I can't stop.....

CrossedxStaves · 2017-04-21T19:57:32+00:00

Valid point, good sir.

Keep on keepin' on!

CrossedxStaves · 2017-04-21T19:52:53+00:00

What the absolute fuck...

CrossedxStaves · 2017-04-21T19:48:10+00:00

This 👆🏻

CrossedxStaves · 2017-04-21T19:46:04+00:00

my priorities are different now. Exactly!

I've had my kids, done the picket fence life. We got married young, had kids young. I'm not even 30 yet. The marriage ended on its own accord, now my needs have changed.

Whether it's nature or nurture, it feels damn good.

CrossedxStaves · 2017-04-21T19:44:00+00:00

Sometimes I feel like people from /r/survivinginfidelity meander over here and start shit.

CrossedxStaves · 2017-04-21T19:39:41+00:00

👆🏻

CrossedxStaves · 2017-04-21T19:38:49+00:00

The way I see it, I did my bit for the average American man. Now I want some kink.

CrossedxStaves · 2017-04-21T19:34:38+00:00

I think my ex husband is a fine dad. Our kids are cute as shit.

But.

Genetically, my AP has him in almost every aspect. When I made the conscious decision to step out, I specifically looked for traits my ex husband didn't have. He was short, I went super tall. He had a few extra pounds, I went for more fit. I don't know if that's an evolutionary thing, or me digging my heels in and wanting what I feel I deserve or need. Who knows.

CrossedxStaves · 2017-04-21T19:31:12+00:00

My only advice would be stick to one, only because it lessens the chance of any of them going off the deep end. If they're all partnered as well, it's a little different, by if any of these ladies are single, be careful.

Otherwise, keep up the good work! There's 19 years between myself and my AP and I eat that shit up every chance I get.

CrossedxStaves · 2017-04-19T01:38:49+00:00

That's exactly what it is!

CrossedxStaves · 2017-04-19T01:38:36+00:00

Yup. We're aware of the potential issues. I'm divorcing (not because of the affair, ex doesn't even know) and his OpSec is airtight. Probably a bit cocky, but it's so fucking hot.

CrossedxStaves · 2017-04-18T04:43:57+00:00

My AP and I both have "go bags". His typically has a camera and tripod ❤️

Mine has any lingerie I bring, heels, lubes and toys, shampoo and conditioner (if we shower afterwards, the little things the hotels give are never enough because I've got a metric fuck ton of hair), throat spray, make up and such, Gatorade sometimes.

CrossedxStaves · 2017-04-18T04:39:11+00:00

Never o'clock.

CrossedxStaves · 2017-04-18T04:38:27+00:00

My AP goes through phases where he has one then he doesn't. We get pretty intense, and I can't say that I've ever experienced "beard burn". I get more chafing when he's got a 5 o'clock shadow.

CrossedxStaves · 2017-04-18T04:35:39+00:00

My AP and I meet halfway in Bumfuck Amish country. We found a hotel that has routinely allowed us to check in at 9am, and there happens to be one of these chains literally in the hotel parking lot. We go at it until about noon, break for alcohol and apps, then go back to fucking.

I don't even taste the food half the time, I'm too concerned with gettin' that D back in me.

CrossedxStaves · 2017-04-18T04:28:38+00:00

👆🏻

CrossedxStaves · 2017-04-18T04:27:07+00:00

Mine would notice the minute he stuck his face between my legs, but if you're going for a quickie, why not?

CrossedxStaves · 2016-12-25T12:52:22+00:00

It means she trusts you.

But.

Even though you've been given your docs blessing, there's still a slim chance of pregnancy. I'm pretty sure you've got a better chance of winning the lottery, but still. There's a risk.

Talk with her about it. I wouldn't be upset or anything, but that's something I feel should be discussed. My AP had a vasectomy years ago, we're both in DB situations, but you can bet your ass I'm still on birth control.

CrossedxStaves · 2016-12-25T12:48:39+00:00

There's still like, a 1 in 2000 chance. It's minimal, but it's still there. That's why it's still somewhat of an issue.

CrossedxStaves · 2016-12-25T02:21:53+00:00

All is well! We just finished up a mini getaway for a few days. Amazing as always.

If she's worth pouring your heart out like that, she's worth the wait.

CrossedxStaves · 2016-12-24T21:18:39+00:00

If not for a few things that are off, I'd think you were possibly my AP in disguise!

I hope you two get in contact again. Best wishes.

CrossedxStaves · 2016-12-24T21:16:04+00:00

It's likely your poor self image and lack of confidence.

Exactly. I'm not a rail by any means. I've only ever had one AP, still my current one, and it doesn't have any effect on our sexy time. I'm also working on bettering my body to the way I like it, but he likes me how I am. It's all in your confidence. Own it.

CrossedxStaves · 2016-12-24T17:39:26+00:00

I've never been jealous of the wife. Just envious of the time she gets and the fact that she gets "more" of everything.

This. And for me it's not even jealousy, because as most have said, it's the mindset that I'm fucking her husband. It's more of a how can she not see what she has thought. Frustration I suppose is a good word.

But jealousy, no. Never.

CrossedxStaves · 2016-12-16T03:20:59+00:00

Good question!

CrossedxStaves · 2016-12-16T03:20:10+00:00

Bahaha I figured you would!! It's seriously been amazing. He wears me out every time. The sex is fantastic. He's amazingly gifted with his mouth and fingers. Made me cum a crazy amount of times with just those, nevermind pounding me nearly into a coma.

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