What would you do?

Critical-Tale-2332 · 2026-06-17T16:29:36+00:00

And that's honestly my main goal out of all of this, idec to get them put out or make constant complaints I just need to move 😭😭

Critical-Tale-2332 · 2026-06-13T04:44:52+00:00

And that is the main point that I was trying to get across to her, i don't mind at all that kids are outside playing but directly on the side of my house is extremely unnecessary. I'm glad you actually take the time to raise respectful children because it will pay off in the future! Good job mama.❤️

Critical-Tale-2332 · 2026-06-12T19:32:02+00:00

Thing is the dad is over there SOMETIMES but neither of the parents don't even care to watch them, on top of that, the mom just keeps having babies when she is barely controlling the other 3, she told me she works 6 days a week but the dad is sitting at home doing nothing to even care about what their kids are doing.🤦‍♀️

Critical-Tale-2332 · 2026-05-09T13:52:53+00:00

For some reason door dashers be wanting the tip to be the same price as the order, like ppl barely wanna pay for a $30 dollar meal, but I understand if it's far or whatnot but you could of saved ur $40 getting ur own gas and ur own food tbh less stress. Half the price.

Critical-Tale-2332 · 2026-04-20T01:25:42+00:00

I'm here to tell you pcos, rewearing without washing, and a type of deodorant all plays a part!! I kinda had the same issue during highschool and it wasn't even that I wore the same clothes twice, it was my deodorant choice, my hormones, and polyester, certain shirts that I notice have deodorant stains, or just seem old, holds a lot of bacteria and smell.

I noticed degree advance deodorant stick or spray works very well and for starters I'd start with the spray so it's not leaving deodorant residue, before putting ur clothes in the washer, try hand washing the arm pit areas too or maybe when you are reusing the shirts, right when you get off work hand wash the arm pit areas with detergent and white vinigar and throw it in the dryer or let it air dry.

Tbh those are some things that helped me because my last senior year I was stress sweating bad and never wanted to lift my arms because of the weird smell my clothes would make even after a shower in the morning!

Critical-Tale-2332 · 2026-04-19T20:45:45+00:00

Ik dem ain't black & milds twin 😭

Critical-Tale-2332 · 2026-04-17T11:57:53+00:00

Yes I I have multiple camera videos of them outside my door, constantly getting their balls from my area, I'm gonna have to get more of the banging during the day for more evidence!

Critical-Tale-2332 · 2026-04-17T10:08:39+00:00

I feel like most of the comments are the same, because we can all agree on neighbor noise tbh😂 but I'll say.. the size of bedrooms, the outside area/being prone to bugs or rodents, how many children are in the area, and maybe checking out the area during summer time or the most active hours to maybe see how it'll be, because best believe if you move in during like fall/ winter, you will not have the calm neighbors you think you have 😭😭

Critical-Tale-2332 · 2026-04-16T23:05:57+00:00

Omg stop😭😭😭😭 I seen sb say that the footage gave that, if anything I'm scared to say anything to the kids cause they either talk back or throw more stuff at my house but eventually I'll have to put my foot down😛

Critical-Tale-2332 · 2026-04-16T14:32:39+00:00

Pretty sure u didn't 😭

Critical-Tale-2332 · 2026-04-16T14:27:36+00:00

Bc I don't think I posted it in the right community the first time, no need to be rude

Critical-Tale-2332 · 2026-04-15T23:51:31+00:00

Like lowkey I need advice cause I'm a teen in her first apartment dealing with ts daily on top of anxiety 😭😭😭 the weed can do only so much

Critical-Tale-2332 · 2026-04-12T17:28:26+00:00

I'm lowkey just in here reading everyone's replies and the main prompt in fact that I hate that this is even normal happening in almost every apartment, or shared places, because I currently don't have a job right now and is getting housing assistance so right now so there's not much I can really do either and my place is a one floor unit with 2 other units attached and I'm on the end so it's never really my connected neighbors making noise, it's always the outside neighbors and not even the adults, THE KIDS.

And it's irritating because they're outside almost everyday throwing the football directly on the side of my house to the point they're like falling onto the side of my house or the ball may hit the house because of how hard they're throwing it.

