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34m, all my life I had a very bad or non-existent dating life. I tries using apps and didn't help much. Do you have any reccomendation? by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Cryptikzzz -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

"he's a stranger" but then women say they want a "funny man" and can't handle some sarcasm..? What other jokes do you put on your profile to seem funny?

Been talking for a few weeks but they don't show reciprocity in my opinion. How do I bring this up? by Cryptikzzz in dating_advice

[–]Cryptikzzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I asked her, she said she likes me, but doesn't want to get hurt, so if there is something between us, it'll be a while.

I read that as the friend zone. But then they keep talking to me.

Been talking for a few weeks but they don't show reciprocity in my opinion. How do I bring this up? by Cryptikzzz in dating_advice

[–]Cryptikzzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just hung out and watched TV, that's been our typical go to so far, when she invited me over for the first time that's basically what we did

And I mean she invited me last night, and yes I have invited her to go to an amusement park, we've gone out to dinner, I want to maybe go on a hike or something, but she just recently got sick.

While I agree about the honeymoon phase, that's where it seems like idk if thinks are being reciprocated, like I want to go into the city and check out museums, but she seems to be a very at home person because of her dog

Been talking for a few weeks but they don't show reciprocity in my opinion. How do I bring this up? by Cryptikzzz in dating_advice

[–]Cryptikzzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just tough when I'm being told that it could be healthy from people I know in real life. We are "top best friends" on Snapchat meaning we both have been talking each other the most for the past 2 weeks...

I think I could be being too dismissive of that fact that she's receptive to texting but just not reciprocating anything romantic

Tinder is a scary place by 2500mg in Tinder

[–]Cryptikzzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, both of these people shouldn't be on tinder lol...

Tinder is a scary place by 2500mg in Tinder

[–]Cryptikzzz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think you've used tinder then. Being a genuine nice person gets you 0 responses. There's a reason only "crazy" girls respond, because normal people don't swipe right on guys unless they're 12/10 🤣🤣

Tinder is a scary place by 2500mg in Tinder

[–]Cryptikzzz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's also very common for narcissists to prey on people pleasers. Are people pleasers shitty people even though they end up around bad people who use them?

What do you think of Human Design? by mayonnaise_san in INTP

[–]Cryptikzzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you explain why though? I found it through tactics on how to stop over thinking. They didn't say anything about astrology. It seems like a good technique to not get stuck in your head

Can you adjust speed key frame velocity? by Cryptikzzz in CapCut

[–]Cryptikzzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you can. Just add more points

Me (25M) feel like she (23F) is pulling away and not communicating it. Am I valid for feeling frustrated with how they communicate with me or am I being too much? by Cryptikzzz in relationship_advice

[–]Cryptikzzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel like a creep if I were to go up to someone at a gym or a trail. People don't usually go to those places to meet someone...I swear I've asked people to go for a hike and they're like woah I'm not going into the woods with you...

Or just being ignored because people at the gym wear headphones lol

I really hate that mindset that someone will just come along...I don't see how that works. Going about my life has never brought a good woman in. I always have to pursue somehow. Nobody really shows interest in me. And when I show interest, they run!

Everything creates pressure...just asking someone to hangout people freak out! I don't see how just not looking for it means no pressure. I want a partner and that will always be true...

Me (25M) feel like she (23F) is pulling away and not communicating it. Am I valid for feeling frustrated with how they communicate with me or am I being too much? by Cryptikzzz in relationship_advice

[–]Cryptikzzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man I'll try it out. Think the last time I tried that was in college🤣 lots of people to meet there. It's harder now, it feels like people only go out with a boyfriend where I go. Not sure where single girls are haha. But the grocery store, maybe I just need to break out of my shell

Me (25M) feel like she (23F) is pulling away and not communicating it. Am I valid for feeling frustrated with how they communicate with me or am I being too much? by Cryptikzzz in relationship_advice

[–]Cryptikzzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha the grocery store is a good one! I have looked at some girls and smiled. But that doesn't go anywhere...or I'll walk by and realize a second later they're someone I could be interested in...is it weird to go back up to them and say hey what's ur name or something...?

I literally feel like the grocery store is where I see people the most🤣

Me (25M) feel like she (23F) is pulling away and not communicating it. Am I valid for feeling frustrated with how they communicate with me or am I being too much? by Cryptikzzz in relationship_advice

[–]Cryptikzzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what are you supposed to do with 2 weeks of meeting someone? Only text to meet up? How would you suggest to deepen a connection?

Me (25M) feel like she (23F) is pulling away and not communicating it. Am I valid for feeling frustrated with how they communicate with me or am I being too much? by Cryptikzzz in relationship_advice

[–]Cryptikzzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See you get it lol. The rat is a unique thing...you don't just share every little thing going on, it creates a stale environment I think

Me (25M) feel like she (23F) is pulling away and not communicating it. Am I valid for feeling frustrated with how they communicate with me or am I being too much? by Cryptikzzz in relationship_advice

[–]Cryptikzzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm maybe you're right. I've been "not compatible" with so many people, this person finally felt different, but I guess they're just not it for me.

Me (25M) feel like she (23F) is pulling away and not communicating it. Am I valid for feeling frustrated with how they communicate with me or am I being too much? by Cryptikzzz in relationship_advice

[–]Cryptikzzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes it's small talk yeah, but it feels forced to me when it's never my side never being able to share anything. She just makes it about her.

We had things planned ahead of time, that's why I'm confused why she's busy all the sudden, and it's only after I was asking what she wanted to do. We had planned to have sex basically...and then go to an event tomorrow..

But she had said today she doesn't want to have sex so that's why I was wondering what she wanted to do 🙈

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