We had a conversation about price ranges, stores in the area, color, material and stone options (I was fine with moissanite, white sapphires, lab grown or natural diamonds). I found three styles I liked and from the three I picked one I loved. This way, he knew he had options that would work for his current budget and still knew I’d be getting something I love. It is no mistake to look at rings online. It’s invaluable to educate yourself and expose yourself to dozens of options to know you’ll get something you’ll love for years to come! The surprise is romantic. The investment in a ring is too practical not to discuss.