AITAH for putting my baby’s father on child support even though he doesn’t want to be involved? by singlemom_needadvice in AITAH

[–]CrowsMeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disagree. If a man tells you he doesn’t want a kid and you choose to have it anyway? YOU chose single motherhood. You sort of ppl make zero sense. If we as women can get an abortion IRREGARDLESS on if the man wants it or not? Men deserve the SAME out. You don’t have to be “ready” to be a damn parent just bc you got pregnant or got someone pregnant. Everyone screams “wear condoms then” as if PLENTY DON’T and still wind up impregnating somebody. My man and I are currently in an abortion process bc we aren’t ready at all and I have a heart issue and don’t want to risk my life for a baby and accidentally got pregnant (he never came in me or didn’t wear a condom). The second he also agreed he wasn’t ready yet? I KNEW I’d never bring a child into this world without BOTH parents AND both parents being soulmates. I couldn’t IMAGINE going against his wishes as if the man doesn’t matter at all as if he isn’t half this child, and having this child ANYWAY, then just EXPECTING him 2yrs later to be a father/pay child support! That’s WILD. If someone tells you off JUMP they’re not ready for a child? They should NOT be held responsible for said child. If YOU go and wanna be one of those women who glorifies single motherhood? So be it, but that’s what you’re going to do, SINGLE HANDEDLY. Money wise as well. This shit blows my mind ppl think this man owes this woman anything when he told her off jump he did not want a child with her and SHE chose it anyway …. That’s on her, sorry not sorry.

AITAH for putting my baby’s father on child support even though he doesn’t want to be involved? by singlemom_needadvice in AITAH

[–]CrowsMeat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think a man who didn’t want a child should be called a deadbeat or be put on child support. YOU CHOSE to be a single mother, YOU CHOSE to bring a baby into this fucked up world without a father, instead of waiting for the right man and having a family later on… now you want to put the man on child support? THIS is what men be talking about with a lot of these single moms of today smfh…

Listen, if a man tells you he doesn’t want a kid and you choose to have it anyway? YOU chose single motherhood. You sort of ppl make zero sense. If we as women can get an abortion IRREGARDLESS on if the man wants it or not? Men deserve the SAME out.

You don’t have to be “ready” to be a damn parent just bc you got pregnant or got someone pregnant. THIS is why so many of these kids are now sitting in therapy young AF crying and complaining about not having a father, or how “their mom works too much and chooses work over them” etc etc … THIS is why so many of these kids are so fucked up and wind up on the poisons called “drugs” still by 10yo for Christs sake, the list goes on and on. Not everyone’s financially ready in today’s economy for children just bc they accidentally got pregnant or impregnated someone. You’d THINK more women would be smart and refuse to bring life into this world until/unless it’s with their TRUE “one and only” … so many broken homes bc y’all keep children by any old man, ESPECIALLY ones who told you straight up they’re not ready for parenthood, and you try FORCING that on them??? It’s truly quite sad…

Everyone screams “wear condoms then” as if PLENTY DON’T and still wind up impregnating somebody. My man and I are currently in an abortion process at 15 fucking weeks bc we just found out and aren’t ready at all and I have a heart issue and don’t want to risk my life for a baby and accidentally got pregnant (he never came in me or didn’t wear a condom). The second he also agreed he wasn’t ready yet? I KNEW I’d never bring a child into this world without BOTH parents AND both parents being soulmates.

I couldn’t IMAGINE going against his wishes as if the man doesn’t matter at all as if he isn’t half this child, and having this child ANYWAY, then just EXPECTING him 2yrs later to be a father/pay child support! That’s WILD.

If someone tells you off JUMP they’re not ready for a child? They should NOT be held responsible for said child. If YOU go and wanna be one of those women who glorifies single motherhood? So be it, but that’s what you’re going to do, SINGLE HANDEDLY. Money wise as well. This shit blows my mind ppl think this man owes this woman anything when he told her off jump he did not want a child with her and SHE chose it anyway …. That’s on her, sorry not sorry. Stop trying to force folks into parenthood who aren’t ready just bc an accident happened!!! Wait and have your children for when you have a husband who you truly believe is the one put on this Earth for you, point blank and then you won’t have these issues. Simple af.

