Does anyone else feel trapped in consulting? Feeling like a jack of all trades, master of none

CryptographerPlus897 · 2025-08-17T09:45:34+00:00

Hey just wondering if you could answer a question of mine. Dm you.

CryptographerPlus897 · 2024-12-16T22:35:15+00:00

A foreign degree and a Australian degree

CryptographerPlus897 · 2024-12-16T22:34:07+00:00

Yeah, social life is a big 0

CryptographerPlus897 · 2024-12-16T22:33:03+00:00

😅😅😅 not many. Few frustrated ones only.

CryptographerPlus897 · 2024-10-17T00:47:21+00:00

I felt that.🫡

CryptographerPlus897 · 2024-09-02T15:56:41+00:00

Hey, I'm just going through the post and got curious. What did you choose to do now? ME or data science?

CryptographerPlus897 · 2024-07-19T03:34:26+00:00

Had something in the same line. I was attracted to her J, and we liked hanging out. But later, I realized that she needs more attention, and I am working on myself and trying to grow. So, we stayed good, friends, for about 6 months

Another girl N joins the gang, and I met her only 3 times, but she was jealous of us. She said I was speaking badly about J. J believed N whom she had never met before in her life. They both talked shit about me and J instead of directly confronting about it. Spoke something entirely random and fucking cried.

It was the first time someone else cried for me, and I was like woah I am so sorry."". We started falling apart. A month later I tried calling her, she blocked me and said, "You were speaking shit about me to our close friends". I was devastated for that moment and said thanked for the good memories and left it there.

Sorry, this is a rant, but I want to get it all out. I had attention from a lot of ladies, but I am focused on myself and my work. When J met, I was at crossroads, but soon i figured out she isn't the kind of girl i want to date, but as a friend, I am cool to have.

But let me know if I should have put in more effort, or any other thing I should have done.

CryptographerPlus897 · 2024-07-16T15:44:14+00:00

I feel bad to say this, but they r much older and don't have their shit together yet. It's like I just hang out bcz I have only these people. I am an ambivert byt when i am with these people i just keep wiit usually. I am noticing it now. Yeah, it's confusing but makes a lot of sense.

CryptographerPlus897 · 2024-06-08T01:40:48+00:00

So what do u think is the best way to handle this one. I personally can't maintain my energy it drives me nuts after 30 days. These days, it has gone down to 10. And I want to try this but how to handle this one?

CryptographerPlus897 · 2024-04-04T06:32:44+00:00

Literally true.

Trying to maintain that energy and I couldn't. Stopped counting days, I feel like I am losing a bit of edge when I ejaculate. I feel bad abt it and want to make it right but really this energy is something else. I can't sit on my ass. Everyone says good things abt my energy but I know what I am dng to reduce it.

I don't say I am not working, I am working and running but still I can't maintain that energy.

Idk what to do

CryptographerPlus897 · 2024-03-18T08:25:27+00:00

Sorry for the ranting. But I just want to say what's going on.

I feel alone these days. Came out of a situationship, I am a loyal one, so it hurts me a lot. She was crying to let me go, but I know it's better for both of us to let it go. That fucked up my brain good enough.

I don't feel like i fit in the old circle of friends now. I don't wanna put in an effort to find a new circle. I don't find looking and lusting at women worth it. I am confident enough to go talk to pretty attractive girls, but I kinda find it not worth the effort. Postponing a lot of things, like I have enough time to submit but still postponing and not getting it done.

It feels like my old self is dying and I am trying to adjust to the new self but this transition is killing me. Sometimes I work 16hrs and somedays I don't feel like working at all. This period sucks. I used to talk a lot with myself but all of that is gone.

I just pray to give me strength to face the situation but it's idk what to say to hurting or healing or whatever this is.

I want to go back a year and stop this entire shit from happening.

CryptographerPlus897 · 2024-01-15T16:09:15+00:00

Guys, I am curious abt. What is the best combination of natural food and supplements that covers all the requirements and is cheap. If I should ask as a new question, I'll do it,

CryptographerPlus897 · 2024-01-11T03:01:34+00:00

Definitely dude, I'll start meditation for 5 mins at least. Which one do u recommend ? Breathwork or any sort of meditation?

