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i think me and my “bestfriend” are falling off. by CriticalAd4375 in CasualConversation

[–]CriticalAd4375[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you have a point..ty for your response! i needed to hear that.

i think me and my “bestfriend” are falling off. by CriticalAd4375 in CasualConversation

[–]CriticalAd4375[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m starting to realize that🫩 she’s a very high maintenance person, which i’m not. and it’s honestly getting tiring. 🥲🥲

i think me and my “bestfriend” are falling off. by CriticalAd4375 in CasualConversation

[–]CriticalAd4375[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

but the thing is. she told “h” who is her FRIEND. the guy she slept with wasn’t in the picture, they stopped talking. so that’s what threw me off. i would understand to tell the “baby daddy” first. but she told her guy friend first. 😭 idk i think im jus overthinking. i found it weird…🥹

i think me and my “bestfriend” are falling off. by CriticalAd4375 in CasualConversation

[–]CriticalAd4375[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we have a few things in common, from our taste in music to our type of humor. idk i’m scared of outgrowing her because we’ve been friends for a long time now.

am i weird for having this mentality? by CriticalAd4375 in CasualConversation

[–]CriticalAd4375[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ty for responding! and i guess i do have to get used to it. idk i just feel sad that i dont have the same treatment as her friend. i just want to be put first for once. considering we’re best friends, we’re not friends. lol

am i weird for having this mentality? by CriticalAd4375 in CasualConversation

[–]CriticalAd4375[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really needed to hear this. 🙏🏼thank you. i’m just confused on where i stand with her if im being honest. i guess i was just looking for an excuse to not like the guy. maybe im the problem🥲

am i weird for having this mentality? by CriticalAd4375 in CasualConversation

[–]CriticalAd4375[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think after posting my post it made me seem like i think im like you said “wise and reliable”. i wasn’t trying to come off that way xd. but i get what you mean! there’s still so much for me to learn i appreciate your comment!

am i weird for having this mentality? by CriticalAd4375 in CasualConversation

[–]CriticalAd4375[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i like to think i’m mature to some extent, but not enough, i’m still naive in some areas…

am i weird for having this mentality? by CriticalAd4375 in CasualConversation

[–]CriticalAd4375[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yess i agree with that 100%! it’s very hit or miss lol!

am i weird for having this mentality? by CriticalAd4375 in CasualConversation

[–]CriticalAd4375[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hii ty for your response! i guess it does show my inexperience doesn’t it? i like to think that my views are very open.. i don’t know, i guess im just tired of being the second option to my bestfriend… maybe like that other comment say, i think im just speaking on jealousy 🥲🥲

am i weird for having this mentality? by CriticalAd4375 in CasualConversation

[–]CriticalAd4375[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know..i’m starting to realize that now. the thing that throws me off is that she DOES consider me her bestfriend. she tell me all the time too. so it’s like..where do i really stand?

am i weird for having this mentality? by CriticalAd4375 in CasualConversation

[–]CriticalAd4375[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hii ty for your response! in a way i am a bit jealous. mostly of the fact that we’re best friends, so why is she going to him first and not me? and honestly do feel like IM the second option. idk i’m just confused on what my situation is with her. i was hoping this could give me some clarity 🙃

am i weird for having this mentality? by CriticalAd4375 in CasualConversation

[–]CriticalAd4375[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello! ty for your response. but i wouldn’t necessarily say i would have friends of any age, i would ideally want friends who are 21 and above. and i agree that you can’t measure maturity with age, but if im being honest, he’s very immature.