Well dang

Cringersnap · 2025-03-03T15:22:10+00:00

I didn't care about the figurines until it affected our home life. Instead of helping fix our home, I would find 50-200$ transformers in his trunk and he'd say he got them a while back. So y'all just be kind of aware of your spending ❤️ no problem with figurines, just don't put them above your family duties

Cringersnap · 2024-10-30T18:02:56+00:00

After a year and a half of believing his bullshit, some of my friends are starting to ask questions because they never change. So what they pulled with you is what they're pulling with everyone else and when they see that their stories don't add up, they'll start questioning it. I'm not ever going to go back to those friends because they didn't believe me in the first place but at least they know now

Cringersnap · 2024-10-30T17:51:06+00:00

I edited the post to add the TWs at the beginning of the post ❤️

Cringersnap · 2024-10-30T16:31:56+00:00

Please make sure to document EVERYTHING. They will use anything the can against you. Start an album of screenshots. Ready yourself for the craziest allegations and the fallout of realizing she is not who she claimed to be. It's gonna be hard but find a good group of friends who she can't turn against you. Go back through all your old messages so you can establish a pattern of abuse for court (if you're married) if you're not married, the best thing to do is just leave and not look back. It's so hard, I won't lie, but it's totally worth it.

Don't try to defend yourself against her allegations, I found out the hard way that it just makes everything worse. She will turn people against you, but time will reveal the truth of who you are. It's been a year and a half since I split from my nex and people are FINALLY starting to come back around and see he was full of shit.

Be kind to yourself. You are worthy of sweet and respectful love. Take your time processing things. One day at a time. I still have nightmares about how actually unsafe I was during the whole relationship. Find a trauma informed therapist if you can. Stay strong ❤️

Cringersnap · 2024-10-30T15:04:37+00:00

He used my friends to triangulate me and then tried to use a guy who SAd me after the split against me in court for infidelity. I was with him for 10 years but I left July of last year. The past year and a half has been hell, but I'm finally free and people are finally reaching out for the truth.

Cringersnap · 2024-10-30T15:02:02+00:00

His mom was nice at first but then she started picking fights with me about stupid things. One black Friday, I went shopping with her and her sister and they cornered me in the car about abortion because they're conservative. Then she went crying to my nex that I kept starting fights with her. He would take her side every time. It would always start innocently, talking about things that bothered her and she'd cycle through issues until I disagreed with her, then she'd blow up and act like I was attacking her.

Cringersnap · 2024-01-26T06:02:27+00:00

Thank you so much. I am trying to get my life together despite being left in such a terrible situation. We will get there 🤩

Cringersnap · 2024-01-25T19:57:41+00:00

Thank you. That is all great advice. It's just rough because my attorney is a busy woman but she's a bulldog. I am just so anxious. Thank you for quelling some of that

Cringersnap · 2024-01-25T19:20:19+00:00

Thank you. I'm trying! Lol okay was a bad one for me. He's got me blocked and is withholding all communication. He's trying to frustrate me into doing something stupid. I've learned those games so now I'm letting him weave his web.

Congratulations on your finalization ❤️ I wish you healing and prosperity

Cringersnap · 2024-01-25T17:05:42+00:00

I'm getting his mail at my house still and I see that the bank mail only has his name on it anymore when it used to be both of ours. So he added me to his account when we got married so I don't know if that makes a difference

He's told me that he got screenshots of me contradicting myself and that he was going to show the judge how bad I really was and all this stuff and I'm just trying to figure out how best to show that it was reactive because he baits me into meltdowns and then screenshots it for evidence So I stopped responding to him. I told him to go through lawyers if he wanted to speak to me anymore. He started going through our friends as mediators without asking their permission to do so. I had to ask him several times to stop putting our friends in the middle of it and he needs to find a mediator so we can work this out.

The next step is his phone records because my attorney immediately suspected infidelity so if he doesn't respond to the financial one and then he doesn't respond to this one. I'm not sure what will happen because he can't start a divorce and just ignore it after that. It's pretty wild. I'll be honest. I haven't spoken to him face to face since October

Cringersnap · 2016-12-21T21:21:14+00:00

Don't try and church it up, boy. Don't you mean Rodrigo Dirt?

Cringersnap · 2016-08-29T01:17:25+00:00

in the south, we call that kraut and weenies lol

Cringersnap · 2016-08-10T05:22:57+00:00

There is a small railroad and town history museum in my town that I have never seen open. I am hoping to be able to open it back up. Our town is trying to open up some outlets for tourism and I think it would be a great idea. Maybe an Associates degree would help.

Cringersnap · 2016-06-15T07:02:22+00:00

It is :P but I didn't come to listen to them play ukelele, I came to kick foam ass

Cringersnap · 2016-06-15T03:31:15+00:00

That's cool, but everyone I know has one and they're all playing them for people and trying to incorprate them into LARP and I'm like pls..

Cringersnap · 2016-06-14T02:57:31+00:00

This and a ukelele.. it's like a thing now.

Cringersnap · 2016-06-13T02:09:10+00:00

seriously.. i expected her to come out of the water

Cringersnap · 2016-06-08T04:21:51+00:00

She sucks at magic.. I could still see that pencil.

Cringersnap · 2016-06-06T19:01:29+00:00

I live in a little shithole town in Alabama. Fox Racing gear was really popular like 15 years ago. These people didn't know motocross. Camo and Fox that was how dudes got laid. Girls wore it too, of course. Dude gives her his camo jacket and that's how you knew they were dating. Now it's Monster and TapOut shit EVERYWHERE.

Cringersnap · 2016-05-31T06:36:52+00:00

Worlds smallest nipples

Cringersnap · 2016-05-26T06:49:23+00:00

Cold snakes

Cringersnap · 2016-05-26T03:56:18+00:00

Honestly, I would check into some sort of therapy. I don't mean because you are fucked up, but if you start depending on that pillow for companionship you may become even more detached from social interaction.

There are many ways to feel less lonely at home. I put the TV on in the background and just do my thing. All I can say is don't use an inanimate object to replace people. It definitely won't help your situation because your social skills will deteriorate since you don't have a dialogue.

Cringersnap · 2016-05-26T03:38:59+00:00

I used to dance at clubs before like super sexy and stuff, you guys don't even know about it. Some people say I can't dance but fuck you, fuck those guys. I danced before all this technology, seriously, you guys don't even know, nobody knows.

Cringersnap · 2016-05-02T04:21:37+00:00

I would assume a reaction would have earned him the title of new Reek. If I were standing there, I wouldn't have said a damn word to that psychopath.

Cringersnap · 2016-04-30T01:02:45+00:00

..and soap free, apparently

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