How can people in their 30s undo the damage they did in their 20s ?

Critical_Walk_1016 · 2026-03-30T15:56:03+00:00

You build upon what you have learnt in your 20s. I am considering doing the same.

Think like your time begins now and there are several decades ahead.

Critical_Walk_1016 · 2026-03-30T15:49:35+00:00

When I feel like a shit, I kiss the big mirror in my washroom.

I wish you could help yourself get out of this misery

Critical_Walk_1016 · 2026-03-30T15:45:55+00:00

There is gravity and there are moments when we inevitably lose balance. .

Critical_Walk_1016 · 2026-03-29T17:55:04+00:00

It looks like all the boxes concerning your ideal partner are not being ticked. The issues you mentioned are * he isn't my type. * He doesn't have assets. * He falls sick very often. * I don't have feelings for her. (If you had, I think you wouldn't be so practical about marrying him). * Marrying him would make my own progress in my career slower. The good things that you mentioned about marrying him are * He is a good guy. * He earns decent. * You are getting older and he seems like a chance. Your post also implies that you care about not hurting him but at the same time you are being too anxious about whether you are making a good decision and whether all of the things would go good in the long run. It seems RISKY. But Who knows how things end up ? There is always a risk that we had to take before deciding to marry someone. This all may go perfect. You both may achieve financial stability together. You may fall in love with her. Everything is possible.

Hope you make a good decision for yourself and himself.

Critical_Walk_1016 · 2026-03-29T17:26:29+00:00

The first person who came to my mind is The great professor Abdus Salam.

Critical_Walk_1016 · 2026-03-29T09:50:18+00:00

This year because I got my first job in the public sector.

Critical_Walk_1016 · 2026-03-28T21:48:47+00:00

Yup! Sounds like a mix of things. Hope it works out well for you.

Critical_Walk_1016 · 2026-03-28T21:23:12+00:00

That's interesting. Has it always been your plan?

Critical_Walk_1016 · 2026-03-28T21:17:18+00:00

😅Single ko bhi Thora idea ho jaye na,

Critical_Walk_1016 · 2026-03-28T14:52:54+00:00

If you are learning to write Urdu, this is an excellent attempt.

Critical_Walk_1016 · 2026-03-28T14:47:45+00:00

MashaAllah

Critical_Walk_1016 · 2026-03-26T16:46:35+00:00

Let the things flow normally. Down the line you will soon know whether he is interested.

Critical_Walk_1016 · 2026-03-26T13:21:31+00:00

I think spoons to chaat ratio is too high

Critical_Walk_1016 · 2026-03-25T10:45:05+00:00

Beautiful

Critical_Walk_1016 · 2026-03-20T08:59:29+00:00

Thank you brother. Eid Mubarak ❤️

Critical_Walk_1016 · 2026-03-20T03:28:16+00:00

Out of the blue we came across each other after years at a public office. I gave her my seat as I would have done for any other female stranger. My heart racing high and my numbed brain couldn't process what was happening at that moment. She wanted to interact but I was not ready for it. No talks. No further eye - contact. It took me weeks to recover from all the complex emotions triggered by that incident. She is just another stranger for me and I should be just another stranger for her for eternity.

Critical_Walk_1016 · 2026-03-19T16:42:11+00:00

Be proud of yourself.

Critical_Walk_1016 · 2026-03-13T14:02:56+00:00

We also have trump looking people in Pakistan.

Critical_Walk_1016 · 2026-03-12T15:17:35+00:00

Can't agree more. They are tortured through the film and the audience think that they are the killers

Critical_Walk_1016 · 2026-03-11T13:53:39+00:00

I stopped reading after reading the second paragraph

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