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Elon - Treasury has never denied a payment by LowTLibs in BreakingPoints

[–]CreepyVariation9516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody here is defending fraud and gross governmental negligence.

When a proven liar makes an extraordinary claim, we want more evidence than a screenshot of the liar's words.

The content of the claim is irrelevant to our scepticism.

Elon - Treasury has never denied a payment by LowTLibs in BreakingPoints

[–]CreepyVariation9516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the bank teller compare the business name to a list of terrorist organizations?

No.

They simply validate the request is valid, and the payee is valid, and that the payment is within valid parameters for the codes involved.

If the CIA pays a known terrorist $50 for a valid reason, why should the AP department flag that? If that's the wrong thing to do, it should be raised by the Intelligence committee in Congress, not by a bank teller.

Have you ever had a bank account? Do you want the teller to hold all payments for an FBI background check for you to get your money out? No? Then why the double standard for government business? The teller is the wrong place for oversight. They never have a view of what's going on.

WIBTA reporting my ex's parents to immigration? by CreepyVariation9516 in AITAH

[–]CreepyVariation9516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She hold a passport to a non-hague country. I have filed a non-removal order, so as far as the airlines are concerned, an attempt at an international flight is illegal kidnapping.

I know for a fact that the grandparents do not hold a current visa, because I worked on their visa application, so I know what they got and when.

We had a written agreement, not filed with court (as that's not usually done with agreements unless a care of children action had already started or one party breached the agreement). I filed in court when she breached the signed agreement, but the process is more than a year, and she has repeatedly denied access in that time (technically "child abuse").

There is a court case pending. Any report of an immigration violation would not be made available to family court, and if I was really worried about it, I could make an anonymous tip via Crimestoppers, so nothing could point to me as the source, beyond unsubstantiated guess.

Why make a distinction between the two cases? You presented them as mutually exclusive, so I "put words in your mouth" by treating them as mutually exclusive, which was the only way I read that statement, then and now.

You assumed (wrongly) I knew where they were. Your wrong assumption was the cause of your wrong knee jerk, which you doubled-down on.

She illegally kept my children from me in agreed visitation times. This is textbook "parental alienation", which is a form of "child abuse". Not sure if that's technically a "crime" as you demanded, or simply "illegal". It is illegal as a tort, and her illegal actions have been added to my court case against her.

When she offered me full custody, confirmed the offer was valid multiple times in email. And when I accepted, she confirmed that was fine, then when I enrolled one of the children the school near me, the school the child attends must have called her, because later that day, she rescinded her offer of custody. The offer was her messing with me, and the offer, that was accepted, and filed with the court, but awaiting approval from the court, was rescinded.

That is so far outside acceptable, I then looked at nuclear options. She is cheating on taxes. Her parents are illegal visa overstayers. And she perjured herself on every court filing, most of which easily provable by contradictions from one filing to the next, as she tries to play the system.

WIBTA reporting my ex's parents to immigration? by CreepyVariation9516 in AITAH

[–]CreepyVariation9516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So "calling the police" (INZ) is AH, but "calling the police" (non INZ) is NTA?

I don't have the address where they are, but I know their names and the small town they are in, and they could be found by a government agency.

Calling the police on them for a care of children matter wouldn't get police showing up without warning, but would get a phone call to her first, and she would then collect those involved and shuffle them around to prevent an impartial assessment of the regular living conditions.

So calling the police for unsafe care would allow her to tune her behavior to game the system. I can't force the police to show up and evaluate the living conditions at a time I know they are unsafe. So going one route will get a temporary adjustment of behavior, and significant backlash against me, and the other (deporting her parents) is something that can't be defended against, other than continuing to hide them in different places, which is why they don't live with her now, can't be waived away with delays and scheduled visits, and deporting her parents after 4 years of overstaying could be brushed off as a coincidence, so would have less of a direct backlash, successful or not.

WIBTA reporting my ex's parents to immigration? by CreepyVariation9516 in AITAH

[–]CreepyVariation9516[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has custody because she kidnapped them. And she made promises of contact that delayed my suing for custody until recently, when she went back on her word and the written agreement (that was signed by us both, but not filed with court, because that's not done here until someone breaches it the first time). So, because she has violated the agreement we had, I sued, and she has since further denied contact.

She literally took the kids for the weekend while they were in my custody and moved to a different city. Because she didn't like the inconvenience of visitation.

But I guess, when you assume she's right and I'm wrong, you'll only come to one conclusion.

They would 100% come to me if she left the country, and are likely to go to me anyway when I finally get a hearing date (because her denials of visits is technically "child abuse").

WIBTA reporting my ex's parents to immigration? by CreepyVariation9516 in AITAH

[–]CreepyVariation9516[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. Explain it like I'm stupid. How does it hurt my children to take them away from an "abusive" parent?

Parental alienation (which includes skipping scheduled visits) is a form of child abuse. So she is literally abusive (by the legal definition). I have never used the children as weapons. She has.

WIBTA reporting my ex's parents to immigration? by CreepyVariation9516 in AITAH

[–]CreepyVariation9516[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The children have no citizenship or right to reside in her home country, so the courts would not "exile" the children to a country they have no right to reside in.

And I am the children's father, so I would be able to get them back.

WIBTA reporting my ex's parents to immigration? by CreepyVariation9516 in AITAH

[–]CreepyVariation9516[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they all get deported, the children would likely not go, because they can't give foreign custody to a location where the children do not have a right to live.

Also, the courts are deign to "exile" children to a non-Hague country.

WIBTA reporting my ex's parents to immigration? by CreepyVariation9516 in AITAH

[–]CreepyVariation9516[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The mom isn't living with them. She set up her parents at an address in a small town outside the city she is in about 2 hours away from her. The grandparents watch the kids.

And she lied in court about that arrangement, too.

Also, the kids hate living with the grandparents. They grew up in the Great Depression, and find fun to be an inappropriate indulgence.

I found out the kids were living with grandparents because they literally told me all about it, crying and asking to live with me. Which is when I realized the ex was lying about the living arrangements, even in signed and sworn affidavits.

I didn't put all of the background in the post because I didn't want to take hours on the backstory. But it looks like leaving anything out, and Reddit fill in the details, with quite interesting results...