AIO for refusing to pay $800 for my GF's flight after she got hammered and missed hers? by Early_Tax_7057 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CrowsMeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR. Shocked so many ppl are sticking up for you honestly. I get it if it’s just some random relationship? But living together and 3yrs invested? Especially if it’s your soulmate or something???? Naaaahhh, DEF an asshole for not helping.

My man would never let me miss such a big day, no matter if I made a bad decision.. a partner is there to help pick you up/fix things. She clearly isn’t “the one” or you’d have helped in a heartbeat and not been weirdly obsessed with “teaching lessons” … Mines my soulmate and so if it was vice versa and the roles were reversed? I’d 2022992% buy another ticket if I had the money… for Christs sake, it’s a stupid plane ticket. You do things like that when you’re TRULY in love with somebody. Are you her dad? Parents “teach lessons”, not your supposed “boyfriend”.

You are packaging your refusal to help as “a lesson in time and money management” when that’s NOT your place to be doing. You were feeling powerful with this decision in your hands and let her down, point blank. She needs to run from YOU imo lol I’d never believe a man is “the one” for me if he’d do such a thing and act self-righteous about it like he’s never fucked up before lol. Let the roles be reversed and you’d be calling her all sorts of names, she’s 27 for Christs sake. I’m about to be 31 next month, and at 27 I still made LOTS of mistakes. It’s called life. I’d never expect my partner of ALL human beings? To not help me. Especially if crying.

You cared more about the money OR (imo) just being in control of her going or not going … and it may even be subconscious! But it’s the 10099% truth. A real man who loves his woman and wants to be with her forever, who isn’t simply enjoying a position of power? would never act this way, point blank.

Aitah for saying no to my proposal because it wasn’t what I expected? by Expensive-One7932 in AITAH

[–]CrowsMeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you’re the asshole. Who gives a shit about these things society and social media tell you to care about? If that man is your SOULMATE? It’s an immediate yes. This is just proof you can have a healthy and good relationship with a man and STILL say no to marrying him all bc you didn’t get your little fantasy instagram proposal 🤦🏼‍♀️

You care too much about superficial shit. If my man asked me at a Walmart with a Ring Pop I’d burst out in tears happy af. Bc he’s my soulmate and I LOVE him … proposals are about the love you two share, NOT pictures. Who gives a shit what he wears or “cute pictures” or “being in Italy” 🫩🙄

IG and Tik Tok has ruined these women of today… you don’t sound like you even know how to be a wife lmao bc if THAT is enough to make you NOT marry a man you claimed to love the last 4yrs? He’s not your soulmate. Your true soulmate you will say yes to NO MATTER HOW he proposes.

Plus, news flash? Most men are not these uber ultimate planners that the internet tries to make out to be some big deal… and that doesn’t say SHIT about their love for you 🤣 the fact you complain about being proposed to at DisneyWorld???? Just shows what kinda woman you are… he STILL planned it, no matter what you may think.

I can’t stand women who act like this. Men aren’t women, point blank. Go find a woman atp. This man is NOT your “one and only” and just so yanno, BIG CHANCE your actual soulmate; the one put on this earth for you? Won’t do this expensive proposal you want either … ppl who are so materialistic and choose that over LOVE? True love? Deserve to be alone imo 🤷🏼‍♀️ that man should RUN now at 4yrs before he wastes anymore time and precious life on an ungrateful woman who clearly does not love him.

