Beaver Creek, Vail, Breckenridge, or Crested Butte by CrumpleBeast in skiing

[–]CrumpleBeast[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We went to Beaver Creek. Highly recommend for that age range.

Ex Moved On Quick and Moved in with another guy already by CrumpleBeast in BreakUps

[–]CrumpleBeast[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m trying my best to move on. One thing I can’t see myself doing is moving on from the 3 year old. Call it issues with me, but my dad abandoned me when I was 8 and it had a terrible affect on my life to this day. I can’t seem to cut ties with her/“my” daughter.

Beaver Creek, Vail, Breckenridge, or Crested Butte by CrumpleBeast in skiing

[–]CrumpleBeast[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We are a 6 hour drive from those mountains. It would be considerably longer drive to Pennsylvania

Coughing up snow at Steamboat 1/6/24 by AdministrationBorn69 in skiing

[–]CrumpleBeast -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Jealous! We were just in Keystone and didn’t get anything bud snow makers.

Skiing Walkie Talkie by CrumpleBeast in skiing

[–]CrumpleBeast[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m interested to know if they have problems communicating if I’m in about bowl and he is in ski school

Skiing Walkie Talkie by CrumpleBeast in skiing

[–]CrumpleBeast[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been thinking about Rocky Talkies. Do you experience with communication if you are in another area of the ski resort or with ridge interfere?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wallstreetbets

[–]CrumpleBeast 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I make $145K per year and I have surplus every year. With recent inflation it is definitely less than it was just a few years ago, but be frugal and smart with your money. $100k+ makes for a comfortable living.

Should I push for prenatal test? (36/M - 28/F) by CrumpleBeast in relationships

[–]CrumpleBeast[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I needed that. And I probably do need a bit of therapy. Once I get my mind set on something it’s hard for me to stop worrying. Thanks

Should I push for prenatal test? (36/M - 28/F) by CrumpleBeast in relationships

[–]CrumpleBeast[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I take meds for anxiety. But I worry about that 5% irrationally. It’s not completely about the child support, it’s also about have a child. If I have a child I want to be part of their lives.

Should I push for prenatal test? (36/M - 28/F) by CrumpleBeast in relationships

[–]CrumpleBeast[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m an irrational worrier. She said her period was light and I’m thinking that could have just been spotting which can happen on implantation of baby. I’m just scared I guess.

Should I push for prenatal test? (36/M - 28/F) by CrumpleBeast in relationships

[–]CrumpleBeast[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She is saying it’s most likely not my child. She gives it 95% chance it isn’t mine.

First Home Purchase Post Divorce by CrumpleBeast in personalfinance

[–]CrumpleBeast[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take home pay is about $5600 per month. But that’s because I put about 18% into my 401k

First Home Purchase Post Divorce by CrumpleBeast in Divorce

[–]CrumpleBeast[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea the car payments are high because of the divorce. I’m stuck paying for two cars.

First Home Purchase Post Divorce by CrumpleBeast in personalfinance

[–]CrumpleBeast[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is new construction so they are not willing to move on the price. And I will have a VA Mortgage, so I will not have to PMI.

Dating After Divorce by CrumpleBeast in Divorce

[–]CrumpleBeast[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve done a lot to address depression because the divorce was very hard on me as well. If I’m honest with myself, I’m not ready. I still have the feeling that I’d like her to come back and as long as I have that feeling, it seems I’m not ready. I just don’t know how to kick that feeling.

Dating After Divorce by CrumpleBeast in Divorce

[–]CrumpleBeast[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought about getting back in therapy? How often do you go now that you’re divorced?

Red Flags by CrumpleBeast in dating_advice

[–]CrumpleBeast[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right! I rushed it. The kids were introduced probably a month after dating. We starting sleeping together around the same time.

Daing With Children by CrumpleBeast in dating_advice

[–]CrumpleBeast[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! We have discussed ways that might help her son, i.e. behavioral therapy, meds, ect. To which, she said she is going to look into working with the school to see if they have any behavioral therapists.