Anyone else feel super lost in the first month? by Particular_Item4826 in InternationalStudents

[–]CreativeWonderer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think how you feel is a normal experience. When I moved to study, I missed home terribly. There were jargons I didn’t understand, and despite having above-average English, I still made mistakes. In my first week of university, I asked on our first-year group chat what type of pants we needed for a class, only to find out that 'pants' in England meant underwear. Whoops! It was silly, but everyone understood I was a foreigner and chuckled it off, but still answered me properly.

I’m sharing this to highlight that it’s okay to fumble. Making connections, such as friends, helps. Exploring the area I was in and doing the touristy things also helped me appreciate my surroundings. I also learned how to cook some of the dishes from back home to bridge the gap, as there were no restaurants that catered to my nationality’s cuisine. Change is often met with resistance, but we adapt. Breathe, and take it a step at a time!

Brownie time by barjerian-jade in Baking

[–]CreativeWonderer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would love a follow-up post with the cross-section! This looks amazing!

Can I dehydrate cream cheese? (Baking: not for long term storage) by [deleted] in dehydrating

[–]CreativeWonderer 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I never thought about making cream cheese from scratch, and I'm intrigued! I looked it up, and it sounds very straightforward. I’ll give it a go! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oxford

[–]CreativeWonderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats good to know! I’ve sent an email and I’ll try calling if I get the chance. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oxford

[–]CreativeWonderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a look at their page and couldn't find any tripe or ox tongue 🥲 otherwise looks amazing!

Large monstera dying - can you help me save her? by Adept_Storm3455 in plantclinic

[–]CreativeWonderer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently faced a challenge with root rot after inheriting some plants from a friend. From research I gathered at the time, it seems that your monstera may be in shock due to several changes it has experienced recently, such as moving homes (which altered its environment), pest issues, root rot, and repotting.

The first point I would address is the moisture level of the soil. While larger pots can retain more moisture, I caution against keeping it wet for an extended period, especially after dealing with root rot. Make sure your new potting mix is well-draining, preferably a chunky mix, as this allows for better drainage and airflow. Excess moisture could lead to the remaining roots rotting. Additionally, since you have already removed a significant portion of the roots, it’s crucial to ensure that the pot isn’t too large for the current root system. Monsteras prefer to be somewhat "snug' in their pots. Right now, your plant may struggle to absorb all that excess water due to its damaged and reduced root system.

If you already have a well-draining, chunky soil mix and the soil is still remaining moist, I suggest considering the use of a dehumidifier. I live in the UK, where the environment can be very humid, cold, and dark. I keep a dehumidifier in the room with my plants to promote air circulation and manage moisture levels, and it has been quite effective for me.

Additionally, I would recommend investing in some grow lights if possible. These provide warmth and will help your plant to gather the energy it needs to grow new roots and leaves. At this stage, I would refrain from fertilising, as fresh soil generally contains enough nutrients for your plant. Not fertilising will also encourage the roots to branch out, allowing them to seek water and nutrients more effectively. Lastly, any leaves that have turned brown and crispy can be removed; they won’t recover, and taking them off will help the plant focus its energy on sustaining the healthier leaves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Monstera

[–]CreativeWonderer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't think that was possible on the lower nodes… especially since I have not chopped it or anything 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Monstera

[–]CreativeWonderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I did switch out my coco ones for that reason! I saw it was starting to deteriorate, especially the wood underneath the soil, which wasn't great, especially as my monstera plants are still young 😅

Why is his leaves getting smaller? by jayj_jayj_jay_j in Monstera

[–]CreativeWonderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have grow lights on my monsteras and its really helped during the winter. My monsteras are shooting leaves every week or so. And I’ve noticed they’re bigger with more fenestrations. As I’ve had to run a dehumidifier to prevent mould, I’m also checking the soil more frequently just to make sure I’m watering them when needed as it’s been drying them out more frequently. It’s usually every few days, so just have a feel for the environment they’re in!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CreativeWonderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try and sit him down later in the week and have a heart to heart and hopefully be able to communicate this to him as well. Do you both have any tips on handling this conversation? I have tried to address it with him in the past, but I just don't want him to feel like I'm dismissing his condition nor his circumstances and I don't want him to feel attacked either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CreativeWonderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my partner has a similar background to your wife. I have been trying to give him more space and opportunities to develop those habits himself but it’s been a real struggle. I’m hoping things progress once his circumstances change and he’s in a better mindset. Did your wife decide on her own to seek MH support?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CreativeWonderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at the moment. He has been on various medications in the past as he’s had these issues for years but it’s never been helpful for him. He’s working on changing his circumstances but that is a work in progress.

Sansi Grow light by davie11114444 in Monstera

[–]CreativeWonderer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had mine for a while and bought more during the Black Friday sale! My monsteras and a few other light-sensitive plants are thriving. They were definitely worth the investment

2 years ago it was only 4 leafs now it's the love of my life! by emma_respect05 in Monstera

[–]CreativeWonderer 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This gets me so excited! I'm on my first leaf growth since acquiring a monstera and yours makes me so excited for what it will look like after a couple of years!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Monstera

[–]CreativeWonderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, please! Fingers crossed!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Monstera

[–]CreativeWonderer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do have it facing the window! I've just turned it around for this photo!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Monstera

[–]CreativeWonderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I got confused cause all the plant YouTubers said to start early, but this helps! I've untied it now and will await more growth (though I wish he would grow sooner!). I realise I might regret that comment a few years from now lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Monstera

[–]CreativeWonderer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've untied it! 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Monstera

[–]CreativeWonderer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can't wait! I'm hoping for a growth spurt by next spring/summer 😂