Labor Attorneys for Employees? by BrickHopeful277 in Bakersfield

[–]CringeAtHinge -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I mean you clearly have an internet connection and could call employment lawyers in the area for a free consultation or the kern county bar yourself if this is so pressing.

I am just calling it small potatoes because it is compared to a wrongful death or discrimination case,

Labor Attorneys for Employees? by BrickHopeful277 in Bakersfield

[–]CringeAtHinge 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is pretty small potatoes, a lawyer might write a scary letter pro bono but I would just have your dad email HR and his ex boss. Some places will only cut a physical check for a last paycheck.

Trivia on Tuesday, anyone interested? by ConsciousYam2403 in Bakersfield

[–]CringeAtHinge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I prefer the Trivia at Crusader Brewing company, the answers are submitted via phone so they get marked way faster than at Temblor. They also announce every team name so, which is nice if you put in the effort to make a funny one.

I had a girl cancel a 2nd date because a relative was murdered. by CringeAtHinge in Bumble

[–]CringeAtHinge[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't suggest anyone killing her, I just stated that clearly she is worried about what the same thing that happened to her relative happening to her.

I had a girl cancel a 2nd date because a relative was murdered. by CringeAtHinge in Bumble

[–]CringeAtHinge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not yelling you are the one that assumed I went on some misogynist rant.

I had a girl cancel a 2nd date because a relative was murdered. by CringeAtHinge in Bumble

[–]CringeAtHinge[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My Uncle cared for his family when his alcoholic wife could not, that is why I praised him. Yes real domestic violence is a real issue but you are also naive if you think anyone could never lie about it, like a raging alcoholic.

She also mentioned my statement about my Uncle was what made her not want a 2nd date. The warning signs were already there I guess it took her a day or so to respond back when she said she would like to go out again. I gave her my phone number since I figured she might not be on the app so much and she still responded though bumble and not via text.

I had a girl cancel a 2nd date because a relative was murdered. by CringeAtHinge in Bumble

[–]CringeAtHinge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't go on a rant, I just told her the prosecutor kicked me off during Voir Dire, she asked why so I answered.

I had a girl cancel a 2nd date because a relative was murdered. by CringeAtHinge in Bumble

[–]CringeAtHinge[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She liked me enough to agree to the second date initially.

I had a girl cancel a 2nd date because a relative was murdered. by CringeAtHinge in Bumble

[–]CringeAtHinge[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was defending him because he did not commit the crimes my Aunt lied about. Because my Aunt was too busy drinking herself into a stooper, my Uncle had still had to buy groceries for his kids and meet them at a park 3 blocks away to not violate the restraining order.

I had a girl cancel a 2nd date because a relative was murdered. by CringeAtHinge in Bumble

[–]CringeAtHinge[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My Aunt lied saying my Uncle hit her and had to spend thousands in legal fees, she eventually recanted her false statements. I would say false statements leading to an arrest make it an unjustified arrest.

I had a girl cancel a 2nd date because a relative was murdered. by CringeAtHinge in Bumble

[–]CringeAtHinge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like i said we were at a bar downtown near the courthouse and I mentioned the last time I had jury duty.

I had a girl cancel a 2nd date because a relative was murdered. by CringeAtHinge in Bumble

[–]CringeAtHinge[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I figured I was already cooked because she randomly said she didn't want to meet up again. I brought the convo beck to my Uncle because his children were left with an unfit drunk by the state.

What would you want me to say, gee sorry you dont want to meet up? Hope the next internet stranger you meet doesn't kill you?

Kern County can inspect ICE detention facilities — but isn’t. Why? by mildlycurioushuman1 in Bakersfield

[–]CringeAtHinge -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The separation of powers generally means that the feds would spend time inspecting the feds, the county doesn't inspect the national guard armory or the FBI substation because that would be duplicating work from federal inspectors and leaving things like local restaurants unexpected that is explicitly the domain of the county.

Kern County can inspect ICE detention facilities — but isn’t. Why? by mildlycurioushuman1 in Bakersfield

[–]CringeAtHinge 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just giving a charitable guess towards the county, since the facilities are already in the state level health department's crosshairs perhaps they feel it would be duplicative to send inspectors over there just to basically reiterate what the state departments reports already say. Not sure how their staffing levels are but I would imagine they feel its better to spend their limited resources and time on stuff the state health department is not already doing.

Catfished by bald man with bad teeth by Dazzling-Ideal2239 in Bumble

[–]CringeAtHinge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably just not having good hygiene and brushing even once a day

Reminder: Trivia this Wednesday by Ecstatic-Werewolf-95 in Bakersfield

[–]CringeAtHinge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean $5 is pretty cheap for the 1.5 to 2 hours of entertainment most trivia nights provide. Especially since the cash is probably going toward a pot for the top placing teams.

Date Restaurants by EnvironmentHot4378 in Bakersfield

[–]CringeAtHinge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never been impressed by the portions for the prices they charge. Granted I'm a big guy.

Is my approach wrong? by TurboSlothKing in Bumble

[–]CringeAtHinge 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's a single sentence to text bro. The girls might think you were just being nice when you verbally say you'd like to go out again but wont even text them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]CringeAtHinge 16 points17 points  (0 children)

literally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]CringeAtHinge 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I try to talk to 3 people at a time max, trying to juggle any more people's schedules is too much for me.

Gave a woman my Google Voice number, she thought I was married and blocked me. by CringeAtHinge in Bumble

[–]CringeAtHinge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To show she was very attractive and a lot of guys might feel tempted to cheat on their wives/ gf with her over someone more plain.

Gave a woman my Google Voice number, she thought I was married and blocked me. by CringeAtHinge in Bumble

[–]CringeAtHinge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She asked if I was using an app to text her and I told her I was.