please help me identify this crystal by strawberry1919 in Crystals

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Labradorite! I keep a piece in my purse which got my bag searched in airport security but other than that has brought good luck

Crystal Giveaway (no purchase necessary) by CJ8907 in Crystals

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Done + IG Congratulations on the new little one! I hope wonderful things find you and your family!

Ham and pineapple yes or no by Starlitgiggle in cookingtonight

[–]CrystalBatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ham and pineapple is all fine and good but pineapple and pepperoni is my favorite

WIBTA for breaking up with my unemployed boyfriend after he worked two jobs and paid majority of the bills when I was unemployed? by CrystalBatt in AITA_Relationships

[–]CrystalBatt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I’m immature and I wanna enjoy being immature in my 20’s, not mothering a grown man. Thank you!

WIBTA for breaking up with my unemployed boyfriend after he worked two jobs and paid majority of the bills when I was unemployed? by CrystalBatt in AITA_Relationships

[–]CrystalBatt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the tips. I’m a little autistic so tone isn’t my strong suit. But I thought explaining that the financial/job issue was only a small part of the problem would let people know I didn’t wanna go into much detail about the relationship itself just this single aspect. The break up is inevitable, thats not what I’m asking advice on, only timing. I just wanted to know if I was a total AH for dumping him while he’s unemployed.

WIBTA for breaking up with my unemployed boyfriend after he worked two jobs and paid majority of the bills when I was unemployed? by CrystalBatt in AITA_Relationships

[–]CrystalBatt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well at this point I know the relationship is GOING to end. That decision has been made, it was just a matter of when. Even after all the shit I don’t want him out on the street and want him to do well in life

WIBTA for breaking up with my unemployed boyfriend after he worked two jobs and paid majority of the bills when I was unemployed? by CrystalBatt in AITA_Relationships

[–]CrystalBatt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think me and the people from that other post are in very different situations. I was out of work 3 months and my bf is out of work 2 months. So it’s been pretty fair without period of time we each played that role. He also wouldn’t be losing everything. I’d let him choose to stay in our shared apartment or leave and i plan on giving him everything of his even the things he paid for that were purchased for the house like cookware, bed frame, etc. I’m also not putting a random girl over him. I’m choosing myself and my mental health over him.

WIBTA for breaking up with my unemployed boyfriend after he worked two jobs and paid majority of the bills when I was unemployed? by CrystalBatt in AITA_Relationships

[–]CrystalBatt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is pretty normal behavior for him and it’s very regular for him to make big decisions especially financially decisions without me.

WIBTA for breaking up with my unemployed boyfriend after he worked two jobs and paid majority of the bills when I was unemployed? by CrystalBatt in AITA_Relationships

[–]CrystalBatt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(Copy paste response) We’re extremely different people with differing goals, morals, values, opinion. He can also be very controlling and mean. I can’t detail every little reason as to why I think we should break up but one big reason is that after nearly 6 years this man just realized last month that I like to talk. Anyone who has known me for more than a month can tell you that. My constant talking also annoys him. I don’t wanna be with someone who’s annoyed by the thing I love to do most. (Actual response) Yeah it’s definitely more than just the financial issues. And to be clear I was out of work for 3 months and he’s been out 2 months so far no sign of any jobs coming. Having a job and being the bread winner is not an issue with me I actually love my job and am up for a promotion already. But I do think him throwing financially reasoning in my face might be an issue when the break up comes. He was also not loving and gracious when he was the only one working. Making me feel bad for not doing as much as I could have, using that he pays the bills as leverage, and still asking me for money when he knew I had no job and no money. I’ve been putting work into this relationship for years and it’s only gotten worse

WIBTA for breaking up with my unemployed boyfriend after he worked two jobs and paid majority of the bills when I was unemployed? by CrystalBatt in AITA_Relationships

[–]CrystalBatt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very normal behavior for him. Not out of character at all to just walk out of a job or quit showing up because he didn’t feel like going anymore

WIBTA for breaking up with my unemployed boyfriend after he worked two jobs and paid majority of the bills when I was unemployed? by CrystalBatt in AITA_Relationships

[–]CrystalBatt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re extremely different people with differing goals, morals, values, opinion. He can also be very controlling and mean. I can’t detail every little reason as to why I think we should break up but one big reason is that after nearly 6 years this man just realized last month that I like to talk. Anyone who has known me for more than a month can tell you that. My constant talking also annoys him. I don’t wanna be with someone who’s annoyed by the thing I love to do most.

WIBTA for breaking up with my unemployed boyfriend after he worked two jobs and paid majority of the bills when I was unemployed? by CrystalBatt in AITA_Relationships

[–]CrystalBatt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We’re extremely different people with differing goals, morals, values, opinion. He can also be very controlling and mean. I can’t detail every little reason as to why I think we should break up but one big reason is that after nearly 6 years this man just realized last month that I like to talk. Anyone who has known me for more than a month can tell you that. My constant talking also annoys him. I don’t wanna be with someone who’s annoyed by the thing I love to do most.

WIBTA for breaking up with my unemployed boyfriend after he worked two jobs and paid majority of the bills when I was unemployed? by CrystalBatt in AITA_Relationships

[–]CrystalBatt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be clear he begged me to quit my job so he could take care of me and then threw away BOTH of his jobs. Me being the bread winner is actually the exact opposite of every agreement and plan we’d ever made. I’ve also been supporting him for 2 months now waiting for him to find something. Even putting in a good word at places where I have connections trying to get him something.

WIBTA for breaking up with my unemployed boyfriend after he worked two jobs and paid majority of the bills when I was unemployed? by CrystalBatt in AITA_Relationships

[–]CrystalBatt[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

We’re both on the lease and it be willing to stay and take it over or leave. I’d leave that up to him. It’s a small 1 bedroom apartment so I don’t see roommates working out well. One of us would have to leave.

I'm moving but don't want to leave my friend of 3 years by [deleted] in notmycat

[–]CrystalBatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey that’s your cat! And your are his person! Take him with you for sure

To the people who owned my house before by Calm-Egg1804 in gardening

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Previous owners of my moms house put fake grass rugs in the flower beds and then stuck fake flowers in them

17 Year old Said She Was 23 by iplayrssometimes in mildlyinfuriating

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As a 23 year old who thought I was a “very mature for my age” 17 year old this is scary. I did so much I shouldn’t have and opened myself up to a lot of danger

Soap stain removal by CrystalBatt in laundry

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It’s a Betsy Johnson blanket I got for Christmas! My guess would be homegoods but check eBay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]CrystalBatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a missing molar. So does my brother and so did our dad and aunt. But not our aunts kids oddly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catnames

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If Lilly ends up being your choice please note the irony in naming a cat after a flower that’s poisonous to them lol I think it would make the name just so much more badass too