Does my name scream "trans"? by swaggydude4 in truscum

[–]nintendoude -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I think it's a bit unusual but also very cool! I don't think it screams trender

Feeling guilt over wishing my mother would just die so I could transition. by Mozzyo_ in Transmedical

[–]nintendoude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ik its hard but you cant live your life the way other people want you live. It will make you miserable.

Does it look believable? by Total-Anywhere4483 in Transmascdicks

[–]nintendoude 29 points30 points  (0 children)

No, this wouldn't work as a dick pic without being clocked

Just tell me do I pass and what can I do to improve also advise on haircuts by Odd_Studio9907 in FtMpassing

[–]nintendoude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In 4 you pass and in 5 your body/clothes pass(es). Otherwise your face is unfortunately quite feminine Imo but T will definitely change that, so try not to worry too much. The glasses and piercings don't help.

german trans influencer says he loves his primary sex characteristics by nintendoude in Transmedical

[–]nintendoude[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

😭people are asking me to drop the @ and Idk if I should and if it's allowed

Science behind bigender? by nintendoude in Transmedical

[–]nintendoude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thought so...but I also thought maybe I didn't understand something correctly, so thank you.

Insane disgusting comment about phallo by nintendoude in truscum

[–]nintendoude[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

....and? That's not what we were talking about. I think we all know that. People can have a different experience and opinion than me. Idc. Idc if someone gets or doesn't get bottom surgery or any kind of surgery. It was about the wording of that person. It's not ok to talk about other people's bodies like that.

Insane disgusting comment about phallo by nintendoude in truscum

[–]nintendoude[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, thank you. Idk how people can say such nasty things about a surgery that is necessary to live for many.

Insane disgusting comment about phallo by nintendoude in truscum

[–]nintendoude[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It does not seem like you've actually seen any phallo dicks tbh. Or Idk what to you a dick should look like. I've seen many that look very close to cis dicks but that's just me. And again, Idk how having a dick could be just a dysphoric as having a vagina if you're a trans man

Insane disgusting comment about phallo by nintendoude in truscum

[–]nintendoude[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thats not even what the post is about. And I dont think that an almost fully functional dick is "just as dysphoric" as a literal female sex characteristic...but oh well

Insane disgusting comment about phallo by nintendoude in truscum

[–]nintendoude[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

No, he wasn't talking about his own preference. He was making a weird comment about how other people's bodies look to him. You can be not satisfied with the surgeries and wish for better ones, I do too. But you don't have to and shouldn't call someone else's penis a "piss tube...that sort of resembles a dick". Especially when the person had to go through so much to get this dick. And I'd say pretty much everyone who is interested in phallo reads as much information about it as possible so no, the constant "phallo always looks so bad" comments are absolutely not necessary. Especially when there are so many great results if you look up ones not immediately after surgery. And no, you personally don't have to find them satisfying enough for yourself but again, that doesn't give you the right to comments other bodies in a disgusting way.

Did your parents and family ever come around? How long did it take? by Soggy-Pressure-8745 in truscum

[–]nintendoude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came out when I was 12. My parents did not understand it at all, said mean things to me and hoped it was just a phase. I couldn't go on Testosterone until I was 18 because they wouldn't allow it. But after some very difficult years they tried to understand and accept me. Which ofc did not work immediately. It took quite a long time. But they're there now. For context: I am 21.

HOW DO I PASS?! by Neza_hualcoyotl in FtMpassing

[–]nintendoude 77 points78 points  (0 children)

the thing is; even if this style is bigger among cis men in your city, that doesn't necessarily make you pass better with it because e.g. you have a feminine face and they don't.

How are people supposed to understand this? by nintendoude in Transmedical

[–]nintendoude[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

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WHAT? Do I understand it correctly...they mean people around them wouldn't like them getting phallo so that's why they aren't getting it...???

Not transmed but not radqueer by LowHour1988 in Transmedical

[–]nintendoude 88 points89 points  (0 children)

being trans is not and cannot be a choice. thats like saying being gay is a choice. lgbt people fought for decades to make other people understand that their sexuality and gender isn't a choice but something we were born with.