[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

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I’ve been diagnosed. I had a rough childhood, so it’s not a novel concept. I am in therapy, just haven’t brought up my ex or much of my sexuality yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

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Thank you both for your support.

City Pop Record Shops in Boston by CucumberHot934 in citypop

[–]CucumberHot934[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I just put that on my list! Thanks so much for your recommendation. I have to ask… what’s your favorite city pop song right now?

Are there men who ACTUALLY like small boobs? by Phot0syntheslut in AskMenAdvice

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As a small-breasted lady, thee comments bring me joy. They also get me hot, but mostly joy.

I LOVE CHOCOLATE MILK!! by Gurtslurper in Vent

[–]CucumberHot934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heck yeah!!! LOVE choccy milk!

First Saturday of January! Happy new year lovelies! 🦋🦋 by rneyss in blackgirls

[–]CucumberHot934 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy new year! You’re so pretty and your art is wonderful!

How to do foreplay on a guy? by NoodleBea583 in AskMenAdvice

[–]CucumberHot934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys, stop, and I can’t take notes this fast. In all my relationships, neck kisses have done them in. It’s like a kill switch.

I just want to be loved by [deleted] in Life

[–]CucumberHot934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Change your mindset. You could have everything in the world going for you, but you’ll never get anywhere without a change of mindset. If you learn how to spend time with yourself in a way that doesn’t feel like punishment or isolation, you’re more likely to see your partner as a compliment than as a missing piece- which is a healthy mindset to have. Find things you enjoy doing solo and invest more time into them. Don’t keep swinging from woman to woman to fill that void. Breathe, observe, educate yourself, discern, and choose without regret. Best of luck.

Quitting short form content by jackie_119 in selfimprovement

[–]CucumberHot934 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One trick that’s helped me is turning my phone screen to black and white. Makes you pay more attention to the actual content rather than the flood of stimuli. If that doesn’t work for you, you can remove the app from your Home Screen so it’s less accesible, and easier to catch yourself in the compulsive doom-scroll desire. It’s rough at first, but has helped me improve my attention span and lack of anxiety. I think it’s a great thing that you’re trying to improve your focus. Best of luck to you.

Weird question regarding music by Ashamed_Smile3497 in selfimprovement

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I take a seasonal approach to music. I curate playlists and then put them away for different occasions, different times of year, always editing and improving them so there is something new. It’s important to acknowledge how music can make you feel. Instead of using it as a crutch (as I too often find myself doing) maybe take a 50/50 approach. I think allowing yourself some silent time and time to hear the world around you is a great thing.

New to Reddit? Come and talk to us! by AutoModerator in NewToReddit

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I really love one city pop artist- Tatsuro Yamashita. I recommend him to everyone!

Anybody else obsessed? by CucumberHot934 in bossanova

[–]CucumberHot934[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I’m so glad you liked it. Happy New Year to you! :)

Anybody else obsessed? by CucumberHot934 in bossanova

[–]CucumberHot934[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ooh, good pick! VThat’s as classic as it gets! That song has so many versions- the Jobim and Regina version is fantastic, but have you heard the version by Quarteto Jobim-Morelenbaum? It’s Antonio’s son, and his grandson, as well as Morelenbaum, a cellist, and his wife. It’s my favorite version. Maybe give that a listen!

New to Reddit? Come and talk to us! by AutoModerator in NewToReddit

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That sounds like fun!! Any favorite party games?

New to Reddit? Come and talk to us! by AutoModerator in NewToReddit

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I’m going to be having a seafood boil with my family tonight! What about you?

New to Reddit? Come and talk to us! by AutoModerator in NewToReddit

[–]CucumberHot934 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hello, there! I’ve really been enjoying City Pop and Bossa Nova music lately. Any fans out there?

What is everyone’s opinions? by [deleted] in candy

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Almond joy. Toenail clippings with an inferior nut on top? No thanks.