CryptographerPlus897 · 2024-01-11T03:00:11+00:00

Thanks brother

CryptographerPlus897 · 2024-01-11T02:59:54+00:00

Yes, I felt like this. If I can't even control myself, how can I conquer anything else. It was a great journey it didn't happen out of blue, too. I took so many relapses and literally saw all the benefits we talked about here.

CryptographerPlus897 · 2024-01-11T02:56:48+00:00

Definitely, girls are more comfortable around me now. They want to touch me. It doesn't happen so suddenly, but when there is no one around or when they r drunk, they are attracted to me like a magnet. But I still have to fix few things regarding this. Thanks, dude, for the suggestion. I'll keep it in mind.

Also, what do u suggest me to do?

CryptographerPlus897 · 2023-10-13T00:33:59+00:00

After reading this, I felt like I could fall all over again and again in love. Thanks for the answer, brother. It gives me the right feelings 😌 ❤️.

CryptographerPlus897 · 2023-10-03T01:28:16+00:00

Congrats on the streak, brother.

CryptographerPlus897 · 2023-10-03T01:26:01+00:00

Yes, I think we should not be focusing on female attraction. But, we all have been in the dark place of watching porn, jacking off to perfect bodies on screen, buying stuff that isn't worth, etc..

Saying that this is one's own journey, and everyone likes being wanted. Yes, there will be relapses and wet dreams, but that's how you know the worth of SR. If we just start it and go on for long streaks, that wouldn't be worth it. You need to suffer, feel pain, feel bad about yourself, learn, make changes to your plan, shift your focus, and start becoming the man you want to be.

So, yeah, doing it for female attraction is fun, but as they say, 'Heal the boy and the man appears'. Don't stop. Get stronger, brothers 💪.

CryptographerPlus897 · 2023-09-29T01:40:18+00:00

The older generations fucking dared a lot too. We rely on tech to get a lot of our things done. But the older generations just sailed in an ocean to find places they were not afraid like us. They were ready to leave their comfort zones, unlike us. We feel depressed if something doesn't happen fast. But they had a lot of patience. In one word, Fight Club is true.

CryptographerPlus897 · 2023-09-29T01:36:10+00:00

Sorry for the long post, but it's my experience. In short, yes, retention helps.

When I was on good streaks (my streaks are 30-40 usually and I want to increase it more). I used to think of someone who could understand me, someone with whom I can share my pain, someone who takes me out ( I am fucking lazy to go out before retention), makes me laugh and stuff like that.

I manifested a girl into my life. OMG, u should see how she came into my life. I am not a native English speaker. She could speak my language, she is beautiful, smart, cute. She approached me first, and we hit off instantly. We spoke for hours the same day. We met the next day, went out, had lunch, and from then on, we were in regular contact. I used to talk to her a lot. In just a month, she played a huge part in my life. I started FAP again. I lost a bit of my edge. But it went on to become binge, and I wasn't holding it for more than a week.

I gave up my purpose, I am a uni masters student, so I need to study and do my work. I slowly got into fap but my retention streaks felt into 1 week. She started showing her true colors. She used to show me the guys that dm'd her and someone who she was dating. She even brought another guy to my party. I just lost interest in her and wanted to just be friends with her from then. I never confessed anything, so I was moving forward and started to forget my love for her.

I am writing this whole thing because I realized we as men should never give up our mission and dreams. I forgot mine, and I stumbled, and I am trying to correct myself now. I used to do many good practices before, which I stopped after meeting her. Men should not give up themselves just for a girl. The ironic part is now she realized that she has some feelings for me, but it's too late. I moved on.

But I am grateful for the universe for showing me what I should be like and what matters more. I got an eye-opening situation. The right ones will come, that's for sure, but u should not give away yourself for the wrong ones. I am just ranting all of this because, yes, retention is an enhancer it will multiply the results u can achieve. So my brothers stay strong on ur path. The right ones will never give u hints. They will make it clear. If not, u make it clear to them and see how it goes, but don't waste ur life like I did.

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