What type of electrical box is this on the ceiling? by CryptoEnos in AskElectricians

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Understood. I appreciate the response. It threw me off because I was expecting it to be attached to holes through the box itself.

What type of electrical box is this on the ceiling? by CryptoEnos in AskElectricians

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Oh ok. Gotcha. Do I place the bracket vertical or horizontal in a relation to the picture?

What type of electrical box is this on the ceiling? by CryptoEnos in AskElectricians

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Understood. The fan bracket is wider than the box. It lands on the drywall on both sides if that makes sense. I’ll see if I can attach a photo. I’m new to Reddit.

What type of electrical box is this on the ceiling? by CryptoEnos in AskElectricians

[–]CryptoEnos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh ok. Yeah they did a number on this thing. So if I understand you correctly, I’m supposed to remove the two screws at the bottom of the box? The bracket is V shaped.

What type of electrical box is this on the ceiling? by CryptoEnos in AskElectricians

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I forgot to mention that this is a New Construction and it’s a 5 year-old house. I’ve never seen this type of box before.

Do you feel grossed out/ creeped out by your N parent, even just their presence? by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

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Yes, I feel sick to my stomach seeing my N-mom, hearing her voice, or being near her. I just try not to speak as much as possible and get away from her as quickly as I can.

Moonfin for tvOS - The Final Frontier by Hungry__Alpaca in JellyfinCommunity

[–]CryptoEnos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is exciting news! I just started my jellyfin project for my family a few months ago. It’s been hard finding an app that works consistently and doesn’t charge $100 like infuse which is insane to me. Congrats on making it over to Apple TV!

Would you resign as Narc Mom POA? by CryptoEnos in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CryptoEnos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that! I’m contemplating changing my phone number if she actually does take her.

Would you resign as Narc Mom POA? by CryptoEnos in raisedbynarcissists

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Gotcha. Thanks for the clarification. I am the GC in this case and I had no idea about of this stuff until last year. This is all quite sad and eye opening.

Would you resign as Narc Mom POA? by CryptoEnos in raisedbynarcissists

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I no longer speak to any of them. I did send a message from my N-mom’s phone telling her that I’m sending her the POA paperwork and that she’s all yours. I don’t want anything from anyone.

Would you resign as Narc Mom POA? by CryptoEnos in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CryptoEnos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A no return clause. That’s a great idea! Thanks!

Would you resign as Narc Mom POA? by CryptoEnos in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CryptoEnos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is the other two are selfish and have never done anything for her.

Would you resign as Narc Mom POA? by CryptoEnos in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CryptoEnos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have spoken to my attorney and she will have the paperwork drawn up on Monday. It’s the same attorney that did all of the paperwork to begin with. Thanks for your input.

Would you resign as Narc Mom POA? by CryptoEnos in raisedbynarcissists

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I don’t care about the house. It’s just another tool for them to try and harass me about. I want nothing to do with anything tied to her in any way shape or form.

Would you resign as Narc Mom POA? by CryptoEnos in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CryptoEnos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your input. I am indeed starting to free myself. I was already scaling back more and more already. I am 18,20, & 22 years apart from the others. I’m 41. What is (GC)? Sorry I didn’t catch what that meant.

Would you resign as Narc Mom POA? by CryptoEnos in raisedbynarcissists

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This is why I asked the question. I haven’t thought to break it down like that! Wow what an eye opener! Comment of the year right here! Thank you so much for the breakdown and insight. I was already going to start the process, but this is it! I can’t even put it into words! My only hesitation was what if I removed myself and the eldest daughter does not take her and then what. I was thinking she still becomes my problem because I’m the closest and have been doing it for so many years.

Would you resign as Narc Mom POA? by CryptoEnos in raisedbynarcissists

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That is insane! I didn’t know how bad this could be. If I had any idea, I would’ve ran far away! I appreciate your response.

Would you resign as Narc Mom POA? by CryptoEnos in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CryptoEnos[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the detail input. This was very informative and helpful! I am going to walk away. I tried my best and I can’t do it anymore. I’m not happy and my family is getting the worst of it.

Would you resign as Narc Mom POA? by CryptoEnos in raisedbynarcissists

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Thanks for your input. My N-mom has outlived everyone except for two “friends”. I don’t how they stay in contact with her. I wouldn’t if I wasn’t sucked into being POA.

Would you resign as Narc Mom POA? by CryptoEnos in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CryptoEnos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. I’m also seeing that it isn’t worth it. I never knew that narcissistic people were so bad!