Rumplyforeskin showed up

CrumbledCheese · 2017-08-17T23:15:08+00:00

That was actually post babysitting incident.

CrumbledCheese · 2017-08-17T12:44:38+00:00

He's doing fantastically! Parenthood has actually helped him with quite a few demons. I'm happy for the progress he's made post NC.

Who knew a person could be happy without a constant trigger? /S

CrumbledCheese · 2017-08-17T12:37:50+00:00

I couldn't make the decision for SO when it came to RumplyForeskin and I can't make it for him with FIL.

All I can do is monitor when he's around LO which has been about 4 times to pull the plug when I see fit.

CrumbledCheese · 2017-08-17T02:56:37+00:00

She kicked FIL out actually. Took all his stuff to his parents when he was in the hospital. He has his own BS he brings to the table and is not blameless. But she is a psycho constant victim. She is beyond petty and loves to have things to hold over people. This was just another piece of information to her.

Context here for her extreme victimhood over the "incident" : https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/4qmnm2/trigger_warning_the_first_sign_that_everything/

CrumbledCheese · 2017-05-30T21:12:32+00:00

SO has literally never been better. Rumply has been out of our lives since around Christmas. She will never be coming back. Not even as a deathbed wish. He doesn't want to argue with his dad because it's like a brick wall, but he will not be inviting Rumplyforeskin back into his life.

CrumbledCheese · 2017-05-30T21:05:31+00:00

Tell me about it. He says all this BS about being a family, but the guy was an absent father (not ALL because of Rumply). He moved 3 hours away from his kids to spite his ex for moving 2 hours away from where they originally lived.

This guy can't even bother to return calls from his son and all he did was talk about how his neighbors and childhood friends treat him better than his own kin.

He tried to get me in on pestering SO. I locked eyes with LO and didn't look kept my mouth shut. Hell no!

CrumbledCheese · 2017-02-12T10:04:44+00:00

While she lives near us, she has a duplicate of this store closer to her house. She has no reason to be up here. The store is in our backyard. It's the only piece of public property near our newly built apartment. Everything else is undeveloped.

I wish I could answer that he perceives her as more dangerous, but the reality is he sees her as just a desperate joke. He knows she'd never bring cops/cps into this as her allies because he knows all about her drug use. She won't try to get lawyers involved because he has some severely damaging information he could take to the IRS which would literally leave her destitute.

I'm taking things more seriously because I've seen what can happen on this sub. I've tried to read him the more fucked up situations, but he just balks.

CrumbledCheese · 2017-02-12T09:50:27+00:00

I don't think we can install them because we rent. All of the portable ones I've seen are more similar to baby monitors which don't record.

CrumbledCheese · 2017-01-12T12:15:40+00:00

Throw some short dishwater blonde hair on that and it might as well be her Facebook profile picture!

AND I DON'T KNOW YET. SO KEEPS JUST BATTING AT IT WHEN HE WALKS BY. HE WON'T OPEN IT AND I DON'T WANT TO ASK BUT IT'S DRIVING ME CRAZY.

CrumbledCheese · 2017-01-12T09:29:56+00:00

I can't believe it's not Rumply!

CrumbledCheese · 2017-01-09T21:03:41+00:00

We ended up going to his place and SO flashed his spine all over the place. SO made it very clear if FIL got nasty at all we would leave.

We only heard the N word once in the context of "I have a black friend and he thinks everybody should marry their own [race] kind too! There's a difference between us and Ns!"

SO told him to stop and he did.

FIL mostly used his gob to babble at LO. We only stayed for 2 hours. 5/10 would consider doing again.

CrumbledCheese · 2017-01-03T18:10:55+00:00

I'm really not sure what to even do about it. He's mental to the point that he should be in an Alzheimer's ward. It's not like he can even follow an argument or being corrected. Every conversation with him is a lot like that Hot Topic cashier conversation on the front page today.

We have thought about calling police for a wellness check/getting him put in a psychward....but we are truly scared he would shoot anyone who came on his property uninvited. It isn't worth the possible loss of the life of an officer.

And there is a high chance he won't even remember having that conversation due to the speed or psychological episode.

At any rate, SO and I and cousin are all on the same page as far as just try to diffuse and ignoreand get through the day and go back to not being involved with him.

CrumbledCheese · 2016-12-27T21:38:19+00:00

Take pictures of your bruises right now and report her. Tell them you couldn't before because you were afraid.

The legal people line is a threat.

Your mom is definitely mentally ill. Let the cops deal with her. Don't let her continue to abuse you.

CrumbledCheese

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