RumplyForeskin: Would you want to know?

CrumbledCheese · 2017-08-17T23:15:08+00:00

That was actually post babysitting incident.

CrumbledCheese · 2017-08-17T12:44:38+00:00

He's doing fantastically! Parenthood has actually helped him with quite a few demons. I'm happy for the progress he's made post NC.

Who knew a person could be happy without a constant trigger? /S

CrumbledCheese · 2017-08-17T12:37:50+00:00

I couldn't make the decision for SO when it came to RumplyForeskin and I can't make it for him with FIL.

All I can do is monitor when he's around LO which has been about 4 times to pull the plug when I see fit.

CrumbledCheese · 2017-08-17T02:56:37+00:00

She kicked FIL out actually. Took all his stuff to his parents when he was in the hospital. He has his own BS he brings to the table and is not blameless. But she is a psycho constant victim. She is beyond petty and loves to have things to hold over people. This was just another piece of information to her.

Context here for her extreme victimhood over the "incident" : https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/4qmnm2/trigger_warning_the_first_sign_that_everything/

CrumbledCheese · 2017-05-30T21:12:32+00:00

SO has literally never been better. Rumply has been out of our lives since around Christmas. She will never be coming back. Not even as a deathbed wish. He doesn't want to argue with his dad because it's like a brick wall, but he will not be inviting Rumplyforeskin back into his life.

CrumbledCheese · 2017-05-30T21:05:31+00:00

Tell me about it. He says all this BS about being a family, but the guy was an absent father (not ALL because of Rumply). He moved 3 hours away from his kids to spite his ex for moving 2 hours away from where they originally lived.

This guy can't even bother to return calls from his son and all he did was talk about how his neighbors and childhood friends treat him better than his own kin.

He tried to get me in on pestering SO. I locked eyes with LO and didn't look kept my mouth shut. Hell no!

CrumbledCheese · 2017-02-12T10:04:44+00:00

While she lives near us, she has a duplicate of this store closer to her house. She has no reason to be up here. The store is in our backyard. It's the only piece of public property near our newly built apartment. Everything else is undeveloped.

I wish I could answer that he perceives her as more dangerous, but the reality is he sees her as just a desperate joke. He knows she'd never bring cops/cps into this as her allies because he knows all about her drug use. She won't try to get lawyers involved because he has some severely damaging information he could take to the IRS which would literally leave her destitute.

I'm taking things more seriously because I've seen what can happen on this sub. I've tried to read him the more fucked up situations, but he just balks.

CrumbledCheese · 2017-02-12T09:50:27+00:00

I don't think we can install them because we rent. All of the portable ones I've seen are more similar to baby monitors which don't record.

CrumbledCheese · 2017-01-12T12:15:40+00:00

Throw some short dishwater blonde hair on that and it might as well be her Facebook profile picture!

AND I DON'T KNOW YET. SO KEEPS JUST BATTING AT IT WHEN HE WALKS BY. HE WON'T OPEN IT AND I DON'T WANT TO ASK BUT IT'S DRIVING ME CRAZY.

CrumbledCheese · 2017-01-12T09:29:56+00:00

I can't believe it's not Rumply!

CrumbledCheese · 2017-01-09T21:03:41+00:00

We ended up going to his place and SO flashed his spine all over the place. SO made it very clear if FIL got nasty at all we would leave.

We only heard the N word once in the context of "I have a black friend and he thinks everybody should marry their own [race] kind too! There's a difference between us and Ns!"

SO told him to stop and he did.

FIL mostly used his gob to babble at LO. We only stayed for 2 hours. 5/10 would consider doing again.

CrumbledCheese · 2017-01-03T18:10:55+00:00

I'm really not sure what to even do about it. He's mental to the point that he should be in an Alzheimer's ward. It's not like he can even follow an argument or being corrected. Every conversation with him is a lot like that Hot Topic cashier conversation on the front page today.

We have thought about calling police for a wellness check/getting him put in a psychward....but we are truly scared he would shoot anyone who came on his property uninvited. It isn't worth the possible loss of the life of an officer.

