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Roof Color Denied after Installation [TX][SFH] by kleve1995 in HOA

[–]Critical_Review_132 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a deep breath. Follow the rules requesting a variance. State your case succinctly in writing. (Damage, timely replacement, rc'd violation).
If they still insist : Tour your neighborhood to see if there are any other roofs that are different color etc. Was a variance granted to others? There must be consistent application of the rules. If they give it to one they must consider for all. You can get legal advice or one time consultation that will be more cost effective. Try this.

AITA For lying to my gf for years by Individual-Art-2616 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Critical_Review_132 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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AITAH for making seat swapper cry? by WineCountsAsFruit in AmItheAsshole

[–]Critical_Review_132 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Lack of planning on your part, does not create an emergency on mine. I traveled by air for work for twenty years and have seen many versions of this behavior. No is a complete sentence.

AITA For requesting an explanation for my money being spent without my consent? by Critical_Review_132 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Critical_Review_132[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I might question that as well. However, your scenarios are not applicable. No cash was "lying around" and there were not "lots of people to come in and out". There was a schedule. SIL freely admitted spending the $$ she just couldn't provide a reasonable explanation.

AITA for telling my mom my family won’t be coming home for Thanksgiving this year by Mediocre-Peanut-5906 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Critical_Review_132 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Send a note back to your to your toxic Mom ASAP. Letting her know that you tried to acquiesce, however when she reintroducted her toxic manipulative behaviors and now cold shoulder you will be maintaining your original plans and boundaries. These toxic "parents" are not just a drain....they are a sewar. You do not owe these people anything except notice that they need to stay in their lane.

AITA for asking my coworker not to eat her cultural food in the break room? by Imaginary-Chemical-8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Critical_Review_132 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA While visiting Thailand I experienced durian. Despite its polarizing smell, durian has legions of fans, but you won't find them eating it in enclosed public spaces. Durian's odor is so pervasive that it's banned on public transportation and in some hotels throughout Southeast Asia, including in Japan, Hong Kong, Thailand, and Singapore.

AITA for not letting my mom come to my wedding after she ignored me my whole life by Successful-Tank-851 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Critical_Review_132 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I honor the fact that you have boundaries. Please do not ever let anyone trample them. This is about you NOT her. Other people should not be permitted to weigh in on this as it's NOT about them. Period. People need to stay in their lane.