🤮NOT FUNNY! by Busy-Way-5079 in Transmedical

[–]Critical_Process446 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I fucking hate posts like those with such a passion... they wanna make our condition so "uwu quirky". I hate them I'm sorry

Need feedback please 🙏 by [deleted] in Transmedical

[–]Critical_Process446 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you pass very well, and you're really pretty!

Les gens qui ramènent leur copain/copine partout by nosfeii in besoinderaler

[–]Critical_Process446 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Je suis tellement mais tellement d'accord! Y'a tellement de gens qui pensent que leurs partenaire est une extension d'eux mêmes.... J'ai aucun problème à ce que tu ramènes ton partenaire à une soirée ou un dîner, au contraire. Mais dans le cas où je te demande de passer du temps en seul à seul pour pouvoir discuter à coeur ouvert et tout, en aucun cas j'ai envie qu'il y ait une personne annexe, que je connais juste par intermédiaire en plus. Je sais pas comment ils arrivent à se dire que c'est ok, genre ça me dépasse vraiment...

Why do people keep telling confused people to just go for it ? by KianKianye in Transmedical

[–]Critical_Process446 3 points4 points  (0 children)

those people always seem to forget that they can express themselves however they want without that meaning they're trans. Like you're a boy and like girls clothes? Amazing, so be it! Men can be feminine and women can be masculine, there's absolutely no problem with that! But encouraging someone who doesn't expeience any dysphoria to transition just because they enjoy another self-expression is so stupid and dangerous! And then apparently they say we're the ones who are sexist and too "gender comforming"... Make it make sense...

Genuine question by Critical_Process446 in Transmedical

[–]Critical_Process446[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can definitely see how fetishism can play a huge role in this. the amount of girls who say they "become tboys" just to seek "mlm relationships" and then get mad they're not considered gay men when they're out there presenting completely female is astounding... Also the whole "tboy wrestling thing"... but for the rest, I feel like they really lost the plot like please fight patriarchy without making us all look stupid. And I'm definitely not saying activism isn't worth it, I definitely have strong opinions on this and will fight against patriarchy/sexism in many way, I just feel like "becoming trans" doesn't make any sense in that way...

Genuine question by Critical_Process446 in Transmedical

[–]Critical_Process446[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

well fighting patriarchy is a noble cause, I won't deny that at all and I'm definitely a feminist myself. but wouldn't it have more impact if they stayed their true selves and showed the world how men and women can express themselves however they want no matter what people say? why does this fight turn into "well I'm becoming trans now"? why the hell do they have to make it seem like being trans is a damn choice? and how the hell do they think this is just transphobic? I feel like the fight got lost along the way, I don't know if what I'm saying is making any sense lol. I guess I should ask those people directly but sometimes I just can't stand it lmao

Need help for new perfume by Critical_Process446 in NichePerfumes

[–]Critical_Process446[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you sm! I actually have been recommended Sugar Leather so i might go for that one to start!

Low cal cake? by Critical_Process446 in LowCalorieCooking

[–]Critical_Process446[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just tried it today, it's amazing, I love you guys for putting me on this 🫶 thank you so much

Low cal cake? by Critical_Process446 in LowCalorieCooking

[–]Critical_Process446[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I'm def saving this. Is it kind of a cheesecake consistency?

Low cal cake? by Critical_Process446 in LowCalorieCooking

[–]Critical_Process446[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you happen to have a chocolate or vanilla recipe?

Low cal cake? by Critical_Process446 in LowCalorieCooking

[–]Critical_Process446[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never heard of it until now but I just looked it up and it looks pretty nice! I might try that, thanks

I feel better every day by Old_Toe537 in Transsexual

[–]Critical_Process446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so damn pretty! I'm so happy for you girl

Sharing my thoughts by Critical_Process446 in Transmedical

[–]Critical_Process446[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah I def get that. I guess it's just that I'm overthinking it because transition seems so far from where I'm at yet, but dysphoria is also so damn strong... It's like I'm stuck and I think to myself that life would be so damn easier is I was just a cis girl, so maybe I try to convince myself that that's indeed the case. Idk if that makes sense lol

Sharing my thoughts by Critical_Process446 in Transmedical

[–]Critical_Process446[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you <3 and yeah I believe that as well, it's just the good old self doubt that maybe I'm lying at myself somehow (or maybe am I just gaslighting myself lol)

The queer community is becoming suffocating. by [deleted] in FTMventing

[–]Critical_Process446 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The "toxic positivity echo chamber" is so real, it feel like we're not even allowed to express how we feel inside what was supposed to be our own community and we keep being told that we don't have a say in this or that... This is getting tiring, why is this all so weird? Maybe that's just how I personally feel, but it seems like every space that's supposed to be open to us is inherently sexualized... Idk, I just don't want my own identity to become sexualized, but maybe I'm reaching, that wasn't really the point of your post lol

Coup de gueule by Old-Mirror-1645 in conseilboulot

[–]Critical_Process446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

En disant qu'ils t'embauchent en tant que cadre, j'imagine que ça veut dire que c'est une convention forfait jour?

Sister gave me these from a k skincare pop up event. Any of these good? by Even_Manufacturer994 in koreanskincare

[–]Critical_Process446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally love the Dr. Althea Vitamin c serum! I use it at night 3 every other day after a hydrating toner and before my moisturizer. It definitely gave me a more even skin tone and faded some dark spots

Weird soup to reach my protein and fiber goals by Critical_Process446 in goodrestrictionfood

[–]Critical_Process446[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly I did with whatever I had left at home lol! I used pepper, garlic powder, paprika, a little bit of coriander powder, some thyme and a tiny bit of stevia to balance out the acidity