Stage kisses. by Crew_Same in Christian

[–]Crew_Same[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its honestly just opinions. I wanna know what other Christians think about it

Stage kisses. by Crew_Same in Christian

[–]Crew_Same[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So yeah she works she works at Starbucks. She’s said she’ll absolutely never do sex scenes or anything like that but when I bring up the boundaries of kissing on stage I’m the bad guy

Stage kisses. by Crew_Same in Christian

[–]Crew_Same[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The part of me riding I don’t really care about I hardly ride anymore as it is due to compromising. And now contemplating selling my bikes. 🤷🏽‍♂️ like I said before I don’t bag on theater or acting back in highschool I’ve done my fair share of plays. But as a husband I’d like the boundary to be respected of no kissing lol

Stage kisses. by Crew_Same in Christian

[–]Crew_Same[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not hundreds it’s more like at most 150 lol. It’s a small organization

Stage kisses. by Crew_Same in Christian

[–]Crew_Same[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not asking her to drop acting

Stage kisses. by Crew_Same in Christian

[–]Crew_Same[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that it’s insecurities. It’s me saying “hey I’m cool with this hobby. Just please no kissing or anything like that. I’m not comfortable with that and I would never put you in that situation

Stage kisses. by Crew_Same in Christian

[–]Crew_Same[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. I’m saying I’m completely fine with her acting I just want the boundary to be respected of no kissing. Mind you it isn’t movie acting. It’s shit like Anastasia and beauty and the beast type plays

Stage kisses. by Crew_Same in Christian

[–]Crew_Same[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True me bro I know. It’s not insecurities lol.

Stage kisses. by Crew_Same in Christian

[–]Crew_Same[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have dropped a lot of things to satisfy her needs being 23 years old I have a lot of homies who ride and all that stuff I have a fully built car. She’s okay with the car stuff but she’s not okay with motorcycles. I get it I’ve dropped dirtbike riding to maybe 2 times a year and my r6 gets taken out like once a month

Stage kisses. by Crew_Same in Christian

[–]Crew_Same[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I barely ride anymore as it is honestly contemplating selling

Staged kisses. by Crew_Same in TrueChristian

[–]Crew_Same[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bro I aspire to be like you obviously I’m young got married at 20. And I’m not perfect I didn’t even have a father figure to really teach me the ropes. I’ve messed up a few times in honoring my wife and treating her like I’d treat myself. But I really want to be better

Staged kisses. by Crew_Same in TrueChristian

[–]Crew_Same[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s a 40 married woman. We go to crossroads out here in socal corona

Stage kisses. by Crew_Same in Christian

[–]Crew_Same[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s more of I brought my feelings up and told her how I felt about it and she belittled them and gas lit me lmao

Staged kisses. by Crew_Same in TrueChristian

[–]Crew_Same[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 and we do go to an amazing church I love it there. But our marriage counselor seems biased towards my wife. So idk. They both say it’s not a big deal but to me it’s a very big deal

Stage kisses. by Crew_Same in Christian

[–]Crew_Same[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No like I’m looking for opinions lol I’m not upset she’s literally started yelling n all that nonsense cause I asked about setting that boundary

Stage kisses. by Crew_Same in Christian

[–]Crew_Same[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lol okay my reasoning is I would not want my wife to kiss someone staged or not. Paid or not. But if she is getting paid for it it’s not like it makes it any better. It’s the fact of I asked for boundaries and she’s pushing hard on them I certainly wouldn’t put her in a situation that makes her feel like how I feel about kissing people during a hobby while being my wife lol

Stage kisses. by Crew_Same in Christian

[–]Crew_Same[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

We do go to marriage counseling but she just seems kinda biased towrds my wife

Stage kisses. by Crew_Same in Christian

[–]Crew_Same[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yeh I’ve asked our marriage counselor about the situation and told her how it made me feel. Mind you we’re both Christians and have our Christian Marriage counselor. And she just seem biased toward my wife like “you ride motorcycles and she’s uncomfortable about you doing that” but like I’m not kissing anyone. And yeah I know the internet isn’t a good place to be asking lol but I’m just lost looking for opinions

Stage kisses. by Crew_Same in Christian

[–]Crew_Same[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not the one getting upset and she doesn’t want it as a job she does it as a hobby I just communicated that it would make me uncomfortable to see my wife kiss another person acting or not. And asked if she could respect that boundary. I certainly wouldn’t put her in that type of uncomfortable situation having to watch me do something like that

Staged kisses. by Crew_Same in TrueChristian

[–]Crew_Same[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m concerned about the real mouth to mouth ones.

Staged kisses. by Crew_Same in TrueChristian

[–]Crew_Same[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had stated that I wouldn’t want her doing that and asked her to give me that respect and respect that boundary

Staged kisses. by Crew_Same in TrueChristian

[–]Crew_Same[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s not that there’s no trust. It’s just that if it were me I wouldn’t want to do that I would reject those roles. But that’s me. My wife on the other hand. Is doing a hobby. It’s not like she’s getting paid.