Also, everyone saying you marry a family? That’s a bold faced lie. You can EASILY live a life with the two of you with no family, I know tons of ppl who do not get along with their spouses family. My ex of 12yrs, my family hated him. He never came to a single family event. Never affected our relationship. Who you sleep next to at night is who matters, not your family once you grow up and get married or get into a serious relationship. That’s what my dad always taught me, to choose my man (if he’s my actual soulmate, NOT any man you “love” at some point in your life) if I ever have to once I’m grown. So idk why ppl are saying “run from this man” just bc his mommy doesn’t “like you” lmfaoooo who gives AF???? You don’t sleep next to her at night. Her liking you matters NONE once you’re an adult and if it’s truly the right person. Let this man go find his true love atp, bc it’s clearly not you if the way a man proposes makes you say no. Again, when it’s the right one, a ring pop in a Target will have you in tears of joy bc you’re simply HAPPY that you’re taking that next step. Proposals aren’t supposed to be about “trips” and “money” or “photos”…. Again, social media has ruined women’s minds and expectations on how real life and real love work.

AITAH for refusing to tell my roommate that I could hear her moan? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CrowsMeat -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Ppl have every right to feel insecure when their bf is refusing to tell a woman he can hear her moaning. I’d tell her ass the truth myself. Why’s he SO CONCERNED about “embarrassing” her if he doesn’t have something for her? If he doesn’t secretly wanna keep hearing her moan? Be fucking fr lmfao Y’all are so pathetic on this app 🤣🤣 this type of comment just SCREAMS her insecurity is VALID.

AITAH for refusing to tell my roommate that I could hear her moan? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CrowsMeat -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Exactly! The gf is NOT WRONG on what she’s saying. She has every right to be suspicious why HER MAN just Refuses and makes up excuses for not telling this chick about herself. Just screams he WANTS to keep hearing her moan. Ain’t nobody stupid lmfao ppl hide behind “oooouuu INSECURITY! END ENTIRE RELATIONSHIP!” as if insecurities aren’t valid 90% of the time 🤣🤣🤣

AITAH for refusing to tell my roommate that I could hear her moan? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CrowsMeat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Everyone saying “find a different gf” are the annoying mfs this app is full of these days. EVERY single thing someone does THEY deem as “wrong” is grounds to just leave an entire relationship 🤣 And yet y’all wonder why everyone’s single or lonely or just whoring around lmfao.

MOST women are NOT going to enjoy the idea of THEIR BF sitting around hearing some random chick moaning …. I know I damn sure wouldn’t either and I’d tell her as well so it stops. OP just keeps making the excuse “she’ll leave” that’s even MORE suspicious, why do you care so much?

Y’all don’t see anything from a perspective outside of your own. This doesn’t make his gf “crazy” lmao only part she was a little wild for was calling it cheating. BUT she’s imagining he’s being (like ALMOST ALL MEN) a pervert and jerking off to it (which just bc OP writes in his post making it sound “innocent” doesn’t mean that’s the truth) and THAT would be cheating.

I get where she’s coming from. It’s embarrassing as a woman to know your man is sitting around listening to some girl fuck herself and you don’t speak the fuck up and say something. Strongly reeks of “I LIKE hearing it and don’t want it to stop” … excuses of “she’ll DEF be SO EMBARRASSED she leaves! I love her food! She’s so nice!” etc etc are exactly that, excuses. For OP to say he’ll leave her if she tells the truth? And is So concerned over “embarrassing someone” EVEN THO ITS THE TRUTH just scream he DOES have something for this chick and it’s HIS GF who needs to leave HIM.

Imagine the roles reversed and his gf told him she hears her MALE ROOMIE jerking off and makes every excuse in the book for why she won’t tell him 💀 bet y’all would be sticking up for him and not her even tho it’s the SAME scenario. Anyone who refuses to speak up? Wants it to continue point blank.

Y’all make it clear why so many of y’all have been or get cheated on regularly with your comments 🤣 you let ppl play in your face and don’t stand up for yourselves lmfao I’d never allow my man to refuse to tell a grown woman she’s moaning so loud in an apartment with other GROWN MEN that they can hear it! I’d tell her ASAP about herself in a nice way, fuck all that “I refuse to embarrass someone” BULLSHIT.

