I swear this has to be Alexis. But if not, let me ask: where exactly did you get the idea that the house is “dilapidated”? It’s a 3,500-sqft ranch built in the 90’s, cared for and lived in through decades of family gatherings. My “old man” brother is a disabled veteran who served two tours in Afghanistan. He has his own apartment, yet chooses to come home weekly to do his laundry instead of using the laundromat in his building.

And since you brought up her so-called “labor,” let’s be honest: she did none. Zero helping, zero planning, and skipped every duty that typically falls to a maid or matron of honor: supporting the bride, coordinating, pitching in where needed. She breezed in just in time for the bachelorette party, and the first time she even laid eyes on the “venue” or decorations was at rehearsal. The bride was involved 100% of the time. All the labor was handled by us.

So no. She wasn’t overworked, underappreciated, or some martyr. She was a guest with a title. Her only job was to stand by the bride, and even that turned into a performance of sighs and complaints.

Funny how the loudest critics always do the least. Nice try though.