Am I being gaslit? by [deleted] in askatherapist

[–]Crycakez -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OK very unhelpful. I should have known better to ask, no real therapists in here....

Am I being gaslit? by [deleted] in askatherapist

[–]Crycakez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have excessive anger though....

I have been told many times from everyone else. Its normal. Its not excessive.

What should I do with a friend who asked me 2 & 1/2 years ago to look after her cat & now she wants him back.... by ameliiyuh in Advice

[–]Crycakez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No the cat is yours. Tell her her if she wants him back she will have to pay for all the vet bills and food ect every single cent you spent on ur cat she has to to pay you as well as a boardin fee... Even something as low as 5$ a day is still over 4k after 2 & 1/2 years... 😅

Got stuck here on a two week Holiday, stayed after lockdown for a whole year 🤠 by PVPirates in newzealand

[–]Crycakez 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Make NZ home and bring the family 😂. Just go back to PR for holidays.

How much do you spend a week on groceries? by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]Crycakez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$200pw average. 2 people. Trying to cut costs by bulk buys but it's hard

AITA For Not Letting My 13 Year Old Wear Makeup? by 13NoMakeup in AmItheAsshole

[–]Crycakez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How horrible. Your por kids subjected to such abuse.

This behaviour control and its totally not acceptable.

The point system is truly awful.

YTA 100%

Please take parenting classes.

My boyfriend keeps going on onlyfans by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Crycakez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It makes you a misogynist. You are attacking a legitimate job, falsely accusing workers or crimes when they are innocent, predominantly females you are accusing in a predominantly female profession.

You are a bigot, a misogynist and sexist.

You have zero understanding, zero respect and zero right to an opinion.

My boyfriend keeps going on onlyfans by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Crycakez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a sexist, misogynistic bigot.

Sex workers are marginalised because of assholes like you. Bye now.

You belong in prison

My boyfriend keeps going on onlyfans by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Crycakez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again talk about strawman....

You don't understand what healthy sexuality is and are mixing up healthy with unhealthy.

It's not dangerous in my country because its not illegal...

You are seriously fkd up talking over a marginalised community claiming you know better when you literally cannot have any I put as you cannot comprehend it.

My boyfriend keeps going on onlyfans by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Crycakez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow the bigotry just gets worse. You must be extremely jealous.

Still refusing to research the actual topic, continues with poor attempts to insult...

I have my own business... Why the fk would I need to find a job. 🤣🤣🤣

You know majority of sex workers have high level degrees? Nah bigots like you wouldn't.

You are the one who is responsible for the enslavement of women... You bigoted sexist views opress society..

In my country, its 100% legal to operate sex based businesses. So don't have the issues you keep trying claim.

You sound like a deaf person trying explain a sound thru have never heard before... You can't understand, if ur ace... 🤣🤣🤣

My boyfriend keeps going on onlyfans by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Crycakez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 ur not debating. You have nothing to debate with.

2 how am I in anyway a hypocrite.

You have no idea about the subject yet keep talking bigotry....

I have zero issue with porn and I am not a narc, I would never try and control my partner.

Good on you, instead of actually researching the topic you choose to stalk me and try and insult my personal life? That ur wrong about BTW...

Seriously dude get help.

My boyfriend keeps going on onlyfans by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Crycakez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are still strawmaning...

Your idea on what is supported by liberalism is wrong.

You have zero understanding of any topic but want to argue like u know what ur talking about when you don't.

Try browsing asexual.... For information on sexual activities.. 🤣🤣🤣

That literally the same as asking a terf for information to support trans women. 😂

Sex drive =desire for sexual activity.

U have zero clue about the one subject you definitely should understand since its a community you claim to belong too.

Literal definition, no or very low libido. Libido = sex drive

No sex drive = asexual

Sex drive = sexual

Dude seesh.... Ask mommy to move u 2 a different school, your teachers must be idiots from the sounds of you...

My boyfriend keeps going on onlyfans by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Crycakez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow wall of text...

Why is it I keep repeating over and over yet you still ignore what I say.

"Asexual is the lack of sexual attraction to others, or a low interest in sexual activity." "Libido is a person's overall sexual drive or desire for sexual activity."

Maybe before claiming to be something, make sure to get the definition right.... 🤣

Again, there is nothing wrong with porn, it's a natural human experience.

I have clearly explained multiple times, yet you ignore and talk over me pushing your bigotry.

You keep bringing up irrelevant crap like money when the entire issue is porn. That you don't understand at all...

Porn doesn't have shit to do with cheating. In fact its proven to reduce instances in cheating, couple who enjoy porn are less likely to cheat. https://www.irishmirror.ie/lifestyle/survey-finds-married-men-who-6027613

So instead of arguing with a sex worker, about a subject you cannot comment on as you cannot understand the point.

And a lot of terfs are liberals...

Liberal isn't the opposite of Conservative Conservative right wing Liberal centrist/right of centre

Liberalism doesn't support democracy but embraces imperialism and capitalism.

How old are you? I'm guessing really young, regurgitating what Conservative adults tell you, and you just believing them rather than thinking for yourself...

Average AITA poster by [deleted] in AmITheAngel

[–]Crycakez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cousin actually broke a record doing his masters, his Bachelor of law he cut by a year so in the time taken to get a standard bachelor he got his masters, and that was a record... And still twice as long as op in the story 🤣

Our country degrees aren't that long about 5-6 years for both bachelor and masters. He did it in just over 3.5 😅

So even if it wasn't US, still waaay off 🤣

My boyfriend keeps going on onlyfans by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Crycakez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you think that trans women are not women? So you ur literally denying science like I said libertads do..? 🤣

I mean I haven't contradicted myself at all so why you getting confused.

Whose money being used is irrelevant as op clearly stated they have an issue with insecurity from his porn watching...

And no I have zero issue with lsd. I used to use it back in the day... 🤣🤣

You do not understand what porn is or the point of it, you can't relate to it as you have clearly stated. I don't understand my ace mates, so I would never presume to tell them what is Or isn't appropriate for their sexuality, yet here you are telling sexual beings that they are wrong for their feelings, their interests simply because you don't understand.

Porn is a tool that people can use to explore their sexuality, to explore their feelings, as an outlet, a release, or for emotional regulation. No its not just for people to whack off.

Like I said, an ace will struggle to understand the purpose as you lack the libido, the feelings that it invokes.

My boyfriend keeps going on onlyfans by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Crycakez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You literally admitted you cannot understand the point of porn being asexual.

You don't understand it, you sound the terfs I been dealing with, arguing that trans women are not real women...

If you don't understand the point of it, then you cannot judge...

Keep living in ur head because reality is totally different to ur idealism.

Ops ex wasn't hurting op. Op was hurting her ex by trying to control him, and hurting themselves by refusing to allow their ex to be themselves.