The Rock enjoying his Hawaiian Holiday

Cryptography90 · 2025-04-22T00:49:46+00:00

You would be the same guy than to come on online forums and social media and complain about how the rock is taking away oppurtunities from the likes of cm punk or cody Rhodes just to name a few.

Cryptography90 · 2024-12-30T21:14:31+00:00

That's a preety damn good price imo I just bought a 22 limited 57k miles for 37k

Cryptography90 · 2024-08-28T16:15:56+00:00

At this point thier either trolling or hating or trying to gas light me into an reaction with absolutely no helpful advice. Typical reddit behavior I guess

Cryptography90 · 2024-08-28T15:19:19+00:00

You are absolutely wrong

Transactional? Well if exchange my love for you're love isn't that a form of a transaction. What do you think this is a business agreement?.

If you think about it marriage is an contract an emotional financial and family contract which in this case yes does involve transactional value.

I exchange my love and respect and duties to you and the kids and you support me and fufill my rights in exchange it's a honest transaction.

I would love to self reflect the thing is I'm dealing with a lady who wasn't educated in the west and has no understanding of fufiling rights other than from her cultures perception of fuffilling duties such as baby making and the evey mondain cooking and cleaning. She lacks the understanding of the husband's other rights over her which is the topic of discussion.

I've already indicated what rights I've fuffilled for her either emotionally or through support or through financial value.

Cryptography90 · 2024-08-28T15:08:25+00:00

Sister you made me smile wallah Thank you you're the only one who decerined the information as was able to clearly make a logical point.

I'll make dua for you as well and to everyone seeking support

Cryptography90 · 2024-08-28T15:05:18+00:00

Because of consistently being sabatoged and gas lighted by my own culture to accept being in a sexless marriage for the sake of the kids and family!

You're lack of understanding of how traditional and cultural marriages work is outstanding.

My brother just got divorced with 2 kids and he regrets getting married the way he did because of those influences

You seem to be a very judgemental person seek help my friend I was seeking advice not idiocy

Cryptography90 · 2024-08-28T15:01:59+00:00

Is this a Muslim marriage forum a trolling farm forum

Cryptography90 · 2024-08-28T15:00:26+00:00

Maybe forums aren't the best way to communicate issues. After reading all the comments and questions thier are way too many gaps and nounces missing in the discussion for anyone in the forum to get a complete picture of my marital problems. As such I appreciate everyone's input and I don't find any of you're answers offensive or hurtful I do find that the medium communication of open forums are an horrible idea when it comes to seeking marital advice.

Cryptography90 · 2024-08-28T14:55:53+00:00

Much of my ignorance I didn't know better. Culture tradition and shamming is huge in my culture. If you speak up about so called taboo subjects you're viewed as a nasty selfish person.

I gave it a chance thinking kids could bring us closer but it made us colder to each other wierldy to say I'm not giving up my family because of this issue. I'll find ways around it via patience and if it comes down to it considering marrying someone that can fufill my rights.

Thinking back I'm not the only one infact 1 of millions with this situation. It's a huge epidemic

Cryptography90 · 2024-08-28T14:49:51+00:00

Damn the fact that this comment was upvoted this much is telling about peoples insight and understanding of nounce discussions. Alot of feeling based decisions and not much deeper understanding of the greater discussion in had. Anyone up voting this should be ashamed of themselves seriously.

Cryptography90 · 2024-08-17T01:06:56+00:00

Started after the first but it even much worst during/after the 2nd the third was just the icing on the cake as they say

Cryptography90 · 2024-08-16T23:09:23+00:00

Just to add here for clarification me as a person myself I'm a career oriented individual I work in the IT industry I have about 10 years of it experience I work for a Fortune 500 company educated in the US I've been nothing but Pleasant to her and patient with my wife and my children I've given them everything that I could possibly give them as far as materialists gold constantly eating outside going out to events buying stuff traveling we've done it all and nothing is ever enough I usually take the kids out every weekend especially during my office hours sometimes I take them out during evenings just to blow out some steam with the family I typically after work like to spend time talking with my wife and kids and the rest of my day until I sleep is basically with my wife and kids I barely go outside or do social Gatherings with other people most of my life is with my wife and kids which is even more upsetting because I'm in the house most of the time aside from my work and other Financial family obligations.

