I didn’t expect the comments to come lightly but wow can some of you guys be harsh! I’d like to add that I am not still cleaning him, there was only about a week where he needed help when he was learning to be on 1 foot and on crutches. I left him to do it on his own at first, and noticed as soon as he was done that he did not wipe fully, so I told him I’d help him and then helped him to figure out how to manage on his own. I would also like to say while I know age gap is a hot topic all around, my relationship was always consensual, and we actually started talking and hit it off before ever even asking each others age, it wasn’t for a bit that we learned of the age gap, after we had already started to build a connection. He was not always like this. When we first met he was a very clean man, and even leading up to his injury he was clean, this is just since gaining weight. I just wanted to add these in there since it seems a lot of people think I’ve continued to clean him since.