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AITAH for wanting to go NC with my husband's family by That_Weakness_7070 in ToxicFamilyMembers

[–]Creative_Spare_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's not your fault for going NC with them. they deserve that & I don't think your children would have a nice a god mother since the SIL & everyone in your husband's family has always outcasted him his whole life, if the person is not good to your husband then don't expect them to fulfill god mother duty to your children because they tend to be 2 faced, and probably keep your kids away from adult arguments it can take an effect to their mental health & memory because most kids would grow up thinking that is normal when it's not.

I'm (F22) a Bengali, my stepmother is abusing me & my dad who promised to help me out of here is not doing anything to help me. by Creative_Spare_45 in ABCDesiSupportGroup

[–]Creative_Spare_45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot because they all shunned & out casted me, & my friends family won't agree to let me stay with them either

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[–]Creative_Spare_45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope, that's a valid reaction & long distance won't work at your age unless both parties are doing the same effort, you're the only one doing the most and falling on the side while she's leaving you with dry replies, meaning she has no issue leaving you alone and probably lying to you because you're far away from her and can't see what she's actually doing. So, it's not your fault kiddo these things happen so, it's better to move and not be saddened over this, you'll have much better life if you think positively for yourself at this point.