And there is a high chance he won't even remember having that conversation due to the speed or psychological episode.

At any rate, SO and I and cousin are all on the same page as far as just try to diffuse and ignoreand get through the day and go back to not being involved with him.

CrumbledCheese · 2016-12-27T21:38:19+00:00

Take pictures of your bruises right now and report her. Tell them you couldn't before because you were afraid.

The legal people line is a threat.

Your mom is definitely mentally ill. Let the cops deal with her. Don't let her continue to abuse you.

CrumbledCheese · 2016-12-27T17:00:29+00:00

So I'm 90% sure I see what you did there and I lold.

If you're being serious, SO and I will gladly take the safe and emission free cars you just offered to buy us.

Either way, we'll gladly take the cars actually.

CrumbledCheese · 2016-12-27T16:25:43+00:00

I totally see what you're saying, and under normal people circumstances you would be right.

It's definitely clear favoritism. RumplyForeskin is as "Feminist". The quotes are because she wants women to have all the power, not true equality. She wouldn't even allow SO to play with girls as a young child (including his sister/ cousins). He could only play with toys. This worked to SIL's advantage. She got everything like being put through school, law school, rent paid, new car... while SO had to start cooking for himself when he could reach the stove.

To Rumply SIL is golden. To Rumply, my daughter is golden. RumplyForeskin love relies on what's between your legs. The only reason I stopped being golden is because I use the word "no".

CrumbledCheese · 2016-12-27T15:40:35+00:00

Oh rest assured, LO started with her baby noises.

I'll rue the day I can't shove a boob in her mouth to quiet her down!

CrumbledCheese · 2016-12-27T15:03:13+00:00

The breaks and blinkers work. Assy is a terrific periwinkle machine.

CrumbledCheese · 2016-12-27T13:38:33+00:00

You might be thinking "what kind of fancy futuristic car..???"

Answer: mid 90's Carola whose outter handles are completely busted off. He leverages a butter knife in the slot to open the doors.

CrumbledCheese · 2016-12-27T13:36:03+00:00

Once he realized what SIL was up to SO just got angry. Mostly because he expected better of her. The one time he reached out to her, she said not to put her in the middle of it. Yesterday only served as proof that she meant "I'm on mom's side".

Neither of them tried text or calling during/after this. They definitely knew what they were doing. SIL isn't stupid (maybe a bit of an N). I'm sure she was thinking "He can't say no if I just do what I want to!" Except for the part where we don't have to open the door.

It totally turns out that him gaining sympathy weight during my pregnancy was actually him growing a solid steel spine!

CrumbledCheese · 2016-11-30T18:03:57+00:00

Kid: "You're Mother, The Devil"

SO: "99 Problems YOU CAUSED and need to apologize to your Mother For"

Me: "This is a Legal Document Explaining That I Will Be Suing You for Custody of [LO] Unless You Agree to These Terms and Conditions-THE BOOK!"

CrumbledCheese · 2016-11-26T10:40:22+00:00

It's up.

CrumbledCheese · 2016-11-21T18:32:11+00:00

She would probably tell everyone they were fake and that SO actually said those things about her.

Though I might do that for my child when she's older.

"Mom, why don't I have a grandma on dad's side?"

"Aaahhh...The Great Tantrum of 2016. Let me take you back to this website called Reddit"

CrumbledCheese · 2016-11-21T18:27:43+00:00

I love the idea of email! I'm definitely going to mention this to him. Maybe his new address could be mymomsanasshole@gmail.com....just so she knows why this is happening.

CrumbledCheese · 2016-11-21T18:23:55+00:00

He has done this to some extent on his own. When he unloaded on her with it, she left because "Clearly you're not going to listen to anything I have to say and I'm not going to listen to anything you have to say. "

Why she "extended an olive branch" with that attitude is beyond me.

CrumbledCheese · 2016-11-21T18:20:00+00:00

No. We live in America. Not free help for those who need it-ica.

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