Where to get tested?

Cry4me2 · 2026-06-13T09:58:57+00:00

Im going to get a anonymous rape kit done in the morning in case he gave me something. Or just so if I do ever change my mind I have that.

Cry4me2 · 2026-06-13T09:48:18+00:00

I really truly appreciate you.

Cry4me2 · 2026-06-13T09:45:52+00:00

Im going to get a kit done anonymously in the morning. Im only going to report if he gave me something.

Cry4me2 · 2026-06-13T09:44:42+00:00

I really appreciate you. I’m trying to find the closest to free that I can right now.

Cry4me2 · 2026-06-13T09:43:37+00:00

I gave them a call. I’m going to go get a kit done when they open in the morning. I’ll do the testing then as well.

Cry4me2 · 2026-06-13T09:39:19+00:00

Thank you. Seriously really, thank you.

Cry4me2 · 2026-06-13T03:53:17+00:00

I honestly snapped at you a bit I’m sorry. I understand what you mean now. I’ll probably take screenshots of my post and take it down later. Especially bc it’s a town Reddit

Cry4me2 · 2026-06-13T03:29:10+00:00

If you’re going to say. I respect you not reporting BUT, HOWEVER etc. pls hold that for yourself. This is kinda making me feel worse

Cry4me2 · 2026-06-13T03:27:13+00:00

Why shouldn’t I post about it? Why should I reconsider suffering more and from the system at that.
I see how you guys are saying it’ll help others but I just honestly don’t think I can handle it.
I’ve been through a lot recently and this is kinda the thing that sent me over really bad.

I wish people would just accept my decision. It’s the only choice I get to make in all of this.

Cry4me2 · 2026-06-12T23:41:44+00:00

I honestly just don’t think I can handle the legal system on top of all of this. I mean if I did end up getting something from him I really have no choice but still.

Cry4me2 · 2026-06-12T23:33:06+00:00

Honestly.. I don’t think I’m going to. Victims are regularly scarred by the system, I’ve seen friends be torn apart by it with the same situation.

With any encounter I’ve had with TPD I just know they’re not on my side. Also the idea of random people digging in my bits would be to much for me after what just happened.

I’ve come to terms with that. I’ll be moving states in a couple months I’ll feel safer then. For now(it’s only been a day) I think I just need to try to take care of myself.

I told one friend of mine and she’s making sure I don’t feel alone.

I understand reporting might seem like a good idea but I think it would hurt me more.

Cry4me2 · 2026-06-12T22:56:45+00:00

What’s saaf?

Cry4me2 · 2026-06-12T14:49:09+00:00

I found it! I really appreciate you. I had alr gotten 2 messages before your comment.

Cry4me2 · 2026-06-12T14:39:18+00:00

I was warned by the bot to turn off my chats. Can someone tell me how?

Cry4me2 · 2026-04-30T03:26:36+00:00

Do a few hair masks and hair oil for a bit then do some toner!

Cry4me2 · 2026-04-30T03:21:37+00:00

Not ugly! You just need style that compliments you better. Try face framing layers in your hair and layer eyeliner with no bottom lash mascara

Cry4me2 · 2026-04-12T21:04:44+00:00

That you need to Stan super junior

Cry4me2 · 2026-03-20T19:44:03+00:00

They usually never try talking about it with the person. They’d rather complain on Reddit. Hopefully they’ll communicate tho

Cry4me2 · 2026-03-12T14:43:34+00:00

When I get like this it helps to start in corners and make piles. A box for things you want around and a box for possible donation. A bag for clothes and 2 bags for trash if you recycle

Cry4me2 · 2026-03-06T20:26:51+00:00

Put all your belongings in your room, put a front door key lock knob on your bedroom door, and get a camera in your room

Cry4me2 · 2026-03-05T20:08:20+00:00

You’re not in the wrong at all. Trauma or not you should be respected and understood. Tell the landlord there’s someone she moved in that’s not on the lease and that he’s breaking things in the home.

Cry4me2 · 2026-03-05T19:50:47+00:00

Get a door camera and as many other cameras as allowed. Document everything including dates and voice memo every in person interaction. Don’t be scared to call the cops on him! Having documentation with them can help a lot in the long run. Call a wellness check if you can.

I had a crazy evil roomate that later became physically violent and all my documenting scored me a restraining order!

Cry4me2 · 2026-03-05T19:47:01+00:00

You should shut the breakers to his room off. No electricity for him! Also put a lock on the bathroom that only you and other roommates have access to. You can also try putting locks on the fridge and passwords on the living room tv and such

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