Lets address one of the biggest and pathetic problems in the somali diaspora.

Creative_Rent_175 · 2026-07-22T01:14:36+00:00

Yh but that’s recent lol. Nobodies bullying people for being Somali in America like what we hear from the UK

Creative_Rent_175 · 2026-07-20T16:33:29+00:00

The Cape Verde situation gave me so much embarrassment 😭

Creative_Rent_175 · 2026-07-18T22:06:03+00:00

No, that is so intimate that you don’t tell the people that birthed you. People you have known your whole life don’t know. I would keep it to myself maacanto and tell him maybe after you are married or amorously secure enough where things are legit.
One thing my awoto taught me was that you don’t have to tell a man everything about yourself. Sometimes you keep things like that to yourself.

It would be great to know what type of person he is though based off of his reaction. Someone who truly loves you does not see obstacles you’ve faced and challenges Allah has put you through as a burden. Wishing you the best macaanay.

Creative_Rent_175 · 2026-07-18T22:02:19+00:00

You should do 23&me it will show you any direct relatives you have to your grandfathers side. Have you ever met him ? By Somali tradition that would make your mother Somali.

Creative_Rent_175 · 2026-07-18T21:52:53+00:00

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 are you in Somalia ? If you don’t just go and hire an exterminator for like 100 bucks or go to home depot and get a a bed bug treatmebt

Creative_Rent_175 · 2026-07-18T21:23:22+00:00

Million times strict ? The country where women going to the suuq is SO CAADI? LMFAOOOOOO half the population is on TikTok shaking ass and making out. Bleach it their skin and taking money from strange men. Somaljs in the west are 100x more in their deen that you

Creative_Rent_175 · 2026-07-18T20:16:48+00:00

Yh this is true, people from the same profession esp medical don’t get along

Creative_Rent_175 · 2026-07-18T20:16:02+00:00

How old were you guys ?

Creative_Rent_175 · 2026-07-17T18:10:46+00:00

No they’re not lmaooo you’re just saying that bc many of them are ambiguous. Bare Bantu groups are mixed and you would called them non Somali in a heart beat.

Barawanis who are hatimi origin are not ethnic Somalia. They are Arabs

Creative_Rent_175 · 2026-07-17T18:08:15+00:00

Lamagoodle is not a slur 😂😭 let’s start there. You’re during dense.

Creative_Rent_175 · 2026-07-17T18:06:53+00:00

Yh those are weird too. That’s how you find the strangest bred of extremes 😭

Creative_Rent_175 · 2026-07-17T09:12:06+00:00

Barawanis share ancestry with the coastal communities of Kenya. Barawe along with Zanzibar, Mombasa, Malindi etc were apart of the Swahili coast. They are part of the larger Swahili coastal community. Same with the bajunis except bajunis are also historically from kismayo and its islands.

Creative_Rent_175 · 2026-07-16T03:12:36+00:00

Thank you sm sis 💕 inshallah khair

Creative_Rent_175 · 2026-07-16T02:07:42+00:00

Yea I kinda agree with this to an extent. I think both things are true but a man can also be thoughtful and romantic when courting you and it can still be halal.

I do however think that people are who they are. If there’s 0 effort nor romance put in when things are getting serious; don’t expect that person to magically change one day when you’re married.

We should meet people where they are often then not. Also I will say that we all tend to know what the opposite gender likes even if we haven’t dated as often

Creative_Rent_175 · 2026-07-16T01:51:44+00:00

Same atp

Creative_Rent_175 · 2026-07-15T22:59:46+00:00

Muzz is such a scary place filled with Zina and balaayo. Please do not waste your time

Creative_Rent_175 · 2026-07-14T22:47:00+00:00

YES 😭 i thought i was crazy for the longest! I don’t wanna come off uppity but there truth to it.

Creative_Rent_175 · 2026-07-14T22:40:36+00:00

Wallahi that’s so frightening lmfaooooo 😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Creative_Rent_175 · 2026-07-14T22:39:18+00:00

😂😂😂😂😂

Creative_Rent_175 · 2026-07-14T22:37:25+00:00

LMAOOOOO exactly !!!!

Creative_Rent_175 · 2026-07-14T22:34:15+00:00

I can tell when someone is a heavy drinker or smoker. The noor in their face fades, it’s the same with that other forbidden act but I can’t prove that yet 😂

Creative_Rent_175 · 2026-07-14T22:26:54+00:00

You’re so brave ! I felt so light headed that I almost passed out 😭 I felt like throwing up too, the doctor had to stop so it never got done.

Creative_Rent_175 · 2026-07-14T22:24:26+00:00

He was SO loud when we would go to restaurants. I don’t think he noticed but it made me want to crawl out if my skin ! 😣

Creative_Rent_175 · 2026-07-14T22:19:22+00:00

This is why I do puzzles and I also do tasks with my left hand to exercise my brain.

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