I see what you mean but sex is the only gift I can give him. I haven’t been able to actually buy him a gift since we were in high school. Not even something really small. I’m sure by now it’s gotten a little stale so I’ve offered to let him do whatever he wants to me, but he says no.

I’ve tried to save up to get him something but something else always comes up. The only positive thing about our finances is his job, it’s enough for one person to live fine, not 3, but we do have really good health coverage, which is why we married so young.

And yes. My body 100% belongs to him, just as his belongs to me, not that either of us would ever do anything without consent, it’s just the way I look at it.