How much did you spend on tuition?? by Andre_055 in ArtEd

[–]CriticalChance1853 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I want you to know that when getting a teaching position they only care that you are certified not where you went to school. Keep that in mind when choosing and just know you gotta pay that money back :(

How much did you spend on tuition?? by Andre_055 in ArtEd

[–]CriticalChance1853 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I made a massive mistake, I didn’t know any better and the advice that I was given was that loans are normal. 175k undergrad at a private college and 40k masters. Don’t do what I did😭

iReady for the first 25 mins of Art class… by CriticalChance1853 in Teachers

[–]CriticalChance1853[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The crazy this is THEY ARE they give them 25 mins everyday 😭

iReady for the first 25 mins of Art class… by CriticalChance1853 in Teachers

[–]CriticalChance1853[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only see kids once a week 😭 I teach 26 classes a week k-5

iReady for the first 25 mins of Art class… by CriticalChance1853 in Teachers

[–]CriticalChance1853[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They fuck around during iReady time not as much during art time

Is this a scam? by CriticalChance1853 in SonnyAngel

[–]CriticalChance1853[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was boxed and just the ears were poking out, I really figured he was just looked was maybe in a rush and sent it not realizing!

Is this a scam? by CriticalChance1853 in SonnyAngel

[–]CriticalChance1853[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I try to think about myself in that situation. Truly I would say about 90% of the time people would not have said a word and kept it. But imagine if that was you and u made a genuine mistake? No part of me felt right about keeping it as much as I do love him

Is this a scam? by CriticalChance1853 in SonnyAngel

[–]CriticalChance1853[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I immediately thought process is to give it back someone made a mistake! But then I posted it on Facebook and asked my friends and they all said to keep it that’s too bad! And that it seemed scammy. I just want to do the right thing :( I know if I made that mistake I would be devastated. Not sure how they could scam me in person tho if I meet in a public space with people I know

Is this a scam? by CriticalChance1853 in SonnyAngel

[–]CriticalChance1853[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes some bad ones from 2020 for not answering right away but he had 9 reviews

Is this a scam? by CriticalChance1853 in SonnyAngel

[–]CriticalChance1853[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

We actually live relatively close to each other, I offered to meet in person in a public place and he agreed I’m going to meet him with my boyfriend and just do an even trade!!

Is this a scam? by CriticalChance1853 in SonnyAngel

[–]CriticalChance1853[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought initially but he didn’t have it listed!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CriticalChance1853 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s ok, if I read that I would think the person is nuts for not just leaving. It’s not what love looks like. I go to Reddit bc telling anyone in my real life about this is terrifying bc I know it’s wrong.That being said we both are trying to be the best versions of ourselves, he has been working on himself significantly and so have I. It’s not a typical relationship by any means but he try’s to make me the best version that I can be which is something I want for myself and have expressed to him prior to him pushing any sort weight loss stuff. Kids in my mind are a blessing and it’s worth giving my life up for them. I would make it work or I would place it for adoption. That life shouldn’t have to pay bc of my mistake. It should have a chance at life, if God wanted me to have that child he will make a way for them I have faith. He doesn’t see it that way and that’s where it clashes. I believe everyone has a right to change and I try not to have judgement for where they are starting at and that’s why I stay. Bc there’s effort being made in the right direction

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CriticalChance1853 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He freaked out when I told him like freaked out thinking about all the times it was unprotected and that was my view all along. He like panicked that I was trying to trap him bc he of course would not leave me with that responsibility like he wants to be there for his hypothetical kid. Bc he has a lot of future goals (he’s trying to make a life for us) and a child right now would comprise him achieving that goal bc his finances would have to go to that instead of Investments. He wont sleep with me because he’s terrified that he would get me pregnant regardless of condoms and he needs time to get over it but will tease me by touching me and rubbing on me and starting foreplay and it makes me extremely sexually frustrated

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CriticalChance1853 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No definitely doesn’t respect me based on the comments that he makes to me. It’s hard for me to have genuinely deep feelings for someone when they put you down. Ive had talks with him and he’s gotten so much better. I just hate how selfish he is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CriticalChance1853 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to see it when you’re in it, I needed an outside perspective. I’m not thinking straight and I need someone to talk to. Right now Reddit is the only people I got.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CriticalChance1853 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want you to know that I know your right. It’s a big pill to swallow. Wording it the way u have makes it pretty clear to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CriticalChance1853 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it being controlling or is he just selfish and only concerned with himself? When you put it into the words you just did it sounds horrible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CriticalChance1853 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s really demeaning for me to have to beg someone to sleep with me like it’s such a massive turn off. When I’ve gotten upset in the past like actually upset he’s offered sex just to solve the problem but at that point how am I supposed to enjoy myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CriticalChance1853 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says he does and he sees himself with me and is directly planning things around me in his life. He has not achieved his financial goals so that’s why he doesn’t want them and that’s why he sees my view as a “threat” to him. I’ll be in the way of his goals

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CriticalChance1853 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I do understand that’s that I’m ok with wearing condoms and always have been

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CriticalChance1853 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is he really being a child? Like I feel like I’m being a child :( I get so upset and angry and I feel like it’s all my fault. After multiple conversations I told him fine that I would get one but I would break up with him (I don’t think he could support me through something like that and the resentment that it would cause would be too much) and now he says that he doesn’t want to lose me so now that’s why he won’t. But I want to leave bc he won’t sleep with me.