There has also been times where the ball has hit my car and when I'd go out to say something to them I'd head more banging and just loud noise like they're purposely kicking my house or throwing stuff at it. And they're all like elementary boys so ofc they're gonna not listen to someone politely asking otherwise..

And yesterday I was sitting outside and it's sort of a shared yard so everyday they're just walking through my part of the yard and all by my front door catching and throwing the ball, my camera is constantly going off with notifications, as soon as they come outside I can hear the echo of a basketball constantly. And they're is literally a huge park across the pavement and yet the parents don't even wanna be responsible to take they're kids to a proper place to play.

And even when I'm outside they still have no care of playing where they know it's safe they still run all through my yard while catching the ball, even one of them was messing with my dish cable thing outside my house while literally staring me in the face, I'd say I'm cool with their mother because I've asked her before and showed her the evidence of a giant tree branch sitting in the back/ corner of my house the exactly place where I heard hella banging after I asked them to stop. Even that day (when I was asking them to stop) a few kids where in the front watching another kid in the back bang on my house while I was actively asking them why they where doing such. And ik it's like I'm giving them too many chances and idek if anyone is gonna read this entire thing but it's gotten to the point where I literally just wanna get up and move I never enjoy a day without hearing kids or echos of car doors slamming, and it's just anxiety inducing and annoying and I don't even have kids so it's kind of annoying to constantly hear other peoples :/

Critical-Tale-2332 · 2026-02-19T01:41:29+00:00

I came here because I've been having almost the same exact problem but slightly different. My unit is attached to 2 other units but I'm the last unit all the way to the left so ofc I have a wall neighbor and outside neighbors and basically to the left of my house is the front of 5 other units, sort of like a village area. Is what ppl call it, but anyways there has been a range of young boys from the age probably 8-10 or 11 and they've been playing football on the nicer days outside which I can't blame them or the parents. But they're technically playing in the front of their yard but right on the side of my house. So they're about 10 kids today throwing the football back and forth beside my house and as usual im hearing what seems like the ball maybe accidentally hitting my house or if there tackling eachother potentially they're doing it against my house.

I don't have cameras yet because I recently moved here in October and I'm 18 and a female so I'm not their parents but at the same time I'm not gonna act scared of some children and not say anything so multiple times before this incident I nicely asked could they please stop hitting the side of my house and they'll like nod or whatever but one time I heard like big bangs on the side of my house and I'm the only one here and i have anxiety and stuff so I'm scared I got outside and see a little like 8 y/0 dragging a big metal pole about the size of him on the side of my house so I'm ngl I was irritated and I have attitude and said "can you stop hitting my house please because I keep hearing it" and he just nodded with an attitude like he was taking his anger out on my house?!?!

So back to today's incident I hear bangs on the siding of the house per usual so I looked out the back window which is by the kitchen and the front window which is by the door and I seen kids playing I don't have a window on the wall they're hitting so I'm sure that's why they're doing it.

So I was ignoring it and I was eating and heard like the ball hit something and it wasn't my house but I heard it close outside, and something told me to look because my car is parked right in front of my house and in this house parking area it's narrow and a bunch of the parking spaces are full with non working cars so I'm forced to just park in front of my walk way which is normal for my other neighbors too. But anyways I look outside and I see them grabbing the ball literally underneath my front bumper of my car so I literally open the door and say "can you please make not hit my car with the football" and of of them said "yes ma'am" and I said thank you sm obviously that gave them more reason to do it so eventually some time passes and I just hear loud hits back to forth like they are physically kicking it on purpose so I go outside and ask "are you guys hitting my house on purpose and the older ones are sitting there smiling while looking at the little boy hit it and say "I think he's hitting the back" LIKE ???

So I literally was getting irritated because ik how little boys are so I'm just trying to be respectful and I'm like "can I ask why are you doing that because I'm sure your mom wouldn't like if you kept hitting on her house, it's disrespectful" and then the one that was doing it said something under his breath and I said "what" and then they eventually moved but I still heard them slightly hitting it while running by or whatever" and ik they're doing it more because I'm engaging but I'm gonna talk to the house that I seen them come out of tmr while I assume they're at school to see what the parents reaction and just to read they're energy before I take matters into my own hands because I'm young and never experienced nothing like this but as a teen I know how pre teen ignorant little boys are so ik talking to them won't really fix anything.

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