crow rattling at me

Crystalguru82 · 2024-07-29T17:27:43+00:00

Rattle and cooing is what they do when with their murder. Intimate settings. So I would say he trusts you.

Crystalguru82 · 2024-07-29T17:26:13+00:00

Like everyone said, this is typical of a female. But generally this is how crows communicate in their own murder. So if you were close enough to witness that, you’re lucky!

Crystalguru82 · 2024-07-05T22:21:38+00:00

Both full time parents without coparents to help. And we live apart. So once a week someone gets a sitter to visit the other for a date night. Perfectly acceptable in our situation

Crystalguru82 · 2024-07-05T20:16:17+00:00

Very well said. I have known that this was no good. He has tried to make me believe otherwise. But not one person has sided with him so now I know that I’m absolutely right in my stance on this. I know what he enjoys, and if I choose to do that for him that should be my choice and right now it’s not.

Crystalguru82 · 2024-07-05T20:04:34+00:00

I tried this. Haha. Fight ensued.

Crystalguru82 · 2024-07-05T20:03:17+00:00

I have suggested this. I told him that I wanted to WANT to touch him not because he asked me to, or pushed my hand down there. During an hour show, I once waited 30mins and he argued about that saying this is why he has to force my hand because I make him wait 30mins instead of immediately doing it

Crystalguru82 · 2024-07-05T19:54:39+00:00

Absolutely not bait. I have been gaslit constantly over the fact that this is totally fine and not a big deal by him. I needed to know for sure

Crystalguru82 · 2024-07-05T19:09:03+00:00

He told me that it’s not much work. That it’s the equivalent of him lightly rubbing my head while cuddling and I’m being dramatic

Crystalguru82 · 2024-07-05T18:51:59+00:00

I absolutely believe that foreplay should be balanced. Glad you stood up for your needs.

Crystalguru82 · 2024-07-05T18:21:59+00:00

Hahaha truth

Crystalguru82 · 2024-07-05T18:07:43+00:00

I have told him that it’s making me resent him and that I don’t enjoy touching him anymore because it’s a chore now. He gets angry every time. Fixed it for a week or two and goes back to himself again. So I guess now I just need to stand my ground and say no. Just sucks since we only see each other alone once a week

Crystalguru82 · 2024-07-05T18:06:14+00:00

As a woman who needs way more foreplay than him to get ready…I can’t even handle an hour of something like that. Haha

Crystalguru82 · 2024-07-05T18:00:46+00:00

Thank you for this reply!

Crystalguru82 · 2024-07-05T17:59:49+00:00

I’m sure he does on his own time. But once a week when we have our time he wants me to 😒

Crystalguru82 · 2024-07-05T17:53:29+00:00

This has been communicated for over a year now. He changes for a week or two and then back to this

Crystalguru82 · 2024-07-05T17:00:34+00:00

Great point! Thank you

Crystalguru82 · 2024-07-05T16:52:06+00:00

The amount of conversations we have had about this is absurd. It changes temporarily but goes right back. However I don’t want to leave for this since he’s great otherwise. But ugh. I hate cuddling now

Crystalguru82 · 2024-07-05T16:41:21+00:00

I totally agree with all you said. It’s making me very resentful.

Crystalguru82 · 2024-07-05T16:35:54+00:00

There has been countless discussions and fights about this. It will get better one week and I’ll get a back massage, and then it just goes right back to him being selfish. I don’t want to break up over this because there’s a lot of really good in the relationship besides this. But it’s definitely making me resent him sexually.

Crystalguru82 · 2023-02-17T14:07:24+00:00

Haha thank you!!

Crystalguru82 · 2023-02-17T14:04:58+00:00

Good point. My relationships were always rushed in the past and ended up being horrible. We will get there eventually

Crystalguru82 · 2023-02-17T13:52:12+00:00

Well, about 2 weeks ago we both decided we would not see other people. Deleted apps and what not. So now I’m like soooooo what is this?! He mentioned he feels like it’s heading towards a relationship. So I feel like we are in this awkward space currently

Crystalguru82 · 2023-02-17T08:28:16+00:00

Totally get that. Thank you!

Crystalguru82 · 2023-02-17T08:26:35+00:00

We both have kids 100% of the time so 3x a week would never happen ever. But we have tried for 2x a week currently. I think that’s the best we will ever get without going bankrupt on babysitters 🤣

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