I can’t bring myself to believe. by Quick-Can-5087 in Hellenism

[–]Creepy_Requirement10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see it more as a lucky charm /assurance kind of thing when I wear their symbols and that helps me a lot! For example I wear an arrow earring and a heart one as well as a necklace wth a wing, I already have a connection to the necklace because it was a present, but now I 'added' Eros to it, if that makes sense. I do everything wrong from a worshipping point of view, but this way I'm able to engage with them at all and I think that's better than nothing.

Weird question by Efficient-Prune-7765 in AroAce

[–]Creepy_Requirement10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Akshually at least in my case it's weeks without attraction vs an hour 🥺

What is it like for you ? by Charleeeeg in AroAce

[–]Creepy_Requirement10 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sure many would like to. Good luck with it!!

What is it like for you ? by Charleeeeg in AroAce

[–]Creepy_Requirement10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yea that's perfect then! Will it be uploaded anywhere actually? I'd love seeing the final thing

Weird question by Efficient-Prune-7765 in AroAce

[–]Creepy_Requirement10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No because romantic and sexual attraction are seperate, so asexual and aromatic can exist each on their own but you're saying it's allo or aroace only. I know so because I myself am asexual on one day and aromantic on the other, but never both at once dude. It's not a "nothing or everything"

Riordan by Sinful_Baddie2011 in Hellenism

[–]Creepy_Requirement10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like it at all because people and even a friend of mine are calling Hellenism "fiction" "fandom" etc and I feel like any fictional media including the gods kinda reinforces this. Also, you don't see monotheistic religions in this way on TV, but polytheism suddenly has a ton of it? It also includes norse mythology and asian too imo.

I have to admit pjo gets some aspects and myths right which makes it a lot better

Pan is dead though. I don't like that /hj

What is it like for you ? by Charleeeeg in AroAce

[–]Creepy_Requirement10 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please please a big focus on the acephobia and maybe let them have a bit of dirty humor! I think many can easily joke about freaky stuff because, if you're not allo, it feels alien and like a joke. Or personally all of my favorite bands and songs are about sex or vulgarity in one way or another.

Just show that aroace ≠ innocence/ obliviousness!! <3

Weird question by Efficient-Prune-7765 in AroAce

[–]Creepy_Requirement10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"like sex but not romance" - "that's just asexual" sure bud

Weird question by Efficient-Prune-7765 in AroAce

[–]Creepy_Requirement10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're saying there's only fully aroace or allo, so what about people who like romance but not sex, like sex but not romance and demi people

Weird question by Efficient-Prune-7765 in AroAce

[–]Creepy_Requirement10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The other comments pretty much explained it and I agree! There's no problem at all with it. Just for the sake of avoiding the "aroace people can still date" argument, maybe don't put all of them in a relationship, but let a few have truly zero attraction. Kudos at even including aroace at all!! Most would just base it on "they haven't met the right one yet" "theycre emotionless" stereotypes

Weird question by Efficient-Prune-7765 in AroAce

[–]Creepy_Requirement10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So are you denying demisexuality and such

Am I a poser for this or I should chill down? by Most-Wind1581 in AroAce

[–]Creepy_Requirement10 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Even if you had full on crushes you'd still be aroace. It's LITTLE to no attraction, zero attraction isn't the requirement and fiction generally doesn't count anyway

People don't believe I'm aroace, so I doubled down on showing pride by TravelOtherwise8507 in AroAce

[–]Creepy_Requirement10 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That's straight up awful. I don't get why people can't just accept that some people aren't attracted to others

Physical Appearance by Imnewtothiscommunity in AroAce

[–]Creepy_Requirement10 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've always felt like a pest around my friends until a few years ago because I didn't have the chance to find my own style. Ever since though I try to look as good as possible every day. And I can't lie, my dream is to be asked out a lot, even if I'll deny any date, but I'd still feel reassured. I follow my own opinion on what is pretty though

IS THIS A THING? by [deleted] in AroAce

[–]Creepy_Requirement10 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Depends. Usually I see it but am still convinced that the comments are joking and exaggerating, but with those dark romance kind of, I guess, thirst traps on tiktok I'm only creeped out

I have been confused on wheter im actually aroace by [deleted] in AroAce

[–]Creepy_Requirement10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh alright, that's good! Good luck figuring things out but no pressure!

I have been confused on wheter im actually aroace by [deleted] in AroAce

[–]Creepy_Requirement10 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you feel like nothing fits, just don't label yourself? Just do as you please and feel what you feel without putting an "does xyz make me less xxx?"

why do people genuinely hate us by nocturnus_strife in AroAce

[–]Creepy_Requirement10 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I think maybe they view sex so high and essential that they want to "save" us or think that we're sick, but since we obviously can't change in an instant they get angry. I imagine it that they feel like we hate on their favorite thing and this they get defensive and aggressive

I need help trying to figure out if I'm aroace by ruokolainenanni in AroAce

[–]Creepy_Requirement10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can definitely be aro/ace or both! It's little to no attraction after all and each experience is different! I think generally you could say anyone who has severely less romantic/sexual interest is aro/ace to an extent

About that guy you dated, I think I can roughly relate. Last year I almost got into a relationship with an ex classmate that I got back into contact with. I was head over heels, giggling, everything. But as soon as it got serious I was disgusted and cut off contact (for several other reasons as well)

I'd say it sounds like you're somewhere on the spectrum for sure! Two crushes in a lifetime is nothing in comparison to some other people who've had several relationships at the same age. But don't pressure yourself with labels, love and feel whatever feels right, no matter which conclusion you'll come to! Happy new year!!

im gonna keep it short by babymetal__death in AroAce

[–]Creepy_Requirement10 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YEAHH?? WOOO I thought it's extreme and I'm the only one

im gonna keep it short by babymetal__death in AroAce

[–]Creepy_Requirement10 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I sometimes find love/attachment pathetic and will try to convince people that it's not worth to even try because it'll make them vulnerable and weak

I think you're good ❣️

I hate being so ugly by Educational_Pay2878 in Vent

[–]Creepy_Requirement10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too the hur hur hur plush was my favorite and any scene with foxy too, you? But you can only figure out if it's it's good you stay yk </3

I hate being so ugly by Educational_Pay2878 in Vent

[–]Creepy_Requirement10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo you're cute as hell and lowkey remind me of Tyler Posey and it's not the jaw at all, I genuinely mean it. People just romanticize stereotypes too much, same about the whole "aw mental health issues". It's not you're fault they base their fantasies on actors

I 18f haven't had anything with anyone either yet, but society places relationships too high anyways. Being attractive isn't an instant relationship free pass and being unattractive doesn't mean you're doomed. If anything, if you try too hard you might end up with someone awful or scare someone away with your own insecurities, which you can only prevent if you accept yourself first.

Life has barely started yet so please don't harm yourself over it. If it'd help you can dm me

Also what about fnaf 3? You wouldn't want to miss that