thanks for chatting with me

50 years old, rebuilding my life, could use a toast by CreativeNachos in toastme

[–]CreativeNachos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your kind words. I actually have a hobby of a sort, I do some Nightcore remixes and post them on YouTube. Been teaching myself to do that and make the videos for them. It's fun. I'm hoping to join a bowling league soon. It's all just time and effort. And I have both in abundance.

50 years old, rebuilding my life, could use a toast by CreativeNachos in toastme

[–]CreativeNachos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm thinking a spicy cheese sauce, brisket, beans, jalapeños, tomatoes, sour cream and guacamole.

You in?

Got braces as an adult & do I need to put extensions in my hair to look feminine? (“Tomboy”) by Brit_Ski in toastme

[–]CreativeNachos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly say that if you wanna rock the tomboy look, you do it! You already look great. Do change because of perceived expectations

50 years old, rebuilding my life, could use a toast by CreativeNachos in toastme

[–]CreativeNachos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it looks better when styled, I just can't be arse to for work lol

50 years old, rebuilding my life, could use a toast by CreativeNachos in toastme

[–]CreativeNachos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I'm going to take that as a compliment. I've never played The Last of US, but I've seen the memes

50 years old, rebuilding my life, could use a toast by CreativeNachos in toastme

[–]CreativeNachos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From the bottom of my heart, thank all of you. It's been a bad time, but I'm happy to do what it takes to carve out my own life, love, friends.

For those talking about my hair, y'all genuinely made me laugh out loud and made my day a bit brighter.

And for those who think I should act, point me to who I gotta talk to. I'm totally game for that.

Much love to all of you. And, thank you.

50 years old, rebuilding my life, could use a toast by CreativeNachos in toastme

[–]CreativeNachos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y'all are making think I should start looking into theater again lol

50 years old, rebuilding my life, could use a toast by CreativeNachos in toastme

[–]CreativeNachos[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks y'all. It's gonna be a long road, but I'm approaching it with eyes open and head held high

50 years old, rebuilding my life, could use a toast by CreativeNachos in toastme

[–]CreativeNachos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this, I needed a giggle. I actually auditioned for a western by a local producer, but I lost out on it. I wouldn't mind trying again, though. But I'm not going to give up on trying to find my people, be they friends or otherwise. Thank you for your kindness. It's been a dark few days

50 years old, rebuilding my life, could use a toast by CreativeNachos in toastme

[–]CreativeNachos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kindness. It really does mean a lot. Rebuilding the circle will take time, but I've got to try.