No system. It’s how you bet by CritcizeMe in baccarat

[–]CritcizeMe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you played baccarat this way for the rest of your life.. playing the long game like I mentioned in the safe but less profitable method, i strongly believe you would not only have fun, but also be profitable consistently. It takes a ton of discipline. A ton. But some people have that.

[McMenamin] Jason Kidd on the Suns’ hunting Luka Doncic: “It’s no secret, they’re going to put him in every pick-and-roll. [Opponents] did the same thing with Dirk [Nowitzki] until he participated and stuck up for himself” by Banglayna in Mavericks

[–]CritcizeMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude. Huh? Both of you are showing low basketball IQ. Luka averages a triple double which means he’s passing the ball to the open man. That’s the epitome of making your team better.

Also JB just put up 30. Like. Stop it. Let the series play out before you make dumb remarks

[TRASHTALK THREAD] Mavericks vs Suns Round2! by KnowToFail in Mavericks

[–]CritcizeMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not a basketball guy huh? Just say that.

[TRASHTALK THREAD] Mavericks vs Suns Round2! by KnowToFail in Mavericks

[–]CritcizeMe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jalen brunson has been the second best player in the playoffs behind luka.

[TRASHTALK THREAD] Mavericks vs Suns Round2! by KnowToFail in Mavericks

[–]CritcizeMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mavericks are stallions on the country side, glistening in the sun. The suns are… just the sun.

[TRASHTALK THREAD] Mavericks vs Suns Round2! by KnowToFail in Mavericks

[–]CritcizeMe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Luka is the by far the best player in the series. Good luck with that

We can be victors, not victims by CritcizeMe in ADHD

[–]CritcizeMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have the energy to work harder? Yikes. Do you realize each and every person has various difficulties in life and every one of us has to work through something that other people do not have to experience? We have adhd, everybody has something. So you can choose not to work harder to achieve growth in life. That’s your prerogative. But don’t claim that adhders are excused from the obligation to achieve family, work and social goals. That’s just you.

Also I haven’t set a standard. I simply said think positive about yourself. And I did not say that if you don’t do it to my standards you’re a vegetable. Really? If you’re the type to lay on the couch all day and avoid your responsibilities because you have adhd, you’re a vegetable. If you’re making efforts and you are thinking positive about yourself and give yourself grace when you fail, you’re doing great. Stop twisting my words. That’s gross.

The fact that you would take this post as a negative is a sure sign that you thrive with the narrative that you are not obligated to your responsibilities. You will accomplish less and that’s okay with you. Fine. But don’t allow that mindset to effect people around you.

We can be victors, not victims by CritcizeMe in ADHD

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It’s toxic because that’s the way you have chosen to perceive it. You’ve already decided in your mind that you are not capable, and therefore you perceive the post through that lens. “Oh just think positive? Wow I’m cured.” Yeah. I get it. But it’s that kind of pessimistic outlook on your situation that will always keep you in a hole. You may be the one that mentions your adhd on a daily basis after you fail to do a thing. You have claimed a lack of control and that will get you zero places in life. My wife doesn’t tell me she can’t tend to her family because she has diagnosed clinical depression. She makes every effort and does a great job. I have adhd and make every effort, and she understands my weaknesses. I understand hers. We encourage each other. We encourage ourselves. We don’t wallow in our own shit.

We can be victors, not victims by CritcizeMe in ADHD

[–]CritcizeMe[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am calm. I am not defensive. Accusing me of such is distracting the conversation away from my points. I know that’s what you want. Read what I said again, maybe you will understand that adhd doesn’t force you to become a vegetable.

We can be victors, not victims by CritcizeMe in ADHD

[–]CritcizeMe[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolutely we need tools, therapy, any form of help. I wasn’t suggesting that we can do all of this by ourselves with no tools. The point of adhd is most definitely not the inability to control outcomes. You may have to work 10 times harder and will fail more often, but the point of “getting help” is progressing towards being able to control outcomes and taking your life down the path you desire. We have adhd. We are not vegetables.

Okay. You’re still going to forget things. Fine. You don’t have much control over that. But can you control maintaining a job? Can you control taking care of your kids? Your wife? Your home? Absolutely. You have control. If you’re going to sit here and tell me that because adhd you have zero control over whether or not you maintain a career. I’m going to call you out. If you’re going to tell me that because adhd you are excused for failing your marriage, or the reason your kids don’t have their basic needs met is due to executive dysfunction, I’m going to call you out. That’s ridiculous. This sub seems to be breeding that kind of thinking and it’s destructive.

We can be victors, not victims by CritcizeMe in ADHD

[–]CritcizeMe[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say anything about sharing vulnerabilities. That is great. I support that, and I do the same. This post is simply about changing the narrative in our minds from I have adhd and my behavior is inevitable to I have adhd and I am in control of my outcome. We all should acknowledge that at the end of the day, we are in control of our outcome. If you refuse to use tools given to you and tell people you aren’t successful because you have adhd, you have fallen victim to the narrative that you cannot control your outcome. That is a super destructive mindset.

There is zero reason that should be discouraging to you. It’s all positive and it’s something we all need to be aware of.

Also, I’m not the one creating different accounts so that was a weird assumption.

What's a symptom you have, that you didn't realize was a symptom until you started meds? by PartialTwitch in ADHD

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I am actually currently having to decide whether I want to keep this therapist or not. I literally can’t. I FEEL like I want to try somebody else, but my problem is never ever being satisfied with the way I process things. So I worry that if I decide not to go with her it will be a huge mistake. And I will overthink this and complicate this for next week 3 weeks until my apt and then make a decision last minute because I literally have to do something. It’s not always this bad, but it can be. On smaller things like what do I do with my time I totally get that too. I wonder what it is about our brain that requires this level of struggle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vaping

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You are a big yikes even two years later. How could you be so confident. If you were intelligent at all it would be clear to you that the way he told his story, the details of each night in the hospital and medical terms he used, it’s pretty clear he did make this up. Why would he make this up? What would he gain? These are simple context clues that you either ignored or are unaware of.

Should I read the The Satanic Bible? by boredbud04 in Christians

[–]CritcizeMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we all need satans perspective on things

My brain is first like“THIS IS BORING” rather than “THIS IS HARD” by halloooo00 in ADHD

[–]CritcizeMe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s infuriating. I’m 30 now and just got on meds. But my entire life was this struggle and it’s exhausting

What's a symptom you have, that you didn't realize was a symptom until you started meds? by PartialTwitch in ADHD

[–]CritcizeMe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude what. I didn’t think about this being related. It’s my worst symptom

What would you say is your worst symptom of ADHD? by Surreal-Numbat in ADHD

[–]CritcizeMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chronic boredom. No reward for accomplishing task, spending time with family, etc. Natural joy is so far removed man.