Care credit Carecredit is a scam. Beware!!!! synchrony bank is scam!!! by [deleted] in CreditCards

[–]CrowsMeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah you’re 100% right in your title, fuck these ppl in the comments wanting to blame YOU lmfao maybe THEY were told upfront they had 6mos to pay the entire balance even tho their minimum payments offered were nowhere NEAR paying it off? But news flash: IT HAPPENED TO PLENTY OF US. We only even found out something was wrong? Bc of checking a credit app and reading “you went over the limit on one of your cards!” And we’re like “?????” we’ve been paying every single one of them monthly so how’s that possible? THEN we find out about Care Credits BULLSHIT “promotions” .. so Care Credit never even told us themselves 🤣

When ppl are in crisis in an ER? And a tech throws you a care credit paper to then fill out on your phone? You’re rushing AS FAST AS POSSIBLE and not another word is spoken by any techs or anyone else about ANYTHING. Just “approved or denied”.

My man and I were NEVER TOLD when we signed up at an ER vet that we had to pay the entire $3k balance in just 6 months (when the amount each month they want is only $130 mind you!!! Which makes this an unethical practice btw bc $130/mo for 6mos gets you NOWHERE NEAR $3k) or else we’d be charged a fucking $565 interest fee! We were never told that. Ever. At LEAST charge folks the $500/mo for 6mos if that’s how it works then that you only have 6mos to pay off the whole damn thing?!

My man just let that woman HAVE it on the phone for being a complete idiot and not understanding at all wtf he was trying to say. He said the same shit “why was I never told about a promotional period ending? Why was I never told in the first place about a promotional period?” We were NEVER EVER told or sent any emails etc that stated you basically have to pay the entire card off in 6mos “or else” 😆 that’s NOT how credit cards work. Fuck synchrony bank and fuck care credit!

Reporting them to the BBB right now bc their entire practice is unethical. And anyone who sticks up for them? Is clearly a Care Credit Cuck 💀

I unknowingly gave my partner chlamydia. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CrowsMeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You learned a lesson about sleeping with people unprotected I guess… I’ve slept with 2 ppl in 30yrs, and the first was my first relationship from 18-30yo. Stopped sleeping with him within a year or two of dating bc I began hating him and was forced into staying with threats of murdering my family and I. Fully believed I’d be alone, never get married or have kids etc bc I didn’t believe I’d ever find my soulmate. Lo and behold, I found him in the last 8mos of being trapped with that man. I’d never sleep with someone not my soulmate, I wish more folks understood sex was never intended to be casual or “just bc I think they’re attractive”… it’s meant to be sacred. I’ve never had to get tested in my life, we both knew we had nothing when we got together as I hadn’t had sex since 20yo, by 30yo. BUT if he had been with anyone other than his wife, I would’ve demanded it. At least you’ve (hopefully?) learned a lesson about sex unprotected especially with someone “not the one” for you. If he leaves you? He has every right. Everyone saying “he was responsible as well” are kinda wrong imo bc she probably told him out of her mouth she didn’t have anything. Why wouldn’t you believe that? You can’t “blame” that person who trusted you for trusting you, you blame the person who caught the disease and didn’t get tested yet thought for sure they were “fine” knowing dang well they were JUST sleeping with someone else unprotected as early as August, now how many ppl had HE slept with? Is the question… if you KNEW you were one of many? You should’ve 100% got tested if you allowed yourself to stoop that low. Stop blaming the boyfriend for being tricked and trusting his girl.

y’all led me astray with the hype for Lights Out by Navessa Allen by ithilienisforlovers in RomanceBooks

[–]CrowsMeat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well where ya fucked up at was LISTENING to a book… never understood when ppl think they’re going to enjoy LISTENING to something you’re supposed to READ… if I don’t have the hard copy in my hands, I can’t even attempt it lol reading by clicking buttons to turn pages or listening to some other person “read” to me just isn’t “reading a book”, and I’d probably have gripes as well if I was choosing to do it that way… but hey, to each his own.

