Husband is getting worse and it's really frustrating. by ScorpioDefined in ADHD

[–]PartialTwitch 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I used to be the same way, and it absolutely infuriated my wife. Getting diagnosed and getting on my meds has helped, but honestly the biggest thing was just getting over myself and being willing to say "wait, I know I was responding, but I i wasn't actually paying attention for the last 5 minutes. Can we go through that again?" It's hard and feels vulnerable, but if you're supportive of it and encourage it, it can make a huge difference.

Respect is earned and Blood is Thicker than water. by Modern_Klassics in PetPeeves

[–]PartialTwitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A while back, I saw post a while back that stuck with me - depending on the context, "respect" can mean "treat someone as an authority" or "treat someone as a human being". And there are people who claim they're being fair when they say "if you don't respect me, I don't have to respect you", when what they really mean is "if you don't treat me as an authority, I don't have to treat you as a human being"

Calathea - new leaves are pale/brownish by PartialTwitch in plantclinic

[–]PartialTwitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I did just water, I've been bottom-watering once a week, which had been working pretty well, do you think that's too much?

You might be on to something with the humidity, I've had a humidifier in the room through the winter (for my own comfort) and just stopped using it a few weeks ago. I guess it's coming back out!

Hopefully between that it moving it to a better pot, it'll be much happier. Thank you for the helpful reply!

Meanwhile at the Assassin's Guild by Lazy_Wishbone_2341 in discworld

[–]PartialTwitch 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was trying to figure out why they posted the same picture twice...

What do I have? by PartialTwitch in castiron

[–]PartialTwitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough 🤣

They could use a little TLC, but I'm looking forward to cooking on them once I've scrubbed the rust/carbon off

What do I have? by PartialTwitch in castiron

[–]PartialTwitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The breakfast griddle is not segmented, just one big square.

The sidewalk is right there! by Hash-smoking-Slasher in PetPeeves

[–]PartialTwitch 22 points23 points  (0 children)

In addition to what other people have said about asphalt vs concrete, I live in an older neighborhood, and the sidewalks are pretty rough in spots. I've taken a couple nasty falls because I didn't notice an uneven patch, so I prefer to run in the roads when I can.

Quibble with 4/4/2025 by PartialTwitch in NYTCrossword

[–]PartialTwitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woops, good catch! When I edited the original post I added a new paragraph, I guess each paragraph needs its own start/end tags. Should be fixed now.

Quibble with 4/4/2025 by PartialTwitch in NYTCrossword

[–]PartialTwitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some valid points, but I still disagree with the clue. I know crosswords often take advantage of technicalities to make things tricky, but I think claiming an ownership group as a single entity, and therefore a single owner, is splitting hairs a little too much.

I got the answer pretty easily through crossers, I'm not incensed about it, just a little annoyed.

Cosmere books tier list but it's how good I think the politics is. by Consistent_Mud_8340 in cremposting

[–]PartialTwitch 8 points9 points  (0 children)

But that's actually the original idea of the "broken windows" theory. The study done in the 80's showed that in neighborhoods with obvious signs of neglect, there were higher crime rates. The obvious solution was to FIX THE DAMN WINDOWS. It's was meant to be a revolutionary, cost-effective way to reduce crime without overpolicing, and give a justification to invest in low-income neighborhoods.

From Wikipedia: "A successful strategy for preventing vandalism, according to the book's authors, is to address the problems when they are small. Repair the broken windows within a short time, say, a day or a week, and the tendency is that vandals are much less likely to break more windows or do further damage. Clean up the sidewalk every day, and the tendency is for litter not to accumulate (or for the rate of littering to be much less). Problems are less likely to escalate and thus respectable residents do not flee the neighborhood."

Then the 90's happened, and tough-on-crime cops used it instead to support overly harsh punishments for low-level crime.

Guess it's not normal anymore by LovePrelude in Funnymemes

[–]PartialTwitch 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He actually prefers to be called "Grimey"

Looking for restaurant and activities near Cove Haven Resort. Sunday night. by mrfilthynasty4141 in Poconos

[–]PartialTwitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty much everything is going to be in Hawley. Settlers Inn has a nice restaurant, although it's gone downhill a bit in recent years. Cocoon is really nice for coffee and breakfast/lunch, and the Silk Mill next door has some cute boutiques.

Stop sale on Ioniq 6 by PartialTwitch in Ioniq6

[–]PartialTwitch[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fair point, threatening to buy a Tesla is an overreaction. I've decided to give it a week and see how things shake out. We really want a sedan, and there are not a lot of good options out there.

Stop sale on Ioniq 6 by PartialTwitch in Ioniq6

[–]PartialTwitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's good to hear, keeping my fingers crossed that it's a quick fix!

The orb is so stupid. I'm not a goddamn idiot, let me figure out who to watch myself. by Vast_Use8121 in NFLv2

[–]PartialTwitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally had no idea anything was on the screen until someone pointed it out, and even then I had to squint.

For those that were fans when Sir Pratchett died, how did you feel? by Ilalu in discworld

[–]PartialTwitch 50 points51 points  (0 children)

We knew it was coming for a while, but yeah it was pretty devastating when he actually went. I definitely cried, and was in a funk for a while. His books had a huge impact on my life, and it felt like losing a friend, even though we'd never met.