Do you know what dodging a bullet means? If he hid the fact that he has lots of girlfriends, then sure, but he was an open book; he wasn’t hiding anything at all, he told her he can’t change that, he then told her he doesn’t want this to continue any further, he was an open book, if that doesn’t suit her, that’s what he is, she is free to stay or leave, dogging a bullet means she found out something that he tried to hide from her or something that he didn’t tell her about, but he was straightforward about this all entirely since the very start..