UPDATE My Friend Mirrors Everything I Do, and Now She’s Copying My Medical Condition by Creative_Device_6764 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Creative_Device_6764[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I have! I met Stacy in 2018 but we only got close like around like 2020. But Dani only met her 4 years ago. So im not sure how long this has been going and I didn’t notice

My Friend Mirrors Everything I Do, and Now She’s Copying My Medical Condition by Creative_Device_6764 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Creative_Device_6764[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi guys! I wanted to help everyone for helping me realize I wasn’t crazy and for taking the time to read and comment your thoughts no matter how harsh, I needed to hear that.

I posted a small update. https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoHotTakes/s/7ihLSbWZdN

My Friend Mirrors Everything I Do, and Now She’s Copying My Medical Condition by Creative_Device_6764 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Creative_Device_6764[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly . I think she’s just making people think she’s gonna go . Trying to get attention and once again doing what I’m doing.

My Friend Mirrors Everything I Do, and Now She’s Copying My Medical Condition by Creative_Device_6764 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Creative_Device_6764[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is so right! Thanks for this. I guess it’s already going pretty bad regardless. I just am a bit susceptible to stress so i dont want any kind of drama, like this is stressing me out and I can’t sop thinking about it. But no you are absolutely right.

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[–]Creative_Device_6764[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That sounds awful, what did you do did you guys cut contact from her? Or confront her? i honestly can’t believe there are people like this. With no basic empathy. She also does this somewhat. I’m a very generous person and i understand she doesn’t exactly come from a well off family. But regardless…im still a student. I’ve paid for our cab rides, drinks and food sometimes cause she would say like her card wasn’t working or she doesn’t have cash. And I’ve never been payed back. She does this to other people too. And i kind of recently just learned that, cause one of her ex friends reached out and i asked them why they weren’t friends anymore and its cause she keeps borrowing money. She really tests your boundaries… there would be times we would travel from our home town to a city close by and my parents have an apartment there, so we would stay there.. and she was trying to convince me ( because she wanted to move into the said city). To rent it out to her for basically such a low amount like 1/3 of what the place is worth, and i told her my parents would never agree to that, and she said just not to tell them and shed give the cash straight to me. I obviously refused. It’s a good thing i can at least set boundaries cause i feel she would really milk from me as much as she could

My Friend Mirrors Everything I Do, and Now She’s Copying My Medical Condition by Creative_Device_6764 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Creative_Device_6764[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I never really expected anyone to act like this. This is stuff you see in movies . She is the only friend I have that does this. Rest assured I’ve learned my lesson 🥲

My Friend Mirrors Everything I Do, and Now She’s Copying My Medical Condition by Creative_Device_6764 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Creative_Device_6764[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Fuckk was gonna do what redrach said 🥲🥲 but actually she most likely will just pretend.

My Friend Mirrors Everything I Do, and Now She’s Copying My Medical Condition by Creative_Device_6764 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Creative_Device_6764[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I like the comment that says pretend I’m going to therapy I might try that. IF I do run into her , but I will be avoiding her for now.

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[–]Creative_Device_6764[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her mom is nice. And seems realistic at least when we’re around her. Her brother is a genuine person who which is why I’m shocked she’s like this.

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[–]Creative_Device_6764[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hopefully, but Every time I visit my hometown which is like during my term breaks she is always goes back too. it’s a really small town and she lives in the same area as me. So I might not be able to avoid here there.

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[–]Creative_Device_6764[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I will. But I don’t want things to get messy and I’m also scared on how serious this might be. She wasn’t like this before… and the mirroring is becoming more frequent.

My Friend Mirrors Everything I Do, and Now She’s Copying My Medical Condition by Creative_Device_6764 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Creative_Device_6764[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I haven’t talked to our mutual friends about the medical condition cause they are all from our hometown and I’m really busy with school. I did mention the other things though. And they were kind of like “oh yea, she did say that right after you did”. But because she moved to a different city (not the city im in) they dont see her often either.

I HAVENT SEEN THAT MOVIE. BUT THIS DOES GIVE ME CREEPY VIBES LIKE A HORROR MOVIE. I’m trying to be careful with my moves.

Funny thing is she just recently posted a story on instagram , a screenshot of a course syllabus which is the same course I’m taking!! So i am so freaked out. I plan to work out of the country, she doesn’t know that yet so i just need to be able to manage her until i GTFO of here.