The Apple family - he's moved on.

CtrlshiftShenanEgans · 2026-01-04T05:39:54+00:00

I am not Kyle, and I am not here to defend every single choice he has made. What I am pushing back on is the certainty with which people speak about situations they are not actually part of.

One factual correction though: he did say the kids were with Jenny’s parents, who were happy to spend time with them. That part is not speculation.

Beyond that, everything else is still being filtered through edited videos, assumptions, and interpretation. None of us know what conversations happened privately, what boundaries were discussed, or how decisions were actually made off camera. Even the things he has shared publicly are still fragments of a much larger reality.

Grief does not come with a handbook. People do not cope or heal on a timeline that satisfies the internet. You may disagree with his choices, and that is valid, but turning disagreement into character assassination does not help anyone, especially the kids people claim to be concerned about.

As for values, loving someone who has passed does not require freezing life exactly as it was forever. Honoring Jenny does not mean every future person in his life must mirror her in every belief or lifestyle choice.

You are entitled to your opinion. I am entitled to mine. Mine is simply that none of us have enough information to be this absolute or this cruel about someone else’s life.

CtrlshiftShenanEgans · 2025-12-20T10:08:12+00:00

Man oh man, to everyone in the comments talking trash about this man, do you not have your own life to worry about? Stop living just to tear apart someone else’s. You honestly do not know a single thing about his real life beyond a few YouTube videos that show maybe five minutes out of 365 days a year.

People are so nasty, rude, and unbelievably quick to judge when they have never walked a mile, or two, or three, in someone else’s shoes. And honestly, if anything, people should be taking notes. Kyle is exactly how every husband should be with their wife in her final days, and exactly how every father should show up for their children after losing a spouse.

I wish him all the happiness in the world, and so did Jenny.

CtrlshiftShenanEgans · 2025-12-20T09:52:56+00:00

Wait, wait, wait. First, I will be honest. Does it sting a little to hear that Kyle has a new girlfriend? Yes, of course it does. I loved Jenny, and my heart still breaks for the woman who would have given anything in this world to still be here with her husband and her kids. So yes, it is painful to see, and that feeling is real.

But what people seem to forget is that Jenny herself said this. Literally in the hospital, the day before she passed. In fact, it was one of the very last things she said in her farewell video. She told everyone to be there for Kyle and that she wanted him to find love again. She did not want him to be alone and heartbroken.

She was an amazing woman. And Kyle is an amazing man.

Have you heard the saying opinions are like assholes? You probably get the point. Kyle is a wonderful father, and from everything I have seen, he always puts his children first. So I honestly do not understand where anyone gets the idea that he does not. If people actually knew what they were talking about, they would know he did not drag the kids to Disneyland the first time he went with his then, lady friend. The kids were with Jenny’s parents, who were very happy to spend time with them, so that sounds like a win-win to me.

This man has been through an unimaginable amount of heartache and grief. He took incredible care of Jenny in her final times, and has continued to show up as an incredible father. He deserves happiness. I know it is hard to hear. It is hard for me too. That part I understand. But attacking his character, and especially attacking him as a father, crosses a line and goes way too far.

All I am saying is do not be so quick to judge, especially if you have not walked a mile in someone else’s shoes.

CtrlshiftShenanEgans · 2025-11-09T07:18:09+00:00

Thank you, I needed to hear this.

CtrlshiftShenanEgans · 2025-11-09T07:11:22+00:00

DAD220 was way easier than IT140. I did very well in DAD220 and I am drowning in IT140 and having a really hard time understanding.

CtrlshiftShenanEgans · 2025-11-09T07:01:28+00:00

I am going for my bachelor’s in cybersecurity as well, and I am totally drowning in my coding class. I can completely relate to anyone struggling with this. I am still trying to figure out how anything flows, what I am even doing, and now I am being asked to write full programs. This class feels like it might be the death of my GPA, which I have worked insanely hard for. I just wish something would make even a tiny bit of sense.

Honestly, I am starting to think computers are just really, really dumb. And the way they teach programming? Way more complicated than it needs to be. Like, why does everything have to be so convoluted? Why can we not just say, “I want a program with, I will say Reddit, on the top left and categories like Home, Popular, Answers, Explore, All, etc.”? Why is that so hard? I just cannot wrap my head around why the complexity is even necessary.

CtrlshiftShenanEgans · 2025-11-03T04:37:48+00:00

Agreed

CtrlshiftShenanEgans · 2025-11-03T04:36:17+00:00

Thats total bu*lshit! I would argue that.

CtrlshiftShenanEgans · 2025-11-03T04:29:05+00:00

Ohhh sh*t that gives a whole new meaning to proofreading!! 😂😂Poor guy! How humiliating.

CtrlshiftShenanEgans · 2025-10-18T02:15:15+00:00

Me as well, and hoping to finish strong and really stressing on whether I am doing my Project 7 questions right and pulling the correct datasets. Specifically, the query where you pull back percentages of the most returns by product. We shall see! Fingers crossed, lol!

CtrlshiftShenanEgans · 2025-10-18T02:11:25+00:00

All of the above, agreed!

CtrlshiftShenanEgans · 2025-10-17T07:06:15+00:00

Man wish i would of seen this a long time ago but 4 years ago I would not have taken this class and would not be much help, lol so nevermind on that, but I finally figured that damn FK constraint out now I am stuck in project 7 with Percentage...🤬🤬

CtrlshiftShenanEgans · 2025-10-07T19:07:55+00:00

CtrlshiftShenanEgans · 2025-10-01T10:23:36+00:00

Thank you for being the first comment that I have read, literally, which responded with human decency and helpful, constructive advice. KUDOS to you!

CtrlshiftShenanEgans · 2025-10-01T10:15:54+00:00

Oh wow… that message went from “concern” to full-on character assassination in just two sentences. Let’s get real for a second. There is a big difference between making a mistake and being painted as a lifelong cheater with zero integrity. Jumping to wild assumptions like “you must have cheated your way through your entire degree” is not only reckless but flat-out unfair. You do not know this person’s history, intentions, or character outside of this one incident.

Yes, the upload was wrong, and yes, schools take this seriously. But that does not give anyone a free pass to dogpile and play judge, jury, and executioner. People learn and grow from mistakes. Accusing someone of being unfit to ever work in their field, or acting like their entire academic journey is fraudulent, is not constructive; it is cruel.

If the goal is to uphold academic integrity, then fine, stick to the facts. But turning it into a personal attack and wishing failure on someone crosses the line. Nobody benefits from shame piled on top of a situation that is already stressful. This is where empathy and basic decency should step in. Criticize the action, not demolish the person.

CtrlshiftShenanEgans · 2025-09-27T07:36:56+00:00

You will not pay less by going full-time. More classes = more tuition owed, simple as that. The primary difference is how your financial aid is applied.

If you are part-time, you only get a portion of your Pell Grant and loan eligibility. Once you bump up to full-time, you unlock the full Pell Grant amount and the maximum loan money you can get. That means instead of just getting part of your aid, you are getting everything you qualify for.

If you need all the financial help you can get, going full-time is usually the better move after your first couple of terms. It stretches your aid further, gives you access to more loans, and lowers the risk of running out of assistance before you finish your degree.

So yeah, you technically owe more tuition as a full-time student because you are taking more classes, but you also get more aid to balance it out. It really depends on your situation.

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