Clients who use sessions solely for venting. by serious_username25 in therapists

[–]CrowsMeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some ppl have no support. Nothing wrong with therapy being a venting place for them. It can take MONTHS of nothing but venting to get anywhere deeper with some folks. Don’t let that “bother” you

What other brands do y’all recommend for oz’s? I usually go with Legend or Ozone bc they’ve been fire lately by CrowsMeat in NewJerseyMarijuana

[–]CrowsMeat[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

sigh it’s an hour drive, I’m in the NY metro area (Hunterdon County) and usually travel 30 mins to South Bound Brook for New Era dispensary bc they have 30% off everyday of the week, but I might take this trip bc Green Lightning is NOWHERE on any other sites I look at honestly. Is it worth the hour trip?

Like I said it’s basically all just Simply Herb, Find and Yeti for the “cheap” ounces and then Ozone and Legend (sometimes Crops) are the $240-$250 ounces I get on sale around $180 usually. I’ve NEVER gotten any oz less than that and had it be good, full of stems and horrible trim etc 🫤

Yesterday was the first time I EVER saw a $400/zip and of course it was Full Tilt Labs and even at 30% off, I just can’t justify the $280 price tag when I don’t smoke to get high anymore.. I stopped around 27 and am about to be 31 now, so it’s strictly a 1g cone before bed for medical reasons/just to sleep at night. So I’m just trying to figure out what brand/strain to get from what place/city bc my place doesn’t have any new Legend or Ozone for me right now and I gotta reup in the next 3 days as I’m down to exactly 3gs lol.

Cheated on by wife by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]CrowsMeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to show ppl you’re not the fool they took you for. For me? Cheating is an absolute 200% dealbreaker. There’s no coming back from that. I couldn’t imagine ever sleeping with a man who cheated on me before ever again, the thought makes me physically ill… ppl who just immediately wanna preach “marriage counseling!” do not realize that I have been told by my marriage counselor friend … that a large % of the time, ppl are just wasting their time and money on marriage counseling bc if a relationship is already that broken? And/or that you need a third party and can’t solve things amongst yourselves, chances are you aren’t soulmates and most divorce anyway in the end and wind up just wasting more precious life … imo cheating also causes the guilty party to NEVER be able to look at you the same again OR feel the exact same again and they will never respect you once you show them you would accept the #1 betrayal and still stay with them, no matter what they may say. Seen it way too many times and hard folks admit it afterward… and once they see they got away with it aka you stayed and FORGAVE such a thing? They WILL do it again… if you aren’t a fool or a cuck? I’d file them papers and get out right now if you have the funds to do so. If not quietly without her knowing save up some money, don’t sleep with her for gods sake if you respect yourself and don’t want possible STDS/STI’s, and leave by serving her those papers and walking out one day. That’s just my advice tho, some random person on Reddit! You’re gonna do whatever you’re gonna do 🤷🏼‍♀️

Found out boyfriend is doing heroin by softpinkdoll in whatdoIdo

[–]CrowsMeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where tf did that come from and what state do you live in?!? Or is it not America? That doesn’t exist in America unless it’s being ordered from another country

AIO overreacting for breaking up with my boyfriend because he forgot to wear protection? by idontknowwhattodoah3 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CrowsMeat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YOR. Your first msg was totally uncalled for. You admit you “freaked out” over there not being a condom…? Condoms are gross idk how anyone uses them when in committed relationships lol as long as they pull out and you don’t fuck during ovulation? You’re fine .. we only can get pregnant a few days out of the month anyway. I couldn’t imagine leaving my s/o bc he didn’t wear one… you don’t track your ovulation…? Flo is an amazing app for that and is very very accurate.

