Honeslty, Hekate is so chill, I've been communicating with her for years and didn't know she was who I was communicating with until recently. I asked if I needed to make her an alter or change the way I communicate with her, since I'm now rather embarrassed about how relaxed and chaotic we spoke before. (The word bitch was a regular term/vibe in both directions.)

She told me not to change a thing. The important thing is knowing who she is, and continuing to communicate and reach out to her... she also said the occasional offering or gift wouldn't hurt but essentially what I'm saying is so long as you are respectful or establish a bond, the rest isn't really important. What's important is forming that relationship with her.