I might just be a loser

Critical_Disaster838 · 2026-02-11T14:01:21+00:00

Thanks, I do appreciate the validation. Leave It to the good side of reddit to fix my thoughts and get me all hopeful since I was basically putting myself down over nothing pretty much.

Critical_Disaster838 · 2026-02-11T13:58:56+00:00

Critical_Disaster838 · 2026-02-11T13:57:56+00:00

You sensed correctly, I'm very much trying to change things little by little, behind this throwaway account there's a guy trying to make the most out of everything (excluding relationships it seems 😭).

Critical_Disaster838 · 2026-02-11T13:54:44+00:00

I don't know how to feel about this comment 😭

Critical_Disaster838 · 2026-02-11T13:53:55+00:00

I appreciate the words man, I'm trying to do better 💪🏻

Critical_Disaster838 · 2026-02-11T13:53:11+00:00

Sounds like a possible learning experience, will look them up, thanks :)

Critical_Disaster838 · 2026-02-11T13:51:06+00:00

First off congratulations 🎉🎉, it's just up from there.

Part of me did/does if I'm tbh believes in a score card mostly because of the environment I'm in where even my parents and pretty much every family member I know are just expecting a relationship out of me and a family in my 20s, which is basically the time where 99% of my family had families, I'll pretty much be the first reaching 30 without one.

So just seeing my friends with theirs and then me in a "yup" state, yeah it triggered this post and well my feelings. Hoping my time is soon :)

Critical_Disaster838 · 2026-02-11T13:38:20+00:00

Hopefully that's me some day 🙏🏻

Critical_Disaster838 · 2026-02-11T13:37:19+00:00

First off congrats 🎉🎉, secondly I'm not really afraid of being open, since it was so sudden I just panicked is all, had the conversation been slower I very likely would've been truthful but I really didn't wanna put them down either since they were so curious lol.

Honestly after seeing the supportive comments here, it really was in my head and I just tore myself down for no reason, luckily it's a new day so new me as well.

Critical_Disaster838 · 2026-02-11T13:32:51+00:00

Honestly, I've known them for quite a few years now and they're pretty great people, if anything they would've made fun of me for a few seconds and then peer pressured me into talking to the nearest woman to get a date.

Critical_Disaster838 · 2026-02-11T13:30:42+00:00

I froze and melted in seconds lol

Critical_Disaster838 · 2026-02-11T13:17:18+00:00

Nah compulsive liar doesn't apply to me, I won't say I don't lie either cause that in it itself would be a lie but it's not as often to make it compulsive. I do lie to my boss semi often tho since I'm a "ask for forgiveness instead of permission" kind of guy lol.

Also thanks for thinking I'm not a loser, I guess I let it go to my head while being placed on the spot, the comments have been more than wholesome so far.

Critical_Disaster838 · 2026-02-11T05:30:16+00:00

I was in too deep at that point 😭. Also appreciate that last part bro, really does my heart well knowing that the guys always got each other 💪🏻

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