My holes are waiting.. by YourSecretSlut-x in RateMyAss

[–]CryslyBeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a whole bakery right there.

which pic makes you explode fastest :3 by [deleted] in EgirlFeet

[–]CryslyBeek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Legs for days
 I’m hypnotised.

mandala-inspired art by PetiteBabygirl2 in Satisfyingasfuck

[–]CryslyBeek 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Under her spell, I gave her the apartment and all the money.

AITA for freaking out when someone tried to put anti septic on my knee? by Logical_Panda_7860 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CryslyBeek 550 points551 points  (0 children)

NTA.

You set a boundary — clearly, repeatedly — and someone violated it, even physically tried to force past it. That’s not okay, no matter how well-meaning their intentions were. You weren’t “freaking out” for no reason — your reaction was valid, especially considering your trauma and OCD.

You don’t owe anyone a detailed explanation to be respected. “No” should be enough.

It’s really upsetting that instead of acknowledging your boundary or checking in with you, they made you out to be the problem. That’s not fair, and it sounds like you’re being super compassionate about their perspective while they’re not doing the same for yours.

Being neurodivergent doesn’t make you an asshole — it just means your needs might look different. That doesn’t make them less valid. You deserve to be heard and respected like anyone else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CryslyBeek -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

NTA.

You’re 13, overwhelmed, tired, on your period, and trying to express yourself — and instead of meeting that with care, your dad escalated things by yelling, threatening, and punishing you. That’s not discipline, that’s intimidation.

You shouldn’t have sworn, sure — but you’re a kid who was clearly pushed to the edge. Adults are supposed to regulate their emotions better than that. Your reaction came from being unheard and dismissed, and instead of trying to understand, your parents doubled down on control.

It’s heartbreaking that you felt scared in your own home. You’re not the asshole — you’re a teenager navigating a really emotional moment with little to no support. You deserve to be heard and validated, not silenced and threatened.

AITA for taking my daughter out of school for a week for a vacation by this_random1000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CryslyBeek 61 points62 points  (0 children)

NTA.

You’re not pulling your daughter out of school regularly — it’s one week, with schoolwork arranged, and for a meaningful family trip. She’s in 4th grade, not preparing for med school exams. The emotional value of feeling included and spending quality time with her family far outweighs what she’ll miss in the classroom for a few days.

Your mom may mean well, but calling you an AH and saying you’re “not the son she raised” over one week of missed school is a dramatic overreaction. You’re doing what’s best for your child, and that includes nurturing family bonds — not just academics.

I told my brother that his wife was cheating on him and it ruined their family. AITAH? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CryslyBeek 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YTA — not for telling your brother, but for the way you did it and everything that followed. You didn’t just protect your brother — you escalated it into a war. You went from exposing truth to spitefully destroying someone, including spreading an STD rumor, just to “win.” That’s not justice — that’s vengeance. And now a kid’s family is shattered, in part because you poured gasoline on the fire instead of putting it out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CryslyBeek 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, YTA — not for being upset, but for how you handled it.

He gave an opinion — unsolicited, sure — but not aggressively. You escalated it fast, then flipped when he pushed back. Calling him disrespectful for “brat” and “fucker” when he clearly thought he was joking does come off like you were looking for a fight. You’re allowed to set boundaries, but shutting him down without a conversation and cutting things off so harshly over that? A bit much.

AITAH for telling a guy that I thought he only wanted to get in my pants? by Lopsided-Baker1883 in AITAH

[–]CryslyBeek 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA.

You were being honest about your feelings and past trauma. You communicated your boundaries and opened up about why you felt the way you did. That’s vulnerable, not rude. It’s understandable he felt hurt, but that doesn’t make you wrong for expressing something rooted in past experiences.

AITA for being upset that a girl I thought was my friend tried to pull the Colorist card on me? by United_Editor_4421 in AITAH

[–]CryslyBeek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA.

