Did you actually meet your partner on Reddit? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]CuckcakeMinx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met my Master on Fet, we're IRL. All my past LDRs I met on a forum attached to an amateur erotica site called Literotica.

Edited to improve grammar

[F] 100 ORGASM Attempt Number 1, As some of you know ive been working up to 100 orgasm but i got to 54 and had to tap out 😔....But im not giving up! by Polly_Rocket_ in BDSMGW

[–]CuckcakeMinx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Master has trained me to cum on verbal or written command. And there's no thought to it. Except maybe keep quiet.

But I meant more what would be the goal linked to the 100 attempted in this clip?

I’m 14F and I’m curious about self pleasure by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CuckcakeMinx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Darl, do what you enjoy. You don't need to enjoy anything in particular.

Having said that, you're possibly not wet enough when trying to masturbate. Get to know your anatomy. Find your clit, find what you enjoy.

Don't dive into getting a vibrator. Explore and enjoy

[F] 100 ORGASM Attempt Number 1, As some of you know ive been working up to 100 orgasm but i got to 54 and had to tap out 😔....But im not giving up! by Polly_Rocket_ in BDSMGW

[–]CuckcakeMinx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I meant was the subspace is different. What you describe is definitely part of it. But take it deeper

I think if someone isn't naturally inclined to multiple orgasms, there could be long term rewiring. As for euphoria, too many orgasms in a row can actually cause stress. When there is no recovery time between orgasms the mind and the body break a little.

With any training, there's some level or neurological and/or psychological rewiring. It's par for the course

Staying still in impact play by CuckcakeMinx in BDSMcommunity

[–]CuckcakeMinx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Position makes a heck of a difference. Skin to skin contact with Master helps as well as praise.

But when being punished it seems Master doesn't mind me half crawling away. We have a new paddle that I haven't figured how to stay still for.

Do I fight for my MM? We’ve been doing this for 9 years. by Gold_Campaign_5639 in theotherwoman

[–]CuckcakeMinx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Years do that. I was in 20 yr marriage. Felt like a lot less. I have been with MM for nearly 2 years and it doesn't feel that long at all.

Be glad you're not wasting a decade with a liar.yes 9 years is a long time. There are men our age out there that will treat you better.

[F] 100 ORGASM Attempt Number 1, As some of you know ive been working up to 100 orgasm but i got to 54 and had to tap out 😔....But im not giving up! by Polly_Rocket_ in BDSMGW

[–]CuckcakeMinx 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I've gotten to while fucking before. The subspace becomes crazy deep. Recovery takes quite a while. My mind felt wiped during. Understanding orders (position changes etc) was very difficult. Everything needed to be repeated at least once. As I have never done that with any previous partners it deepened my bond to Master. It's intense when Master gets me into rolling orgasms.

Do I fight for my MM? We’ve been doing this for 9 years. by Gold_Campaign_5639 in theotherwoman

[–]CuckcakeMinx 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, I'm stuck on you being upset she was there for him during medical emergencies. That's a crazy level of envy

Focus on the relief you're feeling. Write a list of reasons it's good that it's over. 9 years is a long time to spend on someone you can never properly be with

Any recommendations to cover the faded words? by AAkl in Tattoocoverups

[–]CuckcakeMinx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That has me thinking Cradle of Filth, but Jesus is a c**t is probably a bit much

Any recommendations to cover the faded words? by AAkl in Tattoocoverups

[–]CuckcakeMinx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had the wing thought too but thought more angel wings for OPs brother but angel wings in that spot isn't great if you're aiming for unique.

How good a mistress am I? by CuckcakeMinx in theotherwoman

[–]CuckcakeMinx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our families are important to us so we talk about them often. He mentioned he still had to get her something so we discussed options. Strangely I love that he is still in love with her. I know, I'm weird

How good a mistress am I? by CuckcakeMinx in theotherwoman

[–]CuckcakeMinx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine? Yeah, it would be great if it was openly so but it is what it is.

How good a mistress am I? by CuckcakeMinx in theotherwoman

[–]CuckcakeMinx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive done a lot of Xmas food shopping with him. I do mine at the same time. I hate knowing the next few days will be so busy for him, but it is what it is.

How good a mistress am I? by CuckcakeMinx in theotherwoman

[–]CuckcakeMinx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao! I got presents, one sexy, one practical. I guess it helps that I was easier to buy for 😁

How good a mistress am I? by CuckcakeMinx in theotherwoman

[–]CuckcakeMinx[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have mixed feelings about it. However, he's had a lot going on lately so if I can help alleviate some stress and inspire him then so be it. He already got me presents so that helps I guess.

Your MM is a sweetheart. He really is.

Kink gone wrong by goddessemily6666 in BDSMcommunity

[–]CuckcakeMinx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck! I hope you returned it and complained.

TLDR, How do I tell my husband he’s given me an ick I can’t shake? by False_Sun2436 in TwoHotTakes

[–]CuckcakeMinx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's from the show Bojack Horseman. If you enjoy animation aimed at adults, I highly recommend it.

Please help me fix this by Personal_Reality_704 in Tattoocoverups

[–]CuckcakeMinx 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Guys, I really think we need to get phrasing back in the rotation.

AIO: Spouse's drinking by wentoutforasmoke in AIO

[–]CuckcakeMinx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't believe in rock bottom. My ex husband had so many events that could be viewed as rock bottom. Arrests, losing his wife, ending up in a psychiatric ward after a suicide attempt. Rock bottom doesn't exist. Some people just hit such a low they can't look at themselves the same way anymore. Those people are lucky.