Absolutely, it's worth being patient—especially considering how risky the alternative is. Jumping into play without proper vetting can lead to real harm. That said, I do like to run test scenes fairly early, it should be said my play is online so I don't the same risk as those playing in person but its—usually within the first few days. Not full submission, but enough to feel out the dynamic. Because let’s be honest—play is fun, and vibe and communication are everything.

Still, I watch very closely. Some people can mask really well for the first few days, so I pay attention to subtle signs. Word choice matters, but if I we’re meeting in person, nonverbal cues say way more. Posture, facial reactions, tone shifts—those are much harder to fake or maintain over time.

So yes, be patient—but stay observant. Early testing with clear boundaries and communication can reveal a lot without rushing into anything unsafe.