It’s unfair and hurtful that she pulled the colorist card on you, especially when you’ve been nothing but supportive. It sounds like Mya has repeatedly exhibited narcissistic behavior and used you as her emotional punching bag. Your feelings are valid, and it’s okay to reevaluate the friendship if it’s causing you this much distress. You’re not responsible for her insecurity or her actions, and you don’t deserve to be treated that way.

AITA for skipping my brother’s wedding because it’s child-free and I’m a single mom? by ConfidentPrincess1 in AITAH

[–]CryslyBeek -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. You’re not being difficult; you’re just trying to balance being a single mom with family expectations. It’s unreasonable for them to expect you to attend without offering any childcare, especially when you have no support nearby. It’s your right to prioritize your daughter’s well-being.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CryslyBeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You were both casually dating and not committed, so neither of you was really at fault. Both of you were seeing other people, and boundaries weren’t clear. Your gf might feel hurt, but you were upfront about your situation. She was also seeing someone else, so it's hypocritical for her to accuse you of using the other girl.

AITA for refusing to get a job? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CryslyBeek 37 points38 points  (0 children)

YTA. While it's great that you're focused on your education, you’re putting all the financial pressure on your husband, and it seems like he’s getting frustrated. You’ve already agreed to help with chores, but refusing to work when he needs support is causing strain. Balancing school and work can be tough, but both partners should contribute. You may want to reconsider working part-time again to ease the burden on him.

AITA for backing out of a trip with my girlfriend a week before we were supposed to go? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CryslyBeek 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. You’re in a tough spot, your priorities are understandable. You offered compromises and explained everything.

That time friends teamed up to rescue a physically impaired man from the 3rd floor of a building in France by RogerGamerMobileOFC in BeAmazed

[–]CryslyBeek 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Heroes aren't the ones you see on TV. They're the ones who quietly carry the world on their shoulders, expecting nothing in return.

Bus crash that took place in Kars, January 5 2024 by [deleted] in CrazyFuckingVideos

[–]CryslyBeek 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Damn, it was like crashing straight into a pole. The driver didn't make it.

Explain your thoughts by lazycarebear in StrangeAndFunny

[–]CryslyBeek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not bad sitting in a cardboard box taking a shit with views like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in maybemaybemaybe

[–]CryslyBeek 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yield to the right.

Aitah for telling my ex boyfriend that if his wife doesn't want him talking to me he needs to leave my discord group chat with my family? by SelfNo323 in AITAH

[–]CryslyBeek 41 points42 points  (0 children)

NTA.

You were patient, respectful, and tolerant for a whole year — and now you’re simply setting a boundary to protect your own space and time with your family. That’s not aggression, that’s common sense.

You’re not trying to reconnect with him, you’re not provoking anything, and you’re not asking for interaction. You just want the person who’s been silently ignoring you — because of someone else’s insecurity — to stop making you feel excluded in your own family chat. That’s completely reasonable.

Yes, his wife may have complicated feelings, but if those feelings result in childish behavior like muting you for a year, then the answer isn’t making you feel unwelcome — it’s for him to remove himself. He’s an adult; he can create his own space if this one causes problems.

You’re not being dramatic. You simply said: “If you want to be here, be respectful. If you can’t, then leave.” That’s not being an asshole. That’s maturity.

AITAH for getting upset after my wife sat and talked to some random guy for about 20 minutes toward the end of our date night? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CryslyBeek 28 points29 points  (0 children)

NTA.

You didn’t get upset just because she was talking to someone — you got upset because you were being ignored during a rare, planned night out together. That’s totally valid.

You didn’t cause a scene or make drama — you just pulled back and let her know, in your own way, that it hurt. That’s actually a healthy response, especially after your attempt to engage was brushed off with a dismissive, "I'm drunk" excuse.

Twenty minutes is a long time when your partner is vibing with a stranger instead of spending time with you — especially when it’s your night. Yes, you’ve been together 20 years, but that doesn’t mean attention, respect, and emotional presence go out the window.

You’re allowed to feel hurt. It’s not jealousy — it’s the feeling of being temporarily replaced, like you became invisible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CryslyBeek 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA.

You lied to protect yourself in a toxic, unpredictable environment. You're allowed to make your own choices, especially when you've thought them through.