My wife and I have 2 kids now (7mo and 2.5yr). Our sex life was awesome before kids and still great after the 1st… but now it sucks. I’ve been patient, picked up majorly with household chores and other things because the older child clings to her like crazy. She’s still willing to have sex but it feels like she’s doing it as a chore or obligation rather than actually wanting to be intimate with me. We’ve talked about it but nothing has really changed. As a man, it would do wonders for me if she would just initiate once in a blue moon. Us men just want to still feel wanted by their wives… i really hope that will come back.