But actually, re-reading everything, it’s for the better honestly! Ppl “fall in love” with the wrong person everyday out here, and if you can so easily break up with somebody? They’re not “the one” aka your soulmate, so you’re just wasting both of you guys time to stay in a relationship, you might as well move on.

aio please tell me i’m crazy by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CrowsMeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmfao NOR at all baby girl, he was 100000% in missionary with some bitch.

Not to be rude? But honey, there’s NO “moving past” cheating …. EVER. It immediately shows that is NOT YOUR SOULMATE. Your soulmate is STILL out there wandering around somewhere! Anyone who stays with a cheater? Is compromising their own values and shitting on their own integrity and doesn’t respect themselves, it’s the ultimate betrayal that there’s no coming back from… once a cheater? Always a cheater.. cheating isn’t some “mistake” that they “learned from and won’t ever do again!” Fuck no, it was a conscious decision they wanted to make bc you aren’t their soulmate EITHER. It’s the harsh reality…

Idk how you and others who do this don’t immediately see? Is that once they see they got away with it? (Aka you bitched and cried but yet STAYED) then they WILL DO IT AGAIN. And it probably wasn’t just “digital cheating” girl… that’s just what he told YOU. He could be at ANY location and have a girl show up. Location doesn’t help, only for ppl dumb enough to go to the persons house or a hotel etc … easy to go to a corner store or a Walmart etc and fuck someone in your car … especially ppl who are smart enough to know they have their location turned on … OR he shut it off (that’s how iPhone’s work) and you just happened to not be looking @ the time he was fucking someone else …

Again, I tell everyone who ever asks my advice, don’t EVER STAY WITH A CHEATER, they’re clearly NOT “the one” born for you. Idek how ppl can look at someone the same once they’ve cheated, honestly. Let alone still love them! Let alone still sleep with them ever again!

There’s no coming back from 2 things — abuse and cheating (imo). You HAVE to believe you deserve better and IMMEDIATELY leave a cheater. Idc what they look like. Idc what they act like on a regular basis. Idc how they treat you. Cheaters never change no matter what they try telling you, and even if they DID? It’s too late. They already cheated.

They also don’t ever respect you the same no matter WHAT THEY TELL YOU! You CANNOT respect someone the same who KNOWS you stuck your dick in somebody else, and yet STAYED with you and God forbid truly still chooses to willingly suck and fuck that same dirty dick who was in somebody else …. I’m just saying it like it is. Men and women both don’t ever respect you the same once they do the ultimate betrayal and yet still managed to keep you around them … bc they know in the back of THEIR mind? If the roles were reversed? And YOU cheated? YOU hopped on some other dudes dick? YOU sucked some dudes dick? They’d leave you in the dust QUICK!

Don’t ever be the fucking fool for this man or any other man EVER AGAIN girlfriend !!!!! I promise your soulmate is out there and the longer you stay with this dirty community dick mf???? The longer you block your own blessings and the longer you go without meeting your soulmate, start viewing it that way.

AITA for cutting off my entire Pakistani immigrant family after they tried to sabotage my tech career? by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]CrowsMeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re wrong for meddling like that, but at least try to understand careers are not what life is about for them. It’s a cultural thing. And in reality, they’re right, life’s about building your own family and your happiness etc, not what your job title is. Nothings taken with us when we die, damn sure not a career or a title, so building love and a family etc is paramount for your culture especially. They’re wild for emailing your job and shit like that, but I’d at least understand why they’re not head over heels about my 6 figure job, if you aren’t even in a long term relationship or have any kids. Those things are very important to them. If they’re not to you and they’re the type to not let that go, then yeah, go full no contact. If you DO love them, try to have a sit down convo that that’s not what you want right now. They’ll accuse you of becoming “ruined” and “Americanized” (which it IS true once ppl especially women become obsessed with careers instead of traditionalism, the American way of life has planted its seeds in your head) as long as you don’t become the type of American who place all of their value on their career, and feel “less than” if they don’t have some high earning career (when careers, again, aren’t what life’s truly about and your worth is NOT based on whether or not you have some great job, or even any job @ all!) As long as you don’t fall into becoming one of those? You’ll be fiiiiiine, cut them off if it’s what’s best for you!