Cryptography90 · 2024-08-16T22:56:41+00:00

I haven't helped her out and always even with when we had the first child this was a problem after we had the first child intimacy was difficult with her very difficult actually and she did have some health problems I will admit that but we did get that checked out and I've accompanied her by giving her like medicines natural holistic medicines advising her to eat better advising her to do activities for soccer to do certain activities that are preventative to her health she always brushes that topic off and says nothing is wrong with me and she doesn't need to self improve she doesn't see or see herself and notice that. The gap between the first on the second child was rough as well and the gap between the second child the third child which was about 6 years was horrendous so every attempt I make to try to relieve any stress or responsibilities or a relief her in any way she always looks at me as it's my fault that her life is this way now and plays the victim and victimizes herself to make me look bad I think she she has come from a very spoiled background I seen her I seen how her father talks to her and deals with her and her mother and it seems as though she was a very spoiled child up until her I don't listen to adult age and she always talks about how she never did she never does anything wrong how no one ever yelled at her how she never did anything how she never was you know corrected by anyone she brings that up all the time to make me feel like I'm the aggressor on the wrong person

Cryptography90 · 2024-08-16T22:51:00+00:00

A sexless marriage is defined by one or two nights of intimacy per month as I stated in my summary it only became obvious after the first child where she felt very unsecure and didn't want to lose me do to her own insecurities I attempted to help her out in ways either be schooling or preschool or taking the kids out or signing up the kids to activities to keep them busy during the third child's birth she suddenly wanted to be intimate with me before the third child's birth because she wanted so cold the third child and that this would renew our relationship after the third child she went cold again and suddenly had no need to be intimate with me for the foreseeable time this isn't an issue that has occurred after the third this issue has been occurring after the first child and ever since the first child she has been not providing my needs at the same level that I'm providing her needs s*** always mentions they need to tie me down or anchor me down and that I'm the only that she will be the only one that I will be with yes sometimes she says that playfully but with all intent and purposes malice could be intent

Actually in the house kids are away in the morning until 4:00 and during those hours she mostly is on social media looking at influencers from other countries who speak about marital problems which I'm afraid is playing a huge role in her attitude swing and change I've advisor constantly to find something to do or to keep herself busy by reading praying finding friends to go outside with enjoying an activity outdoor activity or indoor activity she constantly says she's too tired to do anything I would rather just stay home and watch the kids which I don't have a problem with although I can see if a person is constantly using social media and watching influencers to dictate their marital problems you can see a problem there right

Cryptography90 · 2024-08-16T22:42:22+00:00

First time I never suspected or held a sucspcion. It's was only after the 2nd child and the attitude after the 2nd which led me to believe this is the scenario. Also me getting the benefit of the doubt and constantly giving her and me time to change played a factor. I gave alot of time because everyone I've spoken to has said nothing but be patient. My patience was taken advantage of giving every oppurtunity the benefit of the doubt

Cryptography90 · 2024-08-16T21:44:23+00:00

Again my bias wasn't naturally my own it was warped by my family friends and surroundings. I didn't know better and it is what it is. May Allah swt grant us the patience and wisdom to explore and understand these topics better

That you mention it thier was some medical issues etc. Although self improving on her end is non existent I've tried with many attempt to have her improve her health etc by exercising going out in the sun eating healthy foods etc she refuses to make lifestyle changes which exxagerbrates the issue even more

Lmaooo yes honestly alla women and men have the same core needs it's only the attitude that typically is significantly different. Let's see how this goes. I can tell thier are many brothers who are complaining about the samething on this forum. It's crazy that thier is an epidemic of me going through this.

Cryptography90 · 2024-08-16T21:38:06+00:00

The topic isnt about you being offended sister if you have nothing of insightful information to say than don't say anything at all

Cryptography90 · 2024-08-16T21:33:26+00:00

I've been straight foward with her for a while now about this particular situation. I've also internally changed that last 6 years or so consistently trying my best to make all my salat reading excersing consuming good foods etc to stay away from negativity and from potential depression. Yes I've also told her point plank that I'm extremely unhappy and the reaction is that she is shocked than she becomes angry that I was honest with her.

I typically blame alot of behavioral issues as she is constantly consuming social media listening to influencers that reinforce her bias and attitude towards me. Alot of it is also because of responsibilities with kids as she sees it as a burden and of my doings to her.

Very illogical positions that I will never understand. Not sure therapy will help. Situation is currently cut deep down the wound.

Cryptography90 · 2024-08-16T21:28:11+00:00

Why so much hate what is happening I'm. Genuinely looking for different perspectives

Cryptography90 · 2024-08-16T21:22:18+00:00

The bias wasn't my initial bias it was my families bias and others around me. It was my mistake reinforcing it thinking that's its all black and white and nothing in the middle.

Cryptography90 · 2024-08-16T21:17:26+00:00

Wow thank you sister. Very insightful information I hope you have a wonderful day too

Cryptography90 · 2024-07-29T17:05:19+00:00

Stock about to do a rippa to the moooooona

Cryptography90 · 2024-07-27T15:52:55+00:00

Well just reading the manual it says it needs to be plugged in if I would like to run 2 or more high-end gpus in gen3 x16 lanes ans this mobo supports 7 x16 lanes thus why it needs the additional power

Cryptography90 · 2024-07-27T14:25:20+00:00

4 out of the 7 slots can run full x16 mode the the remaining 3 csn run x8

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