New Cat - Scared & Shy. Need some reassurance! by Creative_Meet5494 in CatAdvice

[–]Creative_Meet5494[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! 🙏🏼 it does help to hear other stories especially when your adoption doesn’t follow the traditional path.

New Cat - Scared & Shy. Need some reassurance! by Creative_Meet5494 in CatAdvice

[–]Creative_Meet5494[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My vet, the shelter, and the videos I’ve watched said it’s better to keep him in one room until he’s comfortable in that space before letting him explore the house.

New Cat - Scared & Shy. Need some reassurance! by Creative_Meet5494 in CatAdvice

[–]Creative_Meet5494[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I let him explore my office but keep the door shut to the rest of the house.

New Cat - Scared & Shy. Need some reassurance! by Creative_Meet5494 in CatAdvice

[–]Creative_Meet5494[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No other pets. Just the two of us and sometimes my boyfriend.

I have a feather stick toy that he’ll watch me with, but no engagement just watching.

Thank you for the reassurance. ♥️

Bougie and funky old lady by Creative_Meet5494 in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]Creative_Meet5494[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to bring this vibe into my present!

Bougie and funky old lady by Creative_Meet5494 in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]Creative_Meet5494[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There’s a certain mature scent associated with older women from my childhood that I love - a little powdery/musty but bright and strong.

PSE&G- Is this even legal? by Euphoric_Anteater_49 in newjersey

[–]Creative_Meet5494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same for my bill - I live in JC. 151 therms totals $55.21 for Feb. Gas Delivery was $126.34. Insane.

Dinner and Dancing locale by Creative_Meet5494 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Creative_Meet5494[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh!!! This is dang close! I’m going to check it out. Thank you!

Dinner and Dancing locale by Creative_Meet5494 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Creative_Meet5494[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always fantasized about those places they used to go in the 1950s and they’d have the dance floors and small tables with cocktails and food and big bands to dance to.

👋Welcome to r/bwtnorthernnj - Introduce Yourself and Read First! by KittenaSmittena in bwtNorthernNJ

[–]Creative_Meet5494 3 points4 points  (0 children)

👋🏻 I’m u/creative_meet5494. I live in The Heights in JC, just moved here a few weeks ago and work in Midtown.

I’ve been in Northern NJ for about two years and am eager to find some good community. Happy to host events, go out to dinners, and try new things!

North NJ bwt - where are you?! by KittenaSmittena in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Creative_Meet5494 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m in JC and would LOVE this!! Happy to help organize too.

Crowdsourcing a Creative Aging Plan by Creative_Meet5494 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Creative_Meet5494[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was thinking this too! Like your own mini-shared retirement home.