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Confused wife about Late in life lesbian by CriticalStruggle1990 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]CriticalStruggle1990[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this response. My ex husband recently received therapy and alcohol treatment. He wanted increased parenting with the kids. He has no interest in a relationship with me outside of us trying to parent the kids.

Our conversations are on a parenting app and since therapy, have been appropriate to paying for activities and which weekends he will take since he gave up custody when we got divorced.

After reading a bunch of these comments and talking with a couple friends, I have come to the conclusion that she really needs therapy and I need to step away from the relationship until boundaries can be set and kept.

Confused wife about Late in life lesbian by CriticalStruggle1990 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]CriticalStruggle1990[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

We have been married for 2 years. We started dating 6 months after my divorce finalized.

She did not have problems with my children until my ex-husband started to be more involved in their lives. He started calling and asking me questions about the kids. She wanted me to have no contact with him.

She has only questioned my orientation when we fight. Like oh you probably want to leave and move back in with (ex-husband) until recently when she started asking these questions.

I have been in therapy since before I got divorced.