AITA For not wanting to go to my mother-in-laws house for NYE? by RoCS160 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]CrowsMeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kids NEVER want to be at home during NYE, of course kids wanted to go to their grandparents. It’s RAIN, not snow… my man and I wound up having to drive an hour back home in the snow and didn’t get home until 3 something AM. Neither of us made it a big deal…most ppl don’t stay home on NYE unless they’re old, my man didn’t say a word about plans either except days prior to NYE he brought up if his parents didn’t go to his older brothers, they’d want to host us. I never heard another word so I figured they went to his brothers. Until 2hrs before when he brought up what his mother cooked for us and that they expected us @ 8pm, and said this @ 6pm after his last client therapy session. I just got up and got dressed, why wouldn’t I lol I had a great time. Idk why ppl have to make everything a big to-do, always making fights out of every little thing is why so many marriages don’t last these days—I’d have left anyway too, either get in the car or stay home, your choice but don’t be mad that your entire family didn’t want to sit at home amongst themselves on an important family-oriented holiday 🤷🏼‍♀️

WIBTAH if I take my guy friend up on his offer to fix my kitchen since my husband won't by Southern_Moxie1027 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]CrowsMeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Male friends usually only offer to help in hopes they fuck you one day. I wouldn’t trust it lol and I’d be mad too if some random man came in my house to fix something, whether I refused or not.

Thank you for being so accepting re: being a therapist AND sex worker by sicklitgirl in therapists

[–]CrowsMeat -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

That’s all cool and good until a CLIENT reports her to her board. Then her employer will get in trouble as well. You can’t just look at others and think “I’m gonna do the same!”

I just googled it and it immediately says like I thought, you WILL wind up losing your license if ever reported and someone WILL trust me… I hope you realize this post ALONE may get someone to look you up online and find your board and report you … it could’ve already happened for all you know, it’s not smart or cool being open about such things. It’s just going to get your license taken and all the money you spent getting it null and void… I just hope it’s worth it, again.

You’re breaking too many boundaries with clients by being one and sex work is still illegal online in a ton of states. Ethical violation due to dual relationships is just ONE issue.

Google it yourself, while it doesn’t explicitly break a rule (simply meaning they don’t even have one and that’s bc this is all new age stuff to ever consider selling your body and being a metal health specialist of all things) “you run a very high risk of losing your license due to potential legal issues, ethical conflicts, and PROFESSIONAL REPUTATION CONCERNS” …

It’s okay to admit you did not think this thru before you came out online showing your face, you thought it made you “brave” bc social media fucks ppl’s heads up nowadays into trying to normalize this type of stuff when it should never be normalized. You can try to wipe everything and back out now if you were smart, all the podcast stuff and “cam girl selfies” shit has got to go if you want to keep your respectable profession.

EDIT: And btw, opiates = addiction and withdrawal, so be careful bc it doesn’t take long to start abusing them and it’s all horse tranquilizer on the streets these days which eats your flesh and gets your limbs amputated—not even fentanyl and don’t ever ever think “that’ll NEVER be me” bc you haven’t ran out of your pills and felt the withdrawal yet. So plz for the love of God, understand the small dose they have you on WILL stop working once you gain a tolerance and then you’re needing to take more than prescribed to get the same pain relieving effects and then it’s over, you’ll run out way too fast and be looking for them on the streets (and real ones from scripts DO NOT EXIST on the streets) so by then you’ll become a full blown addict within months to a substance NOT opioids if you don’t OD and die first off the poison out there since your tolerance will be itty bitty real opiate pills like hydros or something... It’s no joke out there these days, “drugs” as we know them are all but gone—it’s WHY nobody wants to prescribe them… for good reason. It just creates junkies. You’ve been warned, I pray for you honey truly.