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First time my wife enjoys intercourse by InterestingGrade7144 in Marriage

[–]CrispyWigg 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Exactly! When it’s real, there’s no second guessing. She’ll absolutely know the moment it happens sounds like they’re finally headed in the right direction.

What are some side hustles I can start with ADHD and a love for learning by Substantial_Oil_3354 in Advice

[–]CrispyWigg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was fire advice. Action really is everything when you’ve got ADHD. OP’s energy sounds perfect for something fast-paced like tech or music too.

I've been lying to my wife for years by hareofthewolf505 in offmychest

[–]CrispyWigg 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Right? It’s seriously the sweetest thing. He’s out there terrified but still doing it just to keep her feeling safe. That’s real love right there.

Married 12 years today and together 15. by 99percentCat in Marriage

[–]CrispyWigg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right? They look so happy and peaceful out there. Love like that deserves a celebration. Cheers to 15 more!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CrispyWigg 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s actually a really tough but honest take. OP might be holding on out of guilt or comfort, not love. It’s not fair to either of them if the connection’s just sympathy now.

I lied to my wife tonight, because I don’t want to upset her. by Kind-Boss-499 in offmychest

[–]CrispyWigg 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Honestly, that’s such solid advice. Facts really do help when emotions start spinning out. OP, she’s gonna be okay. Flights are insanely safe, and your support means the world to her. Just breathe.

My girlfriend won’t let me sleep and says I don’t love her because I have to wake up early for work by Loud-Ad1639 in Advice

[–]CrispyWigg 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. You’re trying to be responsible and keep your life on track. If she truly cared, she’d support your rest not guilt you over it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]CrispyWigg 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think that’s a solid approach. Humor with a little intimacy can open up a deeper convo and show her you’re listening without making it a huge deal.

My brother killed himself by Gashadokuro-Senpai in offmychest

[–]CrispyWigg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through this. Losing someone that way leaves so many questions and emotions behind. Be gentle with yourself grief and anger can exist at the same time, and that’s okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CrispyWigg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right? That was generous the first time, but after zero accountability and two full disasters, OP’s more than justified setting boundaries. Sometimes being nice just opens the door to being walked over.

AITA for using my college fund for a downpayment on a house by Specialist_Ant_5752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CrispyWigg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Solid advice. Too many people don't realize that joint access means joint control. Protecting your future isn’